| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 10:10:51 PM | If the sparks are there & the moment is right then hell yeah!!!
EllyElf - if it's the right guy then we can only hope kissing leads to other things ;)  | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 10:25:54 PM | | well i've been on two dates where (for me) there was absolutely zero attraction and each guy figured he was entitled to kiss me - neither one even bought me so much as a coffee either LOL. i like kissing very much, but if i'm not attracted to a guy, all i can say is, no thanks! so i've adjusted my profile accordingly. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/15/2005 10:39:08 PM | Goldielocks - I agree.
MEN PLEASE - no tonsillectomies!YUCK!
A good kiss should be sweet & slow & leaving us wanting more...
Not seeing how far you can shove your tongue down our throat.UGH! | |
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| kissing on the first date?.....your funny elly,but dont worry....
Posted: 12/15/2005 10:53:02 PM | You certainly have a good sense of humour Elly,dont worry as alot of us have not kissed anyone in a while,lol and im told its like riding a bike,once you start again it will all come back to you honey''.So dont worry,and yeah you wont have to worry about getting pregnant.I hope you get your wish from Santa ,maybe he will send you a guy in your stocking''' and thats what i asked for lol'''.good luck. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/16/2005 3:22:06 AM | Depends if I have the hots for her or not.
Depends if she sneaks in and plants a stealth kiss on my without me noticing until it is already done. | |
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Posted: 12/16/2005 10:21:39 AM | Thanks for your good wishes everyone! What a goofy grandma I am! The last time I was kissed, I almost choked. What is it with the tongue? Yuck! We used to call it French Kissing. Whatever happened to the good old passionate, linging kisses. I do have someone in mind, but he's too busy for me. Time to start  .
Don't worry about kissing on the first date. If you don't want to, say so. There is nothing wrong with a hug or a hand shake. Just call me old fashioned. If you want a kiss, go for it!
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 12/16/2005 2:32:53 PM | I personally believe that rules were made to be broken, which is why it's easier just to not make any. No kiss on a first date? I didn't even try to say that with a straight face when I was 16. I sure don't see any reason to now that I'm....*looks again at the calendar, how can this be?*.....47.
That said, there are men that, after we meet, I find I don't WANT to kiss, and it's my right to turn my head completely or enough so that the kiss lands on my cheek if he tries. That seems more polite than saying prudishly "I don't" or "I won't" or worse yet "I don't want to." And if they ask me out, I try to be kind and truthful and tell them about that new job offer in Yemen. *laughing*
I've kissed on a lot of first dates, I've gone farther on a first date *hopes you don't tell my mom that* and I've chastely left after a hug or a handshake on others.
In reading back over this, I'll say (before someone slaps my hand for me) that it doesn't mean you're a prude if you say you don't, any more than it makes me a trollop to say I most emphatically DO (if the chemistry is there).
I admit I WOULD be concerned if I wanted to kiss a guy and he prissily informed me that he "doesn't kiss on the first date." Of course, I'm as likely to hear that as I am to hear a guy say "her boobs are too big for her to be wearin' that bikini' , or "Man! I wish those Hooters waitresses wore longer shorts!" | |
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Posted: 12/16/2005 2:50:00 PM | | There have been times when the moment was right and other times when it just was not ,For me that all depends on the chemistry and the way Im feeling at the moment. | |
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Posted: 12/16/2005 4:29:33 PM | I've got a date coming up. I'll let you know if Granny kisses him on the first date. It depends on the chemistry, or lack of.  | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 6/28/2007 10:14:16 PM | | sure why not if the attraction is there I kiss if they want to that is...I see nothing wrong with it. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/2/2007 4:45:26 AM | Kissing on the first date can be debatable but I think if the chemistry is there and the mood is right then sure.
My ex on our first date asked if he could kiss me...I said sure and kissed him on the cheek (as a joke) then when he least expected I planted a big juicy kiss on his lips.....he loved that
So I say yes if the mood is right. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 9/19/2007 6:11:33 AM | | At the end of the night is ok- kissing sombody when you havnt even said hello is very very very very very very very very very very very very disturbing- and yes it has happened to me- I pulled away and was like 'WHAT ON EARTH ARE YOU PLAYING AT? | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 4/21/2008 9:28:25 AM | yeah! If the sparks and there build a fire. I recently had a wonderful first blind date. We hit it off immediately, and OMG he is a great kisser. Leave them curious and wanting more..... Be seductive, it is ok, and enjoy if he has great breath and it is mutual... | |
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Posted: 4/21/2008 10:19:17 AM | | Yes....but only if I feel the "SPARK"...or...the "ZA-ZA-ZOOM"...otherwise, no. | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 4/21/2008 1:37:42 PM | Sure.... kissing cheeks and giving a sassy slap on her butt... 
Maybe I will try that someday....  | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 4/21/2008 6:21:01 PM | | Well personally I believe there has too be some type of chemistry if there isnt any I sorry but I wont go as far as allowing the man too maybe kiss me upon my cheek but I do admit I rarely go out with anyone I havent found a mimium amount of the so called ( gotta try it once too see if he kisses as good as it feels to be around him) If its there go for it worse thing could happen is he really turns out to be a crappy kisser and you gotta teach him how u enjoy being kissed. which hate to say it I done a few times. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 4:25:37 PM | | I didn't kiss on the first date and got stood up on the second..So, I am kind of glad I didn't waste it on someone that had no plans on being around. Rather kiss someone that is 100% interested in me and not getting a piece of as* | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 6/16/2008 4:56:40 PM | | Yes....on my last first date.....there was NO way there wasn't going to be kissing.... | |
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| kissing on the first date?
Posted: 6/24/2008 10:01:37 PM | Maybe....
If the date has gone very well and we're both feeling that, I want my date to be assertive enough to kiss me slowly and deeply at the end of the evening.....and I want to be able to still feel it when I close my eyes and think about it the next day. | |
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