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Have not
Have not regretted either.
Kissed them on a first date because I couldn't stand NOT kissing them....
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/12/2005 10:21:59 PM | i dunno i personally am not against it one bit...but i always will respect her space and wont even try unless im sure all the signs are there. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 12:18:30 AM | cmon man
if you like her and it went well
go for it dont **** around
hesitatioon is the mother of all ****s ups
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Japhus
| | Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 30 | |
| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/13/2005 6:02:00 AM | | Sure, if you clicked, to each their own though. I haven't met a girl yet that was wanting to although I've met a couple I wouldn't have minded kissing. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 6:52:22 AM | These dont just happen on their own. If you want it to happen you gotta make it happen. Now that we're all out of middle school it is ok to kiss on the first date. The only real question is...Will it help or hurt you? If your gonna do it, learn to do it right. - just my 2 cents
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Posted: 7/13/2005 7:13:06 AM | The kiss is what seals the deal so to speak. thats what lets me know if i want a second date.
i have been on dates however, where there was no kiss, but something left in the air . A yearning perhaps.
I think now, come to think of it, I enjoyed the waiting more...;lol.... butterflies in the stomache you know?
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Posted: 7/13/2005 7:33:25 AM | ok, let me put it this way. if your on a first date with someone. everything really seems to be going well and the mood is right, you lean over to kiss them and they say, "sorry, but i dont kiss on the first date" does that mean they just arent into you or could they be into and really just dont kiss on the first date?
This is because you haven't structured the kiss along a timeframe that builds up the anticipation of her getting kissed. When she says "Sorry, but I don't kiss on a first date" does not mean shes not receptive to it just you haven't done the work beforehand to make her want you to kiss her. I can't tell you how many women have said that to me only to have them lunging at me later.
Imagine if the girl was on a date with someone she was gaga over, say Brad Pitt, do you think her rule of "Sorry, but I don't kiss on a first date" would be adhered to so strictly? You may not be Brad Pitt but, that doesn't mean you can't make her FEEL like she's with someone she's gaga over.
I could tell you here how this works but we don't want to give away all our secrets now do we? ;) | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 9:02:12 AM | Generally? I don't kiss on a first date (or even the second) - of course there's always exceptions ... especially if the chemistry and connection is there. Course I also find that once I start kissing? I have a hard time stopping *lol* But generally (again, sometimes exceptions) I'm pretty "to myself" the first several dates.  | |
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Vickii
| | Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 35 | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 9:07:30 AM | | It depends on the guy, if he's a fox, I will kiss him before he gets the chance to kiss me, I'm certainly not bashful when it comes to getting a kiss from a hottie!! lol | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 9:10:51 AM | | The best part of the date is the anticipation of the kiss, wondering how the person kisses, wondering if you get that spine shiver, of course i have not kissed on some first dates but there was never a second date anyway. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 9:13:14 AM | | I'm all about the kissing on the first date! And not just a peck. A short kiss is just a formality, to get the whole "first kiss" out of the way. I can see inside a girls soul with a proper kiss. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 9:22:05 AM | | if its someone that you click well with then yesss ...it gives me chills watching a man look at my lips wanting to kiss me...even if it is the first date...i love to kissssss | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 9:26:18 AM | kissing on first date...thats fine but i wouldnt sleep with them on the first date...might regret it later | |
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Posted: 7/26/2005 1:18:32 PM | | I only go on first dates with someone I want to kiss. The chemistry is there before we make the date, so the rest is gravy. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2005 1:20:12 PM | Japhus
Sure, if you clicked, to each their own though. I haven't met a girl yet that was wanting to although I've met a couple I wouldn't have minded kissing.
Oh yes he has, me! lmao! Evidence to the left lol | |
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Japhus
| | Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 48 | |
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Posted: 7/26/2005 4:17:56 PM | Like GL has said above, whoops, yes I have. We met and it was magic from the start.
(Mind you, my first post saying no was before our date...)
Never happened before...can't wait to see her again. Miss you G. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2005 4:33:24 PM | | I've done both, it really doesn't matter to me. I think I would prefer to get a kiss though, I know then that the guy doesn't dislike me and at least theres a chance for a second date. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2005 6:28:59 PM | | Tell me this... when you suddenly turn around and there he is, your eyes lock, and you are both lost in each other's eyes, and it's the first date... what do you do? I leaned in and gave him the first smoocheroo! lmao | |
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