| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/9/2005 5:00:50 PM | I believe one should kiss BEFORE the first date. In fact, sex should probably be gotten out of the way, also. Then you can relax and the pressure is off  | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/9/2005 5:12:21 PM | | I don't usually kiss on the first date, but I have when there were sparks flying! Not too often, cause it can get outta hand easily, lol.... I have had other times when I was given or just gave a peck on the cheek....Like everyone elsa says, don't make too much out of it... | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/10/2005 10:11:47 AM | | its 2005 - sex on the first date isnt even something to blink about anymore... to each his own - everyone is different - play it by ear | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/10/2005 6:29:02 PM | lol -- you've got to be kidding!!!!!
Sorry, I know that you're not kidding! You'll know if the lady is into giving you a kiss, worst scenario just ask her if you could give her a kiss. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/10/2005 8:07:41 PM | I usually kiss on like the 20th date....
I prefer a nice hearty handshake.....
Don't want Women to think I am too forward!
After all......Women like a Man with a slow hand..... | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 9:49:08 AM | Hell yes! you gotta just KISS THE GIRL! "You gotta pucker up your lips like dis", <--- Haha! Sorry guys i'm a lil baked and geek'n, but I MEAN IT! | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 9:53:29 AM | well I will have to say that there is no rule there and all depends on the person. I had have it both ways , but I can tell you that it makes things more relaxing and maybe a second and thirt date ......  | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 10:02:13 AM | Yes I do on the first date, but only if I'm attracted to the man in person, meaning that we're attracted prior online enough to make a date, hopefully, but if the sparks don't continue in the flesh so to speak, I'm so outta there!!! lol
Kissing someone is important to me also, and if they can't kiss worth beans, either they're willing to learn, and we can go from there, or not.......... | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 10:06:16 AM | | kissing on the first date...?...uh huh...yup...and the second...and the third...and the fourth...and..and...forever and ever....amen... | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 11:18:40 AM | | Can there be a more electric moment? I echo ladybugg---start it right from the start, and never want to quit, cuz if you got that, you got it! (Damn, I shoulda gone to the poetry forum) | |
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Posted: 12/15/2005 12:06:58 PM |
I echo ladybugg
^^^ hmmm...please do....
i think that means something erotic in floridian...right...?....lol | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 12:15:56 PM | it depends
I went on a date.. with this guy.. he says.. I would like to give you a kiss.. stupid me.. thinks.. ok.. a quick kiss nothing wrong with it.. well next think I know he's got me in a headlock and has rammed his tongue down my throat..
I litterally had to fight him.. off.. so now I'm more hesitant to do the first date kiss thing. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 12:23:23 PM | | Guess it depends on the vibe... its pretty easy to know if kissing on the first date is viable for both when the date is in full swing. Im just.. not gonna do it again. Kissing my POF dates (2 outta 2) on the first date has ultimately led to ... unexpected results, including... crying. So Im not so sure, even if the vibe is right and everything is going awesome, that kissing on the first date... is such a good thing. Maybe... I need to go rent Hitch again!! | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 5:16:21 PM | | I dont see why if you both feel attracted to one another and feel comfortable to kiss on the first date,why you should not.Its not like your going to let things get out of hand on the first date.But i know some may ,and thats their choice.But for me ,on a first date as im shy ,it would have to be the guy that gives me the first kiss ,before i would lean forward and begin to kiss him. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 5:21:38 PM | I don't see anything wrong with kissing on a first date,if the chemistry is right,why not?Maybe he will come back for more! | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 5:31:13 PM | You should be able to tell from the chemistry and closeness.. or lack thereof, from either side..... but PLEASE guys.. when you give the first kiss... don't trying to stick your WHOLE tongue into our mouths..... first kisses are WONDERFUL with lips only.. its a BEGINNING...
let us WANT you... first....be patient.. it is worth it. Feels soooo invading otherwise...
just in case you didn't realize. Wait for the sense of the 'invitation' .... don't rush a good
thing... timing makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE...
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 10:03:40 PM | At my age, I'd be grateful if he wanted to kiss me on the first date. I'm not sure I remember how to kiss, but I'd be willing to try. Mother used to caution me not to kiss on the first date because it could lead to other things. Well, at 56, I'm not worried about getting pregnant from a few kisses. I'd be really grateful for a few good kisses, even a bad kiss will do. Ha, ha! | |
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