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 REDDRAGON.

Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 26
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Posted: 10/21/2009 7:49:43 PM

Hun most women are not cheaters...mistake number one. Maybe your attracting people that cannot or will not be faithful but I assure you its not the norm. Take a time out and rethink what you want and how you present that. This is not your fault but nooooooooooooo most ladies are not cheaters....give it a hard think and your gonna be ok


Oh my Yoda....

I hope age is a factor here but usually when a woman admits to sleeping with another man it means she wants to see them suffer in some unimaginable way....
 ~Pedro Sanchez~

Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 10/21/2009 11:54:17 PM
I'd throw a tantrum, roll around the supermarket...stomp my feet and roll on the floor again and scream to the top of my lungs something to the effect of why them numb nuts breaking them rulez and not getting caught, its not fair....why should you be following the rulez and them breaking them all the time! That's just like going below the speed limit and everyone else going past you beeping their horn (and giving you the finger)....and for once you decide to accelerate by 1% when a speed camera flashes you a speeding fine.

Yeah I know, its a bit sucky. Is there a god? Who's keeping these numb nuts on check? Is Instant Karma gonna get them? I don't know...like sand through the hourglass, so are the days...
 kleijin

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Posted: 10/22/2009 12:32:17 AM
what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I was in a unhealthy relationship which ended in my ex cheating on me. After a while I was glad it happened, i learned a lot from it and made me into a man. Look in the bright side, now you will not make the same mistake again.
 Mxchic

Joined: 8/27/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2009 5:56:56 PM
Being cheated on hurts pretty bad don't it? I wonder why it is so damn prevalent? I've never cheated, ever and I just don't understand why people can't either be true to the one they're with or leave them so everyone can move on to "greener" pastures. What's wrong with people???

Sorry Jonah, kick her to the curb and don't let her come back.

Pedro Sanchez, you nailed it!! LOL, love it!
 BrokenLostSoul

Joined: 9/14/2009
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/31/2009 2:46:15 PM
Listen I read all these threads and they are all the same girls blaming the guys and the guys blaming the girls. You know what the only person that is to blame is the one that did it to you. My ex cheated on me, yeah I could get pissed and say all women are at fault. But that is not true it was only her doing. It good to be upset, but realize this. The person that did it to you guy/girl is out living their life and enjoying themselves. While you sit and piss and moan about how you got messed over. Yep it sucks no doubt been there done it, but if you continue to piss and moan they win and you lose. So think about that and get back out there and live your life. Not all guys/girls are bad, get out there and take a chance open your heart and let someone in and soon you won't remember your ex at all. Does it always work no, but better then let him/her win and laugh at how miserable you are.
 Thaddal

Joined: 10/23/2009
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Posted: 10/31/2009 2:57:18 PM
Your young...your going for the wrong girls...now...lets hope she didnt give you something....you wont be able to get rid of....too bad for you ~
 Lively Annie

Joined: 9/21/2009
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Posted: 10/31/2009 5:21:38 PM
Lucky you! Forget the hurt and move on. If this is a constant problem you have, perhaps you should look at yourself and ask why are you attracting people who hurt you? Are you attracted to the wrong type of female? Write down on a piece of paper what you want in someone and try to find what suits your needs not a total challenge that will walk all over you. Sorry if this might sound hard but sometimes one has to look at themselves to see the real problem. Good luck to you in the future.
 aSydneyMale

Joined: 5/16/2006
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Posted: 10/31/2009 5:21:57 PM

the girl i was dating just told me she has been having sex with another guy.

Were you just dating her, or were you actually in a relationship? Did you talk about being exclusive?

It's a blow to the ego for sure, but unless you were in an exclusive relationship you can hardly say she cheated on you.
 sweetladydiHD

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2009 4:56:34 AM
wow thats nit nice get an ugly woman to merry you. Its what in your heart and soul you know when its the right one you both well feel it is
 FluffyBrain

Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 11/2/2009 8:25:53 PM
once you start toying with the idea...you get a little more used to the idea...toy with it a little more...and you get a little more used to it...toy with it some more...
you get the drift. if you don't want it to happen, you gotta cut it off very early...it's one slippery slope...
 Java41

Joined: 7/25/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2009 9:15:30 PM
I've watched cheaters tv and I tell you that program is really an eye opener as you have to be on your toes when dating. I guess you have to take a chance if you can meet anyone you really like and that is fairly tough when you are in your 60's. It isn't that I can't get a date I just want to date around my age and not rob the cradle.

I really wonder why people do that but think lack of integrity is the main culprit. I've never done that as I've always cared more about the person I'm dating than they have cared about me though. I remember one guy who had been dating a lady for a long time and he was playing around with myself and anyone who would look at him. He just didn't know that I'd found out about her. He actually did marry her, and don't think he does that since he finally did marry her. I was really shocked when I found out through another party that he had been dating her for years. I questioned him about a few things also and his story didn't add up so I had him. If I had been mean enough I could have said something to one of his in laws that I had worked with during that period but I didn't instead I moved ahead with my life. This city was small enough then that you could find out who was dating whom then.
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 11/4/2009 7:38:05 AM
"Most women are not cheaters". True, just the young, uber-hot, freaky ones with lots of options open to them! If that's what you're into, you entered at your own risk and got burnt. Change your type or accept that it is what it is, and don't get too attached to these types. Let them come (or cum) and go as they wish, make sure you always have a condom on your pecker before you dip it, and place your faith in God as a source of constant, abiding love. He'll always love ya, man.
 808syndicate

Joined: 11/1/2009
Msg: 38
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Posted: 11/4/2009 7:05:49 PM
Oh yeah, I know few women that cheated on their bf's too. F*ck'em...just drop her and move on.
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