| condoms...for real
Posted: 10/20/2009 8:15:48 AM |
can't you catch STD's just as easy thru oral sex also?.....Hmmmmm.....kind of defeats the purpose of wearing a condom.
Not "just as easy", no.
A condom reduces risk considerably.
A seat belt won't guarantee you'll be safe in a car crash either but it'll reduce your risk. Same principle applies to sex with a condom. | |
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| condoms...for real
Posted: 10/20/2009 8:19:47 AM | If you are stupid enough to have sex without a condom, don't come crying to the forums when you get knocked, or catch an STD. You should have some yourself, in case the guy is too fcuking stupid to wear one.
Common sense. So uncommon it's a god damn super power.
*My common sense is tingling*
:facepalm:
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| condoms...for real
Posted: 10/20/2009 6:53:57 PM | I don't just request them I require them. If a guy says he doesn't use them at all there is no way he is getting inside me. After all NO GLOVE. NO LOVE. There is way too much out there that can hurt you. Would you go out & brave winter cold without a coat would you? If you do you are crazy & need to be fixed. We girls have to carry condoms because you guys won't do it.  | |
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Posted: 10/20/2009 7:46:52 PM | | I have to agree with accidently in love here: "your body..... your issue.... how smart is it to leave your fate in a strangers hands?" I carry and use comdoms because I do not want any STD's and have no interest in being a daddy to anymore children. You protect you, carry your own comdoms and make it real simple; if the guy isn't willing to put one on, he shouldn't bother to take his pants off. Don't let someone else decide if you are going to catch a STD or have another child. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 3:32:03 PM | OP - call it what you want, but it sounds to me like you were just as irresponsible as your partners. It takes TWO to have sex.... and if one doesn't mention safe sex, then I would sure as hell hope the other one does! Regardless of why your previous partners didn't take precautionary measures is a moot point. If you were so concerned about your own health and pregnancy, then why didn't you jump in and say something before partaking in a game of hide the sausage?
*thinks back* - current partner - had condoms with him. - Check
Partner before him - had condoms with him. - Check
Partner before him - didn't have condoms - but I did - Check
Yeah.... safe sex isn't that difficult.. you just have to actually care about it.
So the question I'm pondering... what happens if you find out you have some sort of STD or whatnot? Who ya going to blame? Your partners? Or yourself? | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 3:44:52 PM | As a woman, I accept that it's my responsability to insist that a man wear a condom. I find it very odd that some men wouldn't do it anyway in order to protect themselves, but I am darn well going to insist on it for my safety and because I don't want an unwanted pregnancy. I actually had one guy try to sneak in without one after round one while we were cuddling. I had made him wear one the first time and he still tried. I got up and kicked him out and never spoke to him again.
Oh, and as far as not having insurance that covers prevenative care, try your local planned parenthood or county health clinic. They do STD testings, birth control and even give out condoms on a sliding payment scale. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:29:36 AM | OP: I guess you've been as stupid as they have by not taking precautions no to get an STD. One point on your favour: Guy do get screwed with the child support check stuff so in this case, women have the upper hand.
BTW, I dare any woman to surprise me without condoms on me or trying to have sex with you for the first time without one.... give a reward of $1,000 if you catch me. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:35:29 AM |
I am rather annoyed at the number of partners I have wracked up in the last year and NOT ONE has worn, offered to wear, or even mentioned condoms!
are you for real ? 
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| condoms...for real
Posted: 11/4/2009 8:48:00 AM | | Interestingly you are putting all the blame on the guy, instead of taking control of your own possible outcomes. This may make you a good candidate to be a victim. So, from now on carry your own condoms, and remember that if a guy doesn't even offer any form of precaution, more than likely he has already been exposed to STDs. So what are you going to do about it other than ignore? | |
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| condoms...for real
Posted: 11/4/2009 9:09:34 AM |
angelsback, "easy", well, I sure as heck wasnt meaning to be. Somehow, it just always happens.  If you are "easy" just say you are easy and like to have unprotected sex with lots of people. Dont try and blame it on others that they are being unsafe when you are equally to blame. In sex women hold all the cards. Simple tell them to use a condom or no sex and see which they pick | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 2:18:39 PM | | Jay, I have done that and it worked well until we were messing around after the first round and he tried to slip in without. I couldn't believe it. If I made him wear one the first time why wouldn't I a second time? I pushed him off, got dressed and told him to leave my house and never return. | |
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| condoms...for real
Posted: 11/4/2009 4:19:05 PM | I always start out with condoms and always rip them off in the heat of passion. I guess I've been so lucky not to "catch" anything. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 7:07:35 PM | Get real, most people don't use them, especially older people. Most women didn't want to use them. Sure, they are a bother to use and can't get off with them on, and who uses them with oral sex? Besides I never see anyone buying them in stores. Be careful with who you have sex.
You all can say you always use condoms, but you know it's not always. | |
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| condoms...for real
Posted: 11/5/2009 8:23:53 AM | | I always wear them. If the lady I am with has a problem with it I go home. Bye Bye do not need the risk. | |
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