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Khal25
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Msg: 228 | |
| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/9/2009 2:07:00 PM | | If the attraction and flow is there then sure. My philosophy has always been "expect nothing but be prepared for everything" which means make sure your breath is right and you don't have little bits and remnants of dinner in your mouth just incase a kiss happens but at the same time don't get disappointed if it doesn't. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/9/2009 10:43:20 PM | | If we feel the chemistry, of course, why not? I know within 30 seconds of looking at a man if I want him to kiss me. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/9/2009 10:45:16 PM | Yes please....big sloppy, wet, juicy kisses.................................unless we don't connect...then I just lick their face.... | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/10/2009 1:54:24 AM | | A hug means the date went well, a handshake means we can be friends, and a kiss means I am in trouble. LOL | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/17/2009 12:51:34 PM | Some of these responses are unreal and the responses from the ladies seem most surprising..
If this is an actual date.. guys, you should always kiss her goodbye. If you are attracted to her, kiss her on the mouth, if you are not that attracted to her, kiss her on the cheek.
Ladies, if you are not attracted to him: When he leans to kiss you, turn your cheek toward him and allow him to kiss you on the cheek. He'll get the signal.
Good grief people.... | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/17/2009 1:28:57 PM |
If this is an actual date.. guys, you should always kiss her goodbye. If you are attracted to her, kiss her on the mouth, if you are not that attracted to her, kiss her on the cheek.
I prefer to kiss on the butt cheek, it's much more personal. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/17/2009 1:31:31 PM | | i'm told some men will actually ask permission first. dudes, even if the date has gone perfectly, no kisses are coming your way with this strategy. just tell her you're gonna test-drive her lips as you lean in; a big girl knows how give you a stop sign without making a wreck of things. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/17/2009 3:27:15 PM | | If I like the guy I definitly want him to plant one on me...if he doesn't then I just assume he isn't interest in me in 'that way'. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/18/2009 12:22:11 AM | For some reason, my first dates ususally "sit down" and kiss.
(true story - lol). | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/18/2009 12:56:06 AM | | Depends on the date. I had a first date where I was dying for him to kiss me. Very smart man. He didn't and left me hungering. It turned into a six year relationship. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/18/2009 6:00:01 PM | | I think that s where I blew it yesterday. I had my first date with a woman from POF. We seemed to get along great. We met at a Mexican restaurant for lunch. We were so busy talking we barely touched our food. We talked for over 2 1/2 hours. I definitely made some classic mistakes though. We talked about past relationships, which is usually a no no on first dates. But despite this, we have so much in common. I really felt we had a connection. But my conservative ways cost me. At the end of our lunch, when we were outside saying good bye she kind of stood there, waiting for me to kiss her. But no, I hugged her instead. She asked me to let her know when I get back to town so we can go out again. But when I got home, I sent her a message here, thanking her for such a great lunch and telling her I enjoyed meeting her. No reply even though I know she read it. Then, today, I sent her a second message again thanking her. No reply. I have no choice but to leave her alone. It is very possible she thought by us hugging instead of kissing, I was not interested. But the fact is, this was the first woman I have gone out with in a long time, where I felt a real connection. So, I am very upset with myself for handling this so poorly. I really blew it with her. So, my advice is if a woman wants you to kiss her, kiss her. I wish I had...... | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/24/2009 1:01:44 PM | | yes, absolutely if you like him or her....life is short..why wait...if that kiss is bad, then either you need to teach him or run for it. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/24/2009 5:22:28 PM | | I don't kiss on the first date. My theory is that if he's interested there will be a second and subsequent third date. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/24/2009 6:54:27 PM | I went out with a woman about 6 months after I separated from the ex... She initially didn't see / notice the 'separated' on the profile. So when it came time to have our good nights to a WONDERFUL date, even though there was some HUGE mutual attraction - hand holding, big hugs and more talk in the parking lot, she insisted that she couldn't kiss me on the lips because I was still - however technically - still married. So we nibbled each others ears, we ran our hands up and down each others bodies, but no kiss..
Same deal on the second date. Then - poof - she couldn't see me again.
I really wanted to get to know that woman better.. Still would like to know what the deal was.
Another date with slightly less 'connection' during the date, I hugged her good night, kissed her cheek and headed to my car... I got about 20 feet away, and had a strategic change of heart - I turned around and saying - no - no! I came back grabbed her around the waist and kissed her before she had a chance to get in her car. Big smiles from both of us and we had 5 more great dates!
I have had very few dates where there wasn't some attraction where I felt I wouldn't even bother with a kiss good night - just good planning and mutual common ground prior to the dates perhaps. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/24/2009 7:17:49 PM |
I don't kiss on the first date
One must do whatever they are comfortable with....
My theory is that if he's interested there will be a second
The problem with your theory is that you just told the guy you aren't really interested in a romantic relationship. | |
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