| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/15/2009 10:31:21 AM | | So ok now how do you go about asking him to give it to you after being with him for awhile? He's done it like twice in 18 months and I give him his at least 3 times a week if not more. I like giving it but I want some too. Just don't know how to go about asking for it. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/15/2009 1:27:27 PM | Some guys don't like giving.
And some guys don't like giving to some women.
You're not going to change it. If it's important, find someone else. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/15/2009 1:51:05 PM |
So my question is do men like getting more then giving back or giving at all for that matter If I could orgasm multiple times like a woman, I suppose I'd be a fan for receiving over giving. Since biology doesn't work in my favor like that, I'm a big fan of giving more than getting. It's great seeing a woman quiver knowing that you were the catalyst of her world-shaking. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/15/2009 2:27:52 PM | | some do, and some don't. There is no one answer to this question, for me personally giving is one of my favorite activities. I'm ready to give any time any place, and I don't demand a return favor, but that is me and like I said before, all men do not think the same. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/15/2009 4:01:30 PM | I so agree men love to give/please........... boys not so much!!!!your "friends" husband sounds like a selfish ............no good for NOTHING person.....boy..  | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/15/2009 4:13:52 PM |
So my question is do men like getting more then giving back or giving at all for that matter
I don't think you can generalize. Some men are going to be more into giving than getting. I've been with women that HATED receiving, but LOVED to give. Yeah, I've heard people say that's crap, but it can be a rush to have that kind of power over someone. Especially if the person in question typically doesn't achieve orgasm easily.
My longest relationship to date was with a woman that didn't like giving OR receiving. She did NOT want to do it, period. But then people can change, as I found out when she got involved with this other guy and she acted in a completely different manner with him.
I think different people will have a different kind of impact on you. You have a different kind of chemistry, or maybe you won't be as open with one person as you will with another. It's just difficult to say, but with the story you're describing it sounds like he did that for her until he got her. Then, once she was gotten he felt like he did enough work and not he could relax. Kind of sad in a way, but not that unusual from what I've heard. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/15/2009 4:24:05 PM |
My turn-ons include paper mache volcanoes, extreme marbles, flourescent markers, dry ice and Zeemies.
You forgot to add anal play and eating the oyster...What a manly list you got going there...
...but what do I know? | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 4:59:09 AM |
So ok now how do you go about asking him to give it to you after being with him for awhile? He's done it like twice in 18 months and I give him his at least 3 times a week if not more. I like giving it but I want some too. Just don't know how to go about asking for it.
You are 50 years old and you don't know how to communicate your needs in bed?
You tell him like you told us......."I want some too"..... | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 5:14:13 AM | I like it both..But..If she doesn't like to give, she still receive..
But I would be lying if I say, her not giving wouldn't bother me. After awhile I might just stop giving. It should be 50/50... | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 5:25:31 AM |
I don't really give my partner much choice. I just climb up on his face and he gets the hint.
That's one lucky guy there...But seriously, that's the way to do it...
And yes, some guys do get turned on by getting to do that.
True. Who had two thumbs and gets turned on by giving oral?? THIS GUY..
OK, this doesn't work when you can't see me pointing at myself...LOL..
No panties, flashing her kitty..Mmmm.. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 5:58:38 AM | I would say if one is selfish then yes taking the easy way out and avoiding the giving is what most may do. Could also be a fear of not knowing what the heck they are supposed to do when they get there too.
In my experience great foreplay leads to great orgasms. I was lucky to learn that early and nothing compares to knowing that she had a whopper of an orgasm even before you get to the intercourse. Plus if a partner knows that you like to please then it only makes the oral you recieve back that much better, for as many times as I have recieved it still blows my mind at how good it can be. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 1:53:14 PM | | I think it is a real turn-on to give and get proper response to your efforts. I enjoy trying to find new ways to make her toes curl... | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 2:27:04 PM | I dated a man for a while, and during one of our conversations I asked, "Do you give?"
He said, "No, no I dont, but I like getting" . (yea, like who doesn't like to receive!!?)
I laughed it off, but I think that I ended that communication within a day or so after. Its too important of an activity to exclude from a relationship. But also it told me- Not open to explore, share, taste have fun.
I told a friend about the not giving partt and he said, "WHY, That's un-American!!"   | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 2:55:20 PM | "I don't really give my partner much choice. I just climb up on his face and he gets the hint."
"That's one lucky guy there...But seriously, that's the way to do it..."
No doubt??? Damn....I've been out of the dating scene WAY TOO LONG! lol.... I almost want to start a thread just on that subject? REALLY? Just climb right on up there and he'll comply??? lol
And zuglo...I got the visual on you pointing to yourself "this guy" LOL. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 4:49:09 PM |
"I don't really give my partner much choice. I just climb up on his face and he gets the hint."
"That's one lucky guy there...But seriously, that's the way to do it..."
No doubt??? Damn....I've been out of the dating scene WAY TOO LONG! lol.... I almost want to start a thread just on that subject? REALLY? Just climb right on up there and he'll comply??? lol
In my case, yes he will. But that's the kind of relationship WE have. YMMV.
I've also bee known to send him text messages along the line of... "I want to cum on your tongue"... that seems to work too. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 5:39:11 PM |
and I love the competition of who can make who lose concentration first
LOL, I think that is a competition of when you lose you really won, or is it when you win you really lose.
Me I get too distracted for 69. My concentration is not worth a lick. (literally and figuratively) I have to stop what I am doing because I am afraid I would hurt him if I didn't. | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/16/2009 6:29:21 PM |
REALLY? Just climb right on up there and he'll comply??? lol
Well,the truth to be told, if he doesn't like it, than it might seem pushy, a turn off.
I was talkin about THIS GUY, and yes, I am pointing to myself again, it's super hot when a women does that.
In OP's case she should just try that, take charge.
No1bby..What is YMMV please? | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 5:50:03 AM | Me I get too distracted for 69. My concentration is not worth a lick. (literally and figuratively) I have to stop what I am doing because I am afraid I would hurt him if I didn't.
I'm the opposite.......the better I get it......the deeper I can take it!
Not that I forget about what I'm doing now and then.....but I've never had a man complain that I stopped while I came on his face!!
vvv .marc
then do 69 with you on top! | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/17/2009 1:26:06 PM | No
I was told that this message is too short to post so instead I will enter this sentence then repeat the answer to your question.
No - in fact I think it is scriptural " It is better to give than to receive". | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/18/2009 8:14:05 AM | Ahh,reminds me of the line in the Aerosmith song...
"Ya aint seen nothin' til you're down on a muffin and ya sure be changin' your ways"..
Kinda goes with what my Dad taught me.."Ladies First"... | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/18/2009 8:20:33 AM | Simple really...
You GET what you GIVE!!!!! 
If he doesn't want to give YOU head...then HE doesn't get any either...and frankly, I'd start looking for a man who KNOWS how to enjoy a woman's body FULLY if I were your friend...Sex/couples counselling, might work if he has a specific problem with it...But methinks it's a case of he's "got" her and no longer needs to pull out the "fancy stops"...Hmmm, similar to what MEN are always complaining about their women not going down after marriage/LTR.....
Too bad for her....and him!  | |
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/18/2009 5:11:44 PM | | You know i was thinking of telling her i don't have the problem of getting some amazing oral but i didn't want to be rude | |
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