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Posted: 11/14/2009 1:21:55 AM | Depends upon the connection, but mostly there's the desire for more, and the feeling of closeness.
I don't think I've ever been with a woman I didn't think was just as lovely before or after orgasm.
There have been some regrets over the years, but that's because other things weren't exactly right, and it was wrong to have sex in the first instance with the lady in question. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2009 5:24:33 AM | lol
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Dam, I always thought the same thing, you cum and then, they're not worth a spec anymore, I'd be like "I WANT YOU TO PACK YOUR sH*t AND GET THE FU*K OUTA HERE" LOL I donno, its natural | |
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Posted: 11/14/2009 4:27:19 PM | The truth is that as a man ejaculates that triggers a hormonal release to the brain and causes a psycological reaction causing a reversal of attitude in men and it may even trigger unreasonable and temporary regrets and anxioty.
For what its worth,, Thats my two cents worth.. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 2:22:23 AM |
The truth is that as a man ejaculates that triggers a hormonal release to the brain and causes a psycological reaction causing a reversal of attitude in men and it may even trigger unreasonable and temporary regrets and anxioty.
For what its worth,, Thats my two cents worth..
It's hilarious how only a few in this thread understood the topic.
It's about chemicals that are triggered or released or removed in or from the brain AFTER a man ejaculates...it's about what happens to the body, mind...
I can have so much affection for a woman, but most of the time I feel guilt or dirty RIGHT AFTER HAVING AN ORGASM (and it has nothing to do with the girl, it's the chemicals in my/our brains). | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 4:10:48 AM | | there was a seventies song ...After the lovin I"m still in love with you.... which referred to this ... it has to do with lust being mistaken for love ...till after the sex .... but Maturity seems to take care of this ...for guys that mature ... it appears that many guys never mature | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 4:25:46 AM | Greencarrot - finally someone who admits that he actually thinks solely with his**** That's amazing. I'm not faulting you here, either - I know the saying, but you're the first person I think who truly does it and is open about it.
I think women are beautiful - all women - in their own ways. Before I cum, while I cum, after I cum, they are just as beautiful. If was wasn't truly attracted to them, my****wouldn't be inside of them - and that's not just physical attraction - it's on all levels.
I've always found that seeing her laying there, utterly spent, glistening with a light coat of sweat, heart still racing, the expressions that flirt across her features... I think women are the most beautiful at that time. Pehaps it's the beauty in the moment, or the expressions of pure bliss that her body presents. Either way, those are wonderful moments, indeed. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 5:15:55 AM | Id probably want to kick you out of my bed after I shot my bolt too  Seriously though if its a one night stand,you have done the job you wanted to do and your sobering up,you still have feelings for your ex...I can see why you would start to think the girls a munter.Shes not your ex. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 8:12:44 AM | | No way i live to please a woman and when its my turn and i climax i go rite back to her like magnet and steel. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 11:10:18 AM |
It's hilarious how only a few in this thread understood the topic.
Interesting the things that amuse you.
I understood it alright, like the dreadful old joke about the definition of 'eternity' being the time between when you come and she leaves! The point I was making was that, for me this doesn't happen with the right partner, other factors negate any physiological effects.
but most of the time I feel guilt or dirty RIGHT AFTER HAVING AN ORGASM[/quate]
Raised a Catholic perhaps? | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 2:25:48 PM | Actually after I cum I turn around and go to sleep(don't you women just love that?  ). So really I don't really think about her attractiveness at all. Seriously, it's like the woman is taking away all my menergy. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 9:09:28 PM | | OP!~ You feel what you feel. Sometimes being honest about it to random people isn't always the best option cause most of them will judge you. Even when I've been happy and in love I have felt the same way a time or two and I am willing to admit it. It was like OK we made love now leave me alone. We all have bad days. Hopefully you'll find an awesome lover that makes you feel differently in the future. | |
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Posted: 11/16/2009 1:07:00 AM | OP!~ You feel what you feel. Sometimes being honest about it to random people isn't always the best option cause most of them will judge you. Even when I've been happy and in love I have felt the same way a time or two and I am willing to admit it. It was like OK we made love now leave me alone. We all have bad days. Hopefully you'll find an awesome lover that makes you feel differently in the future.
Ahhh, what a relief! Good to read this (mentioned above) from a woman.
