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 startle

Joined: 7/22/2008
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How to end Sexual starvation after leaving a long relationship
Posted: 10/13/2009 9:07:05 PM
you are just out of practice...you haven't been in the single world for so long it is like a foreign land to you...dark and strange..i have been single 20 years and it still feels dark and strange...because it is...that's what i like about it...so enjoy the kooky, weird and wild world of singledom...don't take it too serious...there is no right or wrong way to do things...the goal is to have fun and meet as many interesting people as you can...when, where and with whom you have sex is up to you...do what feels right to you and have fun...
 ~The Rock Man~

Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 27
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How to end Sexual starvation after leaving a long relationship
Posted: 10/13/2009 9:08:19 PM
Buy a bunch of socks!
 Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008
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How to end Sexual starvation after leaving a long relationship
Posted: 10/14/2009 1:48:04 AM

Buy a bunch of socks!


Rockman, I rocked my brain to understand your parable answer, but I can't come up with a sensible meaning..
But I come with this question, if the OP put a sock to his "boss" will it appease his boss sexual starvation?????...Huh! I got your point * put a sock to his boss* but this is not open for argument.because it will diversify in to many ways...
 voshie

Joined: 9/22/2009
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How to end Sexual starvation after leaving a long relationship
Posted: 10/14/2009 5:39:19 AM
oh..great....another liar and player waiting to join the fray...i'm going celebate..i wouldnt touch you with a 10ft pole...or 20 ft for that matter.

when i saw this on the board i thought it would be interesting. imagine my disappointment to see its some married guy complaining about not getting sex and basically looking for permission to use someone elses body like its a freaking handerchief.....man some people just really freaking blow...


OP..Keep practicing your lies and games..eventually you'll work out a way to manipulate a woman's feelings and use her...pssst..when you kick her loose i hope you fall on your ass...
 Motto_Bella

Joined: 7/6/2009
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How to end Sexual starvation after leaving a long relationship
Posted: 10/14/2009 7:40:23 AM
Yes ~ you have an understandable problem.

I'm guessing you're self conscious.. a bit of anxiety when faced with 'new' intimacy/relations. Are you worried about something... perhaps rejection? Inexperienced is understandable but not an excuse to maintain a "woe is me attitude". Take an active role by increasing your exposure / opportunities ~ you'll learn to be assertive and comfortable in your own skin.

Edit: I didn't know you were still married - ick. You have bigger issues than worrying about your next booty-call. Grow up!
 MissMewsic

Joined: 6/10/2008
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How to end Sexual starvation after leaving a long relationship
Posted: 10/14/2009 11:40:17 AM
I'm thinking if the OP is talking about performance anxiety, maybe bringing some closure to that 30 year relationship before looking for a new port. If a man lets a woman string him for 30 years, perhaps counseling might be good.
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