| | A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?Page 17 of 20 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20) | JSNC : Studies are great but studies detecting lying would not apply to the dating world. They would be lacking an agenda, or a motive, that could not be reproduced in a sample.
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/8/2011 12:53:37 PM |
by the time I was 16 I learned what I liked and what I didn't like
Hello??? I know things are tough for you, having such high requirements for sexual gratification-but you are aware of the fact that most cases of sexual intercourse involve at least 2 people, and the other participant(s) have a right to have their likes and dislikes too, and people who actually have a hope in hell of making a solid relationship manage to work that out to mutual acceptability, not one person dictating to the other one.
yes at 19 and 20 you are a fully functional adult No, hon, you are a PHYSICALLY(including sexual activity) fully functioning adult at that age. Developing ones' mental and emotional full functioning tends to take longer- and some never do.
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/11/2011 5:56:30 AM |
Aries... you have the right idea ! Don't give up.
Thanks, I know I do. But at the same time, I am sickened, But also get a laugh out of what these knuckle dragging, neanderthals post. For the post part they don't even realize they cut their own throats with their weird ideas. Any woman who gets in with them is bound to get hurt by them eventually. These kind of men never really make a commitment to one woman. They may marry one some day. But to just sit here and read what they say, If I were a woman interested in one of them, NO WAY! would I ever trust either one. These type men think with their**** Men who think with their**** People who don't deserve getting hurt, Get hurt by these type men everyday. These type men give decent men, The ones that don't think with their****or walk around with their****in their hand looking for somewhere to stick it, A bad name. We all wind up bunched up with them. That's the thing I don't like..
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/11/2011 7:35:33 AM |
For the post part they don't even realize they cut their own throats with their weird ideas.
Oh, really? In what way have I cut my own throat? I've had sex with a few women. I've enjoyed it. The women seemed to enjoy it. I never deceived any woman for sex. I haven't been married and divorced. I am now engaged and expect to be married before too much longer to a woman I've been with for almost 2 years. If I've cut my throat, I imagine there are a lot of people who wouldn't mind borrowing my razor.
Any woman who gets in with them is bound to get hurt by them eventually.
And this would be because...? Do you have some weird idea that having sex early is somehow tied to ethics? If so, I'd like to see what kind of tortured reasoning connects those two things.
These kind of men never really make a commitment to one woman.
My fiancee would disagree.
They may marry one some day.
Yes and some day is no longer all that vague. But, getting married is easy. How long did your marriage last? If that 6 years in your relationship field refers to a marriage of 6 years, then you marriage didn't last any longer than the relationship I began with a woman I met right before going off to college when I was 18. However, I've never been married (nor have I ever given a woman an engagement ring until two weeks ago). I considered committment to include the part about following through. I have a thing about not making a committment that I am not prepared to keep. If you want to talk about which of us takes committment more seriously, start with the one you didn't keep.
But to just sit here and read what they say, If I were a woman interested in one of them, NO WAY! would I ever trust either one. These type men think with their**** Men who think with their**** People who don't deserve getting hurt, Get hurt by these type men everyday. These type men give decent men, The ones that don't think with their****or walk around with their****in their hand looking for somewhere to stick it, A bad name. We all wind up bunched up with them. That's the thing I don't like..
Basically, you're just doing the self-righteous ``nice guy rant.'' Your desire to have a woman who is a ``challenge'' dosn't make you decent. It doesn't mean you won't hurt women. It doesn't mean you don't think with your d!ck. (I'd say that it means you do a lot of thinking with it, given that you connect so many other things, like decency, trust, etc., to your d!ck. It's difficult to imagine how you could connect all of those things without being obsessed with sex.)
If anything turning sex into a challenge is just game playing and a weird one at that. Can you explain why you would be put off by a woman who would actually be turned on enough by you to wat to have sex with you by a third date? I can only think of one reason. You believe that if a woman would find you appealing enough to sleep with by the third date, she'd sleep with anyone. That seems screwed up on several levels. Let's cut to the chase here. Is your objection to a woman who would have sex with you by a third date due to a belief that a woman who would do that is a slut who would sleep with anyone and not worthy of you? Have you ever had sex on or before a third date? Do it make a difference if a woman had sex on or before a third date or do you only care if she would make you wait?
It's fine to wait for sex. What isn't acceptable is rationalizing your wish to wait by attributing all of those negative attributes to those who don't. | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/12/2011 2:28:13 AM | You said it right here. This is you and the other guy in a nutshell.
being obsessed with sex.)
There is no nice guy rant in what I have said. All I have pointed out is truth that these women who have been following this thread already know. They see it in what you and that other guy post. Just like I do. If that is your only comeback, It's pretty weak. So weak that I will not even address the rest of what you said. All I can say, Everything you and that other guy post doesn't do anything but hang you even more. The more you talk the more you make my point.
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/12/2011 4:28:10 AM |
Well in my life I have had some very bad sex.. This and you other posts indicate to me that you are probably not a very good lover and that is why you have had 'some very bad sex.' You don't seem to know what it is all about, actually being with a woman. You would probably be just as happy with a prostitute or jacking off. | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/12/2011 8:07:08 PM |
by 19 or 20 they should know?
you are kidding i hope.
but i guess you arent kidding. sorry for you.
do you have a daughter? would you expect her to know that by 19 or 20?
get a life. go away. lol
I have three adult daughters and I agree with him. This is the year 2011 right? It isn't still the Victorian era is it?
