| Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it.
Posted: 10/13/2009 4:54:42 PM | It seems pretty simple to me.......she is shallow. She has decided to turn her back on the guy (you) that treats her right in and out of the bedroom, the guy she seems to have a strong connection with but it still wasn't good enough.......she made a choice based purely on physical attraction and picked the hot one.
She obviously doesn't think too much of him if she's willing to come back to you for the sex but feels the need to keep him around as the designated HOT partner just to show him off to friends and family. | |
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| Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it.
Posted: 10/14/2009 8:20:55 AM |
In reality she did not have to say yes and it is her responsibility to be faithful to him if it is a committed relationship.
It's also your responsibility not to knowingly sleep with another man's girlfriend.
But you did. And you take no responsibility for this at all. You don't even feel guilty for betraying him.
Just to ice that cake, you explained initially that it was only because you were horny. You weren't rationalizing it out of some crusading love for her (which still wouldn't change the rancid batter, but might frost it with something a little more palatable), you just felt like having sex. So you did. With another guy's girl.
And you think you're a good guy, who, alone among the three in the triangle, is possessed of substance? Think again.
I'm telling you some unpleasant truths about yourself that you've revealed herein because you wanted to know "Why'd she pick the other guy?"
Your lack of scruples, conscience, and any sense of personal responsibility is very, very likely to have had a lot to do with it.
And that may be something you can work on, for the sake of your future and the people in it. I hope you will try. | |
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| Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/11/2009 8:51:25 PM | She doesn't sound like a very good person anyway. Sounds like she's only into the other guy because he's "hot"..which is pretty shallow. No amount of good looks can make up for a terrible personality in my opinion. I've always tended to fall harder for guys that were slightly on the nerdy side but made up for that because they were a blast to be around. So don't let this woman hurt your self esteem.
Plus, she's cheating. She would most likely do the same thing to you if you were dating her. | |
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| Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/11/2009 10:38:06 PM | This is so interesting to me. I've dated a couple of so-called "hot" guys ( I know they are because I saw the women drooling and trying to get near them ) and they were definitely the worst lovers I've ever had.
The best lovers I've ever had are not guys who I find immediately physically appealing. They are usually tall, skinny men.
As another poster already pointed out - she's just done what a zillion guys do to women all the time!! So suck it up and move on or hang about and take another serving.
And yes she is just with the "hot" guy because he looks good when she's out and mingling with friends. | |
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| Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/12/2009 12:17:29 AM | To the OP, well, you've just fell victim to the Arm candy syndrome. May I inquire as to how old this young woman was? It's usually more prominent in women under 25, and well most men below 50. Once a guy gets over 50 it tends to be more about can the woman tolerate having me around long enough to be married to them. The other guy could be the hot muscular type, but dumb as a rock. I had a female friend that was 20 that's the exact same type of woman. Thankfully she's at least got the common sense to not open her legs for just anyone, and wouldn't cheat on someone she was seeing.
Just take it as no great loss. If she was willing to cheat on him for you, than no telling who she'd of been willing to cheat on you for. So move on, use her for a booty call till you find someone worth having, if you really want to do that. Just make sure you use a jimmy hat. And no, you're not mister good guy either, you willingly slept with a woman knowing she was seeing someone else.
To the guy talking about revenge of the nerds.. Not always, some nerds only think about computer, or computers and sex.....and that's just creepy. | |
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| Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:40:05 AM | | Looks like you believe anything someone tells you .....and to think...she said she was seeing this guy,,but would have sex with you...and...you were upset...your not making sense....and..lets hope you protected yourself...if she slept with you within ten days of dating you...wow...imagine how many other guys she did it with...and..all that sexual history you now have from other people...lets hope you wont wake up some morning with something Ajax wont take off.....yikes...but you are a lucky man....you got free services from a whore and didnt have to pay for it.... Good For You...! Perhaps in time...you will realize...that...a respectable women...doesnt bang a guy that quickly and makes you think there are feelings involved.... Wake up.... | |
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| Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/15/2009 5:08:29 AM | | I believe in Karma. What you have done will come back at you. Prepare to be cheated on in the future. You cannot say you value a relationship, then go and dip your toes in someone else's relationship pool. You were both wrong to sleep together, and when someone cheats on you in future, I hope you remember trying to justify your actions here and see how it feels. | |
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| Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/15/2009 10:07:45 PM | | Your mistake calling her after the 2nd dump.... you should have thought with the right head sweetie. Was it just a hot sexy flash you were going through, or desperation? Or being stupid and naive? Well at least you know that it was your own fault, but now smarten up and don't make the same mistake again. She was playing with you and always will. She will just be one of those women that you cared for, but she didn't have the same feelings for you. People do get rejected, so just get over it and get on with life. Learn from your mistakes. | |
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