| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 4:08:03 PM |
Let's face it - a guy gets off with a stiff breeze, so if they don't really like a woman that much they won't go to any extra trouble to make sure she's happy.
It has been my experience that some men have no idea how to turn a woman on. As i have gotten older i have gotten real good at demanding what i want from a sex partner. I have to be honest and say, some of them dont particularly like being told what needs to be done. If i am gonna get naked with someone they are dang well gonna please me. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 4:16:18 PM |
Nothing screams "I NEED A PIG" quite like the above!
No honey, It screams discernment - and quality, not quantity.  | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 4:23:11 PM |
Nothing screams "I NEED A PIG" quite like the above!
And nothing screams "I AM A PIG" like the below.... (me me me me it's all about me me me)
Mmmm... interesting coming from a poster with the word pig in its pen name...
I happen to like variety and believe me ... I love to pepper all kinds of different spices in my intimate life... Geez... 
Methinks someone did not get a mind blowing orgasm in a friggen long time! | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 4:34:01 PM |
No honey, It screams discernment - and quality, not quantity
Actually, what it screamed to me was that you have had some lousy lovers and now are appearing somewhat jaded. Which sucks because this here little piggy likes to go ALL THE WAY HOME....
Foreplay to me IS the sex. For us men, orgasm is the final act and I prefer to have an Opera that has many acts.... And hopefully I am hearing the fat lady sing at the end | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 4:42:39 PM |
And nothing screams "I AM A PIG" like the below.... (me me me me it's all about me me me)
hmmm, never been called a pig before. Been called aggressive though. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 4:44:25 PM | Actually, what it screamed to me was that you have had some lousy lovers and now are appearing somewhat jaded. Which sucks because this here little piggy likes to go ALL THE WAY HOME....
Foreplay to me IS the sex. For us men, orgasm is the final act and I prefer to have an Opera that has many acts.... And hopefully I am hearing the fat lady sing at the end
Cute piggy, Yes - I've had some lousy lovers and when I became more discerning in my 30s and addressed where MY fantasies and kinks lie, I found some fantastic ones that made all the rest pale in comparison. Now I can't go back to the un evolved types that just grope and hope. I'll let the younger women have them. I'm spoiled, not jaded.  It's really no more jaded than a man that may not like chubby redheads. It's all choices and preferences. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 4:55:24 PM | " It has been my experience that some men have no idea how to turn a woman on. As i have gotten older i have gotten real good at demanding what i want from a sex partner. "
Key word : DEMANDING.
That's a much stronger word than EXPECTING. Most people don't respond well to DEMANDS.
How would YOU, or most women respond to a man DEMANDING something ?
Speaking for myself only, if someone DEMANDS something of me, it's not going to happen, unless their attitude changes, and unless their appology is sincere. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 5:00:54 PM |
No honey, It screams discernment - and quality, not quantity.
... and ^^^^^ that screams, " We'll have quality sex when I say so, and right now isn't the time. We had lots of quality sex last month. Christmas is coming, so we'll have more quality sex then. Stop it!"
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 5:17:33 PM |
Key word : DEMANDING
meh, demanding, expecting, semantics my dear. Bottom line, if im gonna sleep with someone they had better live up to my expectations, or they are gonna be given a quick lesson in how to perform. I dont have time to waste on a poor lover.
Although, i wouldnt mind giving that Capitano fella a few lessons. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 6:15:02 PM |
However no one ( man or woman ) has the right to expect sex from another no matter what the cost of dinner is
I picked this quote simply as an amalgam of many similar thoughts I've seen on this thread, because I believe many people have morphed the OP's description of a man "anticipating" or "desiring" sex into his "expecting" and in some cases "demanding" sex. Those are entirely different things.
And, yes, I do think that for a woman to be angry or insulted that a man she's dating (for however long) is eager to have sex with her is disfunctional. Hoping for the pleasure of a sexual experience with someone is a fabulous thing, not an insult.
I also agree with a few posters who have pointed out that SOME of the most vocal proponents of "waiting to know a person really, really, really well" before having sex are the same ones who I've noticed on other threads discussing seriously pukey past relationships. Better them than me, I guess, both in the long wait for sex and the revolting relationships. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 6:15:16 PM | It has been my experience that some men have no idea how to turn a woman on.