Yes most people know about sex and how it all works by the time they are 19. | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/12/2011 8:27:57 PM | Basically, you're just doing the self-righteous ``nice guy rant.''
abelian I agree with what you wrote about Aries Looking but I don't think he is nice at all.
Aries Looking you are the type of man that any thinking woman will avoid like the plague because you have ideas about women that should have long ago died. I went back and read another of your posts, and it just made me cringe. A challenge? Make you work for it? WTF? You really are one of the ones I make all effort to avoid. I like men who see me as an equal, and see sex as something we both equally get something out of.
Being real about it, if by the third date a man isn't at least showing some interest in sex, there will most likely not be a fourth date. I would think he thought of me as just a friend or that he did not find me attractive. If you are both single what is the big deal? | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/12/2011 9:12:25 PM |
Yes most people know about sex and how it all works by the time they are 19.
In a sex ed. kind of way, yeah, even before 19; but does anyone know exactly what they like or don't by 19, enough so that they will never deviate from that again in life. Ummmm, I think that would make for a very limited repertoire. 
~ Hearing Tina singing "What's love got to to do with it" in my head .... in 2-3 dates....absolutely nothing.~ Must be the vapors coming on ... da*n corset is cutting off my air, lol~ | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/12/2011 9:26:54 PM |
but does anyone know exactly what they like or don't by 19, enough so that they will never deviate from that again in life. Ummmm, I think that would make for a very limited repertoire.
Most 19 year old I knew back then had several hundred sexual experiences, I am talking 600 or more. So I would say there repetoire would not be limited at all | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/12/2011 10:48:44 PM |
Most 19 year old I knew back then had several hundred sexual experiences, I am talking 600 or more. So I would say there repetoire would not be limited at all
Wow.... I guess not !! But I really hope that a girl of 19 would not have had that many encounters. I was responding to the post about the three daugthers. I wasn't insinuating anything about you Apollo. | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/12/2011 10:55:46 PM |
Most 19 year old I knew back then had several hundred sexual experiences, I am talking 600 or more. So I would say there repetoire would not be limited at all A 19 year old with 600 or more sexual experiences. Sex to you and girls like this, some kind of conveyor belt mechanical thing. Jeeeez, a 19 year old with 600 sexual experiences...that is sad. | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/13/2011 4:58:26 PM |
Most 19 year old I knew back then had several hundred sexual experiences, I am talking 600 or more. So I would say there repetoire would not be limited at all
Ummm... I really wonder if you think we believe your outlandish posts about sex...
A lot of the stuff you post is so far out there that quite frankly, I think you make a lot of it up... | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/13/2011 5:27:07 PM | I wouldn't go out with him/her at all! Many seem to be here only for SEX! I find that to be a turn-off. The age old conversation attempt that leads into the subject of sex makes me wonder about the persons intellegence, as well as their motive. There are many here looking for something real...this takes time to find with someone. Including sex, without knowing a person, or whether you would even want to have sex with that person, beyond the lust one feels when attracted to another, should be detained. Get to know, really know that person, have fun. If you are here lookig for sex, let the person know up-front, NO GAMES...then time will not be wasted by either if your expectations are different. Just because we go on a date does not mean we want sex, and definitely do not owe anyone sex! When I am expected to have sex, or attempted to be forced into it, that is the LAST time I see that person.  | |
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abkaba
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/13/2011 6:12:51 PM |
600 is outrageous for anyone but it still isnt any of our business
um no it's not it is just over 100 per year since the age of 14 and if you think your kids aren't sexually active at that age you are delusional and very ignorant. I know I was sexually active by the age of 14 and I was always at parties where sometimes sex happened 3 times a night with some of my friends. | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/13/2011 6:21:57 PM |
I really wonder if you think we believe your outlandish posts about sex...
The truth is only my opinion matters to me and some internet stranger is not going to sway me. I really don't care whether anyone believes me or not because unless you are a real life friend of mine you are a nobody to me. | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/13/2011 6:34:34 PM | Personally I can't stand it when someone tells me what I have to do. Makes me dig in my heels and want to stubbornly do the opposite! 
This message had me laughing though! 
If such vacuous chatter-braining about expectations was prancing around in circles in my mind like some yappy and anxious poodle on a leash, I think I’d saw my head off.
I say, do what works for you. However, be aware that it might not fit everyone else's idea of fun.
Whatever you and your partner do decide to do should be done with a clear understanding of where the "relationship" stands.
In other words, have some integrity. | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/13/2011 7:09:43 PM |
definitely do not owe anyone sex! When I am expected to have sex, or attempted to be forced into it
You are right that you do not owe someone sex however if you are highly attracted to your date you will not wait, frankly you do not know your date at all until you have had sex with them.
Bottom line is to me and a lot of guys, sex and how soon it occurs and how often it occurs is a efficient gauge as to how physically attracted you are to your date. I don't force anyone into it but however if I don't get sex by the 6th week I write off my date as not physically attracted to me. | |
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| A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 2/13/2011 7:33:06 PM |
If a man in not trying to get into my pants by date three (and vice versa)...
there isnt an interest and its bye bye see ya!
personally if my date is not trying to get into my pants or not doing something sexual towards me period I would have to question whether my date just wants a friend. | |
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