2run
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Joined: 7/31/2009
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/14/2009 12:39:57 PM |
after cumming it seems like the girl is less attractive
Happens to me ALL the time...It's a curse or a gift...I'm not sure which...
..but what do I know? | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/14/2009 4:30:42 PM | Ahahah.... the penis is a fickle master. It changes tastes once it gets what it wants.
I've had that happen many times, man. Not fun. The worst is trying to get rid of them afterward when you need some alone time to chill. You have to make up an excuse why you have to go run some errands. (yeah, I know, not PC. sue me) | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/14/2009 5:42:01 PM | {quote]i felt closer to her for a while.. where as i feel distant from other girls afterwards..
Probably because you actually cared about HER, and you don't really care about the girls you are screwing now. I have heard that this happens with women sometimes, they feel super close to the guy during sex, but not so much afterwards (if they aren't in a loving relationship.)
Maybe you should try cutting back on the sex with random girls, get over your ex (until you truly do not compare other girls to her anymore), then try to form an actual bond with someone before having sex. My bet is that it would change things. | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/14/2009 9:16:29 PM | Few solutions :
1. Try to do it again, and again. Hey, it was good ?.
2. Go relax ourself and sleep
3. Clean up /shower.
4. Try to go back with your ex and have sex with her again, maybe this time You feel different.
5. Forget about your Ex, cure your "bigger better deal " syndrome until you have More to offer. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 11:22:26 PM | Oh yeah, I agree with this post 100%
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Its something you have to consciously make an effort towards, hiding the body language of not being attracted to her anymore. Its taken much practice and skill to be able to be the "hug her and kiss her gently" type of guy after secks, and its beautiful that the women here get a small insight to the mindset of a man. First instinct after ANY GUY busts a nut, no matter if you've been in a relationship for years or this is the first time, is to RUN! I told this to a couple women before, I was met with harsh criticism and doubt. I challenged them to ask other guys that they trusted would tell them the truth, and what do you know? I was telling the truth.
Its a sad fact to realize, just be thankful if your man holds you and kisses you, talks to you and smiles while he looks into your eyes after you "make love". Odds are...he's making a real effort towards showing you that affection, when he'd rather be somewhere else.
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/15/2009 2:38:04 AM | motherbrother i pretty much agree except like i said earlier.. with my ex i really did actually feel closer to her and loved to hold her after i came in her and etc.. like i would just lay on top of her and hold her for like 10 minutes while i was still inside her after i came.. and then we could cuddle and fall asleep together naked and i was completely fine with that.. but with any other girl i just like.. wanna play xbox or somethin else LOL like that one dude said.. finding an excuse to get some alone time..
i guess it just sucks to actually realize that i will never have sex like that again until i am in love with a girl, or find the right one, because that takes time, a lot of time.. and its not even a guaranteed thing.. | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/15/2009 9:52:53 AM |
and people wonder why us women think some men are asses
Amen to that sister. A-freaking-men!
OP, it's called letting your penis do the thinking FOR you. Common condition for many young men. | |
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1jamez
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Joined: 3/21/2009
Msg: 61 | |
| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/15/2009 10:36:24 AM | you lack the chemistry, this was not your soul mate to feel this way
Like comedian Andrew Dice Clay's favorite date... "Ummmmph!... Get out!"
Too crass... like men who have sex while women make love... sounds unfair
What if she got up, said thanks and asked you to leave right after? Would you be happier?
Ever wonder why women don't let you catch your breath and continue like you haven't even stopped after? The degree of your welcoming this may reflect just what on earth you are doing in such a dynamic physical setting than the sole reason of being there only to experience the greatest physical sensation known to mankind, albiet meant for the primal purpose of reproduction but that's another story...
AlphaMales are going as instinct as prehistoric Neanderthals for good reason for those seeking to conquest and conquer, we evolved from mass cooperation =) men also usually outgrow beating their chests after every conquest, as they experience egos being crushed to competition... A civil man knows his bounds.
If you don't feel the same than wanting to bite your arm off to get away in the morning, you sold yourself short...big time...on sensation alone. Now look.
