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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/16/2009 10:50:28 PM | | WooHoo WooHoo - women wearing nothing but baby oil and glitter pillow fighting - life just got a whole lot better!!! I'm off to have a long cold shower......before I head out this evening to go around the neighbourhood to test this news. If I look into your window, don't be alarmed - I'm just doing scientific research.... | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/17/2009 6:52:40 PM | ^^^^^^^^Wow baby oil and glitter ok I've taken a mental note..............you sure can learn alot about people on these forums..................
Re Message 30 below - Five years younger isn't such a big stretch but the OP is 20 years old and say he was interested in me hypothetically - well it would just be wrong! I mean I'm getting very close to 50.................LOL. | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/17/2009 6:56:54 PM |
I'm talking about friendships, relationships, just a chat, or a shoulder to lean on.
Recently I've noticed I am attracted to older women, not for one night stands, not for any childish fantasy, but to seriously get to know someone and take part in a relationship, whether it be friendship or more.
Sex aside, there is never anything wrong in finding good friends of all ages and both sexes. You get a more balanced view of the world through the eyes of experience if you care to listen and learn.
Do older women actually fancy quite younger men? Only in fantasies !! Having said that, my late husband was 5 years younger than me. Married for 30 years the gap was never an issue. | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/17/2009 11:08:52 PM | hi there!!! i have spoken to you before and hope you are well, i fancy younger men if they are mature enough to communicate with effectively. at my advanced age i have found that the younger ones are prettier and dont seem to have the same hang ups as the older ones do. this can be refreshing but can also be annoying at times as we have had our experiences of life and been there done that at the same as younger ones are just going through it. i have seen a 30 yr old and we got along famously, seemed to be on the same level, but as it turned out he was just going through what i had already been through 15 yrs before. we all go through many metamorphisis in life and its easier to be with someone who has been through them all compared to someone who is just going through them. cheers mate, hope all goes well for you | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/19/2009 7:32:07 AM |
mmm might have to call your bluff on that
Nah, see it's a chicks only thing. Honour among gf's ... what happens at the pillow fight, stays at the pillow fight.
Don't lie woman.................
We wear baby oil and glitter.
...ok forget I spoke. 
So where are all these cougars that supposedly frequent these forums...there's a young male OP asking about older women and he has not yet been pounced upon.
*the crowd stamps their feet and demands entertainment* | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/19/2009 9:51:43 AM |
So where are all these cougars that supposedly frequent these forums...
At your service, ma'am.
Thank you everyone that has posted, I honestly appreciate it, I guess I won't find a lady much older than me...
But doesn't hurt to look I guess.
Firstly, I assume by older you mean by 5+ years? It wouldn't be much more than that because at your age you count in dog years, right?
But OP, I don't see why you should give up! I dated someone aged 20 when I was 25. So there you go... freakish connections between two humans do occur from time to time.
As far as my own middle-aged cougarishness goes... sure, I like young men. I like to watch them work in my garden. If you own a lawn mower or whippersnipper you're welcome to come around to my place anytime. A shirt is not a requirement and Bonds singlets are optional... Make sure you work real slow on the bit of grass outside of my kitchen window. And please pause there for stretch breaks often. You see, those pecs need flexing every so often or they'll just cramp up.
Trust me. I know these things. Coz I'm old and very, very wise. | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/29/2009 6:31:06 PM | I am one of those women that think OMG!!never! And I have to say was very judgemental about those women that did chase younger men. And would think things like 'cradle snatcher' 'mutton chasing lamb' 'dirty old bag' I never even looked at anyone more than 5 years younger or more than 5 years older. Anymore than that is too hard a bridge to gap. There are somethings that you can only learn by living life and I would worry that I would hinder his growth as a person.
Fast forward today. A younger man recently propositioned me. I thought he was kidding lol!still do! I say to him-I think you got the wrong person!Do you see that I am old! Go away and play with someone else!!I'm too old for this kind of carry on!! And I feel guilty even entertaining this idea. So I don't. I think we are not compatible on any level except ONE. But if that is what I was after I could find that with someone my own age.