Sexuality and sensuality is not innate in women either.
Great lovers are made, not born.
As i have gotten older i have gotten real good at demanding what i want from a sex partner.
Better late than never.
I have to be honest and say, some of them dont particularly like being told what needs to be done.
Dump them.
If i am gonna get naked with someone they are dang well gonna please me.
I think you wanna be just like me....
And, yes, I do think that for a woman to be angry or insulted that a man she's dating (for however long) is eager to have sex with her is disfunctional.
Totally agree.
I've never been with a woman who wasn't fully aware that I wanted her sexually, and wouldn't be one to "wait".
It's never scared ONE woman away.
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 6:35:45 PM | Miss. Mewsic~ Thank you for the kind advice but I have met a couple of VERY kinky men off this site. I guess we attract each other no matter where we are...
You are correct as well though. Most I have met were so vanilla it made me wonder why they even wanted to meet someone like me. They did judge me and my group of close friends even after we were all kind enough to welcome them into our circle.
That's when I quote scripture right back at them. I am a Christian but admit my sins and short comings. I'm far from perfect. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 6:55:22 PM |
That's when I quote scripture right back at them. I am a Christian but admit my sins and short comings. I'm far from perfect.
A woman who is in command of her own sexuality and is not judgemental of others owes no one an explanation. She can still be a kind and loving person far above those with self righteous indignation - with or without scripture. Virtue is overated and religion has in instilled fear and guilt into women about sex for ages.  | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/20/2009 8:57:42 PM |
With your attitude, you will be doin' yourself forever...or maybe you should try "Craig's List"!
Lovely - I knew it was coming. Let the stoning and self righteousness begin. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/21/2009 2:43:12 AM | " With your attitude, you will be doin' yourself forever...or maybe you should try "Craig's List"! "
Margo's approach is not the same one that I would feel comfortable with, as I've stated before. That only means that it's not right for ME.
And if Margo's approach lands her the man of her dreams, then I'd say her approach worked for her.
What kind of world would it be if we all had to do everything the same way, and criticized everyone who thought differently ? Flat Earth Society, anyone ? Or did Columbus really fall off the edge of the earth because people thought that he would ? | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/21/2009 10:02:25 AM | Did I mention any names....hmm...interesting to see where the fingers get pointed!
Doesn't matter - the intention of your remark was mean spirited, judgemental, and cutting no matter who it was for. Very unbecoming of someone who has "Christian" on their profile. Whether or not it was directed at Margo, myself, or the OP it was uncalled for. Whether anyone chooses to be promiscuous or not is up to them. If they are being responsible about it, feel good about their own choices, not bringing illegitimate children about because of it, not sleeping with someone else's spouse, what do you care? If other women here speak openly and honestly about it - how does it affect you? Does it make you feel superior? Do you see women that don't choose to uphold your own moral code as inferior to you? Nothing bothers me more than a WOMAN that embraces the double standard to make herself look more virtuous. It's like a Jewish person signing up for the nazi party.
Every woman should only do what's right for her and not point fingers at women make other choices. I don't judge you by I do have a right to hold you accountable for personal insults no matter who they were for. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/21/2009 10:25:01 AM | | You know there is such a thing called a condom. Use it! You people need to mellow out and just let things in a relationship naturally happen there should be not set time for anything. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/21/2009 10:29:32 AM | | Well in my opinion, i think the women get mad bc the men ONLY want sex but not some kind of a relationship. They feel disrespected because the men take them out and want to **** them and THATS IT. I personally don't think there would be a problem if the my boyfriend wants sex. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/21/2009 10:37:45 AM | | Insults really do not offend me at this point in life. I know what kind of person I am and my friends and family witness my level of morality everyday. I am and will continue to be sexually uninhibited and enjoy the men of my choosing. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/21/2009 2:49:20 PM | Amazing how ;
Comments are taken personally and out of context...(no names, no gender).
Replies made on assumptions = no questions, no communication, no clarification.
What some find humorous...others find offensive...life is funny that way.
Too many panties in a bunch from sitting in front of the computer!
As far as accountability...lies between me an God...period. | |
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| That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal
Posted: 10/21/2009 3:29:55 PM |
As far as accountability...lies between me an God...period.
Accountability lies on you and only you...Ever heard of free will? | |
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