I love how many (but not all) girls come here to have their chance to say
"**** YOU, YOU SCUMBAG USER" to all MEN and not just the thread starter.
I've also had a few experiences (an approx. ratio of 2-3 girls out of 20) where the GIRL turns around right after having her orgasm and just goes to sleep, no cuddling, no this or that, just a small kiss after (the orgasm) and then she turns her head to face to other side to just fall asleep, as if to say "ok, that was very sexual, sweaty, energetic and all that, but now that I've orgasmed it's time to re-energize by sleeping a bit, plus no more intimacy for now..." And then she'd come back for more the next night! (some girls do it, but from my experiences...most girls don't react like this AFTER an orgasm).
GUYS do it, and...GIRLS do it too! (surprise! surprise!).
This thread is about a chemical reaction AFTER the orgasm, and NOT about using someone (that's another topic). | |
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Posted: 11/16/2009 1:37:24 AM | I think women are beautiful - all women - in their own ways. Before I cum, while I cum, after I cum, they are just as beautiful. If was wasn't truly attracted to them, my****wouldn't be inside of them - and that's not just physical attraction - it's on all levels.
What you're describing is...hormones (another way of saying...horny).
Women...men...beautiful...handsome...IT'S ALL OPINIONS.
Are 21 year-old women as beautiful as when they will be 81? 91? nothing lasts forever, but maybe love does. True love, not the lust kind of love that last for only 2 years, 5 years...that's not love, that's lust that lasted a few years.
The couples who have been together for 20-30-40 years+ are the ones who know more about love than teeny boppers who chew gum and say "I mean, like, like I love him, man! like I swear!" all day long.
In the end, everyone's **** stinks, no matter how pretty a girl thinks she is, or how handsome a guy thinks he is, we all age, we all get wrinkled up and nothing lasts forever. Physical attraction (lust at first sight) is an illusion.
No girl or guy should be treated like a god or goddess...'cause everyone's **** stinks.
But, we should all respect each other, and not LUST for someone like they are a god or godesses.
In the end...we're just human (no one is a god or goddess, no one lives forever, except for...Elvis!). | |
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Posted: 11/16/2009 3:40:48 AM | GREENCARROT
You have been ccriticizedand deplored by being honest. It seems that some women like dishonesty. Yes after you cum the woman seems a nag. That is absolutely natural and nothing wrong with you. The reason is the Testosterone level drops down after you Cum. I am going to give an actual experiment which probably you felt it many times. When you go to night clubs by midnight all women look beautiful and sexy. The reason is your Testosterone level is high because the man's body produces lots of testerone late at night.
I know lots of women are mad at you and I don't blame them. You can work around it. I taught myself to love Cuddling after sex. I plan to watch a video together while cuddled in each other arms. Have some favorite snacks to eat together in play mood. Like I put a piece of food in her mouth then take half of it with my lips. Love very much a part of her body to cuddle with, I have a woman who has nice big hips and I love to cuddle with them. But I warn you all these activities will lead to another erection and sex. | |
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Posted: 11/16/2009 10:18:21 AM | To Original Post:
That's because you got what you wanted from this chick.
If men really hold it in shit starts to build up and anything looks attractive at this point.
Like beer goggles blurriness leads to hornyness and when you cum,soberness kicks in.
That's why it is best to meet someone sober and love them before you have sex.
The sex would mean something and you would get more meaningful pleasure out of it. | |
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Posted: 11/16/2009 2:49:35 PM | | I just wipe off on the curtains then leave. Let the next guy coming in hold her. Oh..you mean in a relationship. I wipe off on the curtain and ask her for gas money. | |
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Posted: 11/16/2009 9:08:21 PM | Travisty Kimkead wrote:
<div class="quote">That's why it is best to meet someone sober and love them before you have sex.
The sex would mean something and you would get more meaningful pleasure out of it.
True. But...what if you wait a long time to fall IN love (care for the girl, not just LUST)and then finally sleep with the girl, and...you really didn't like the sex! (you didn't like her smell/pheromones, you didn't like this or that about her body, you didn't feel it during sex... You have feelings for her but the sex had no passion...
This is probably why some people (not all people) DON'T wait too too long before having sex, 'cause you never know...but what do I know?! | |
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