And though it is flattering that a younger man likes me and reckons that he could grow old with an older woman. And possibly I could have alot of fun, I resist. it's just too much work. I'd feel like I was babysitting until he grew up!!! | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/29/2009 7:40:46 PM | | I think that maybe a man should answer this one or would do it better, however in I plunge , deep end or nothing. I could weep for the sentiments the OP expressed about, roughly quoting here , 'someone to be a friend with , to chat to etc' because that is what makes a relationship between the sexes so good (obviously he can't be so naive as to not expect some sexual manoevres) ... it's that sort of friendliness and respect that we cougars became cougars for ! The average same ole age bloke has lost, somewhere along the line that actual 'love' of women and if I thought he could keep it, then there in the future would be a lovely sexy man! | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/29/2009 7:42:22 PM | Go for it girl! It worked for me for 32 yrs and the age difference didn't matter at all. Only problem is that now I have nothing in common with people my own age  | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/30/2009 10:47:25 PM | | For real Aphrodite???!!!32 years-well isn't that a testament to you being young at heart and perhaps your sexual prowess!!! but I least now I have a different perspective in the 'older woman-younger man' relationship. My advice to others is-if you STILL got it!why the hell not. I havent got the guts to do it! | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 10/31/2009 4:09:04 PM | | I find that I tend to be attracted to guys that are younger then me. I dont really know why, but physically they alwats appeal to me over older guys. Mind you, Ive never actually dated a younger guy so dont know what it would be like to get in a relationship with one. Some girls say that younger is bad because they tend to be immature, but Ive met guy friends that are younger and are more mature then older guys Ive dated...so I guess it all depends on your wants and needs and what exaclty you are looking for. | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/1/2009 3:50:13 AM | | well i know for a fact i am only interested in younger men.. i have never been attracted to a man older than me.. even my ex husband was the same age. I find younger men physically more attractive i love their energy and probably even their immaturity at times, i guess i am also extremely immature! the largest age difference i had was 15 years, and the only reason that had to end was that he was a little too needy and didnt have the time to give him.. my current relationship the age difference is 10 years, and there is no way you would know he was younger, he is a lot more grounded and mature than me.. but just has the look of being young! everytime i go out i always seem to attract younger men... but with this you do have to be prepared that the relationship may have to end because of children, i know that id ont want more children.. if you want the relationship to go to the next level you have to be very honest about your expectations. I was telling my best friend who is dating a man 12 years her junior, the best part is when she has retired, he still has another 12 years of workign, and keeping her in the life she is accustomed too!!!! | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/1/2009 10:27:25 PM | It's been a few years since I've been to the POF and it's like entering into a timewarp...lol..
I hope the starter of this thread has "followed-up" his good work. I was going to post a question, "Are there any women that like old worn out guys?" and hope to catch someone in the trap in the following days...
Of course I mean all of this in a friendly good-natured way. I should address the issue because I dont want to get accused of not keeping on topic.
I would expect a mature woman to seek company from another irrespective of age. As it's legal in most states, I would think its a perfectly reasonable thing to do. I dont see the problem for either party....other than the opinions of others... | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/1/2009 11:00:26 PM | OP, maybe it's time to return that Mrs Robinson Video/dvd - otherwise you'll have to pay for that extra month you've had it out
Most of us guys have been there, done that! | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/1/2009 11:17:59 PM |
OP, maybe it's time to return that Mrs Robinson Video/dvd - otherwise you'll have to pay for that extra month you've had it out
Most of us guys have been there, done that!
Perhaps.. you forget.. the inquistiveness of youth?... or looking at the world and parts unexplored?
You say....have been there and done that.. but it seems... ummm.. like your maybe discarding his .. questionings?
But he is 20.... you are 3 times older than him.... old enough to be his grandpa.. his mentor.. his advisor..
On' what you've been there and done'......
maybe ... You have some advice.. with your experience.. with the been there and done that?.. You could share with the op?
It seems a shift has taken place.. in our society.. with in the past Mrs Robinson.. (ie.. competing with her daughter for a male... was one aspect of that story.. causing betrayal..trust..blurred lines in parents/selfishness and... respect.. for your children/husband etc..)
Mrs Robinson..)being.. an exception..as in being publicised/acceptable.. for women..young men... having a relationship with males ....their childrens /daughters ages,... (albeit.. in that society)..(nothing more embarrasing than having one of your parents..
flirting with one of your mates... (well there is.. but ..it ranks up there... let alone marrying one that age...or rather younger than yourself.. yep..... )
but yet in our modern society..milfs/cougars..etc.. the old lines are now blurred/.. and perhaps.... the youngins.. are not sure....
of what would of used to be deemed crushes on older women... to the fantasy.... becoming a real possibility?
and the possible consquences?
anyhoo.
he is a youngin..
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/1/2009 11:30:26 PM | Oh soulmate
At 20 who wants to take notice of the advice of someone 3 times their age, when it comes to matters of the heart such as this. I don't think things are that different today in the older woman/younger man stakes, as when I was young - it's just that milfs/cougars are more open about it and flaunt it like a badge of honour.
I'm sure our OP will survive this in his own way | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/3/2009 7:16:20 AM | I used to like guys who were about 5 years younger than myself. I guess I have had a mid life revelation: I actually prefer the company of guys a bit older than myself these days. I think we look to those which we have something to give or receive... thoughts... love... words... life experience..... sharing...... common interests... to teach or to learn..... | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/3/2009 2:28:35 PM | | I like younger men, haven't found one right for me yet.. Alot of them lack the maturity to appreciate an older woman..They are looking for sex alot of the time, and forget about treating a woman with the respect that she deserves! | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/3/2009 4:23:27 PM | | Still, when you look at a sample of the 'older' men....? Some are sensual looking but most seem worn out and wondering what it's all about. Like they know there's something they should know but , dang, what is it? | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/6/2009 1:47:41 AM | | ive dated a few girls older than me, as in 10 plus years, only lasting a year or two each, but yeah im thinking girls do go for younger guys some times, but we normally got to know each other through work or things we were studying, it wasnt just out there and hi your hot sorta thing. | |
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| Do older women fancy quite younger men?
Posted: 11/6/2009 2:05:17 AM | I ran this past my girlfriends-affectionately known as the panel. They laughed and called me in jest 'a slapper' and if they wernt my friends I would of 'slappered' them lol!
Nah not for me-I could'nt stand the riducule! | |
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