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Posted: 10/15/2009 3:18:11 PM | | Don't go back. You are free of it all. Let him cry in his beer you don't need this stuff. I know I've been through it. Give yourself more time without talking to him or letting him get to you. | |
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| I'm SO confused!
Posted: 10/15/2009 3:58:46 PM | You should go back and propose. Hint to him that you want to get married and have 2 kids.
I think you'll be well together. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 5:37:52 PM | OMG! tamra! NO NO NO
you need to contact women helping women. This man is going to kill you if you stay with him.
WHY would you ever consider seeing a man again if he's hit you or abused you in any way!? The only way to stop the abuse is to AVOID HIM LIKE SWINE FLU!!!
Please promise you won't go back to him. seek therapy and contact WHW
God Bless you! | |
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Posted: 10/16/2009 9:00:44 PM | | you're right,I think if you did take him back.could you forget the past.or when he got made,would you live in fear all the time.thats no way to live.he had his chance,move o n so you can find true love,because a man that raises his hand toward a woman is not a man.and alcohol is no escuse for violence,please move on,because you only was put in the hospital,next time you might not be so lucky.......... | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 2:10:06 PM | Thanks, dogslife! (see messages 24 & 25) I couldn't agree more.
Cinsav, you seem to have this un-ending problem of being such a jackass! You need to seriously get a clue. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 3:45:11 PM | | Hell no you shouldn't give him one more chance. Get a restraining order. A guy hits you just once, regardless of the reason unless it is in self defense and you are trying to kill him, and that should be the end of it. You screwed up by already giving him that second chance. Don't look back. You can argue, fight and yell all you want, but once you get hit, the game is over, or should be. Most absued women keep going back over and over again, until the guy finally kills them, even by accident. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 3:59:31 PM | if he even THOUGHT some crazy nonsense in his head, he hit me,drug me by my hair,choked me,you name it.When he put me in the hospital he wound up going to jail,and then had to do 3 months in the county jail.He got out and stupid ME took him back and things were back to perfect.Then more drunken rages.
^^^This right here only proves mre and more how some women just can't get enough of being used, abused, and shit on by some A-hole. And the best part is that she wants to give him another chance. You got be f*ckin kidding me...lol | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 4:37:32 PM | | I went through something similar in my last relationship. He chose alcohol over me and his infant son, and I chose to move on with my life. Eventually the begging for me to forgive and give him yet another chance started. I held my ground and was firm with my choice. It was too much of a risk for me to take, especially with children involved. Now I hear that his drinking is worse than ever, and he never contacts me to ask about his child, nor sends a penny for his support. I made the right choice. You have to really soul search on this issue. | |
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Posted: 10/18/2009 11:09:03 AM | Lord have mercy lady!
he hit me,drug me by my hair,choked me,you name it.When he put me in the hospital
Should I give him one more chance? He sounds so for real.He really IS the coolest guy I've EVER met
Are you for real? You must be crazy as hell. | |
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Posted: 11/20/2009 8:26:41 PM | ok so heres my issue im still very in love with my xgf i knew her from 6th grade on run ins we dated many years on and off but she cant stay faith full thus doesnt want to have a relationship with anyone she just likes hook ups and doesnt understand y i care when she says she tinks a girl is hot were still talking what should i do? | |
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Posted: 11/21/2009 5:01:27 AM | if the colest guy you ever met beats you harrasses you stalks you abuses you and hurts you then there is only one thing for it honey
you need to be on your own
you sound like this chap has battered your self esteem so low and made you think you can only have him that that exactly what you think you should do.
he made you miserable...he will make you miserable again...you will never trust him again
let it go | |
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| I'm SO confused!
Posted: 11/21/2009 6:38:56 AM |
ok so heres my issue im still very in love with my xgf i knew her from 6th grade on run ins we dated many years on and off but she cant stay faith full thus doesnt want to have a relationship with anyone she just likes hook ups and doesnt understand y i care when she says she tinks a girl is hot were still talking what should i do?
Start your own thread. This one is someone else's thread. | |
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