... and how on earth will you try to explain or sell your character to any potential permanent partner when the right one finally comes along. Like exercising a muscle, do you feel you will be morally strong enough. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 1:41:46 PM | "AlphaMales are going as instinct as prehistoric Neanderthals for good reason for those seeking to conquest and conquer"
I think you are trying to call us a dying breed. Speak not about us, beta male, we are doing just fine... Trying to insult my heritage, eh? | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/15/2009 1:48:25 PM |
If you don't feel the same than wanting to bite your arm off to get away in the morning, you sold yourself short...big time...on sensation alone. Now look.  So funny, but yeah, I agree that is so true. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 3:18:59 PM | When you're younger, you're going to have those "hookups" as part of the party or just two kids with excess energy to burn and that's one way to do that. You've not going to have had the wide range of experiences from extremely casual on one end through intense love on the other end as an older person will have. When we learn how just sex and making love are two entirely different things, I think most do prefer the latter.
The OP is younger than some of us but he's also been exposed to making love versus extremely casual sex and I think that's why he's asking the question. He already prefers making love and it seems kind of misses it. The original post come off one way but I think there was a great deal of maturity in the question. | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/15/2009 10:56:03 PM | | maybe not right after cumming, but a while later definitely. Of course, how could it be otherwise? Your sex hormones stop raging and your body returns to its unaroused state after sex. Of course they appear to be less attractive. And it probably happens for women too. | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/15/2009 11:09:39 PM | hey op?.quit just having sex and start making love....
if you dont know the differance, i feel sorry for you | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/16/2009 12:52:55 AM | "after cumming it seems like the girl is less attractive, sometimes by a lot sometimes by a little , than she was before.. like being horny actually made her hotter and more tolerable to be around and then after you cum its like who and she's not attractive and actually rather annoying now.. this mainly happens with girls i have dont have feelings for but it even happens with girls that i like and get along quite well with
the only girl i ever thought was just as beautiful before i came as after, was my ex.. and i realize im obviously not 100% over her but damn .. it just seems like no one is ever going to be up to par to her, or something is wrong with me or something, i mean even girls that are really hot just seem .. off putting after i cum.. "
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Yep, you are right...something is wrong with YOU! It's not your fault though, given your tender age...
So, all I can say to your post is....
GROW the "F" UP!
And when you do, us oldies will be around to commiserate with you...about our stupid YOUTH!  | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/16/2009 1:03:02 AM | | i do the "something about mary" thing and wank before a date so i can see her inner beauty throughout the date.......... | |
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Posted: 10/16/2009 1:17:29 AM | "i do the "something about mary" thing and wank before a date so i can see her inner beauty throughout the date.......... "
Ha, Ha...ummm...ha! *rolls eyes*
Thanks for the HEADS UP ...and FOREskin warning!  | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/16/2009 1:43:17 AM |
hey op?.quit just having sex and start making love.... if you dont know the differance, i feel sorry for you
idk about you but i cant "make love" to someone im not in love with. i wish i could. maybe that is my problem? Lol. who knows.
but yes like the above poster said i miss making love. a lot. all this other stuff seems so unfulfilling and empty afterwards. | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/16/2009 2:23:58 AM | | OP this is exactly why it's not the best idea to have a one night stand......................plus the beer has finally worn off.............. | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/22/2009 1:11:58 PM | hehe, could be he is avoiding moving on from his ex, the mental picture of his ex is prodding over his new lovers experiences. You cant connect with any new lover, because your mind, heart and body still crave the comfort and unrealistic scene you keep playing over and over in your head. When you cut that movie out, then you can create a movie of your own, porn or love story, its all in your head. And the superior one is affecting the inferior one. (no pun intended)  | |
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| after you cum.. (mainly for guys)
Posted: 10/22/2009 2:03:33 PM | carrot,
After engaing in sex have you thought about holding your partner tightly in your arms and simply caressing her? have you thought about talking, kissing and simply snuggling against each other?
It`s amazing how much your woman will respond to your touch... : | |
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