| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/2/2009 3:56:40 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^What the hell did she just say????^^^^^^^^^^
The silent majority agree with me
Please be more specific on what they agree with?????????......
Speak for yourself Blue... I have no respect for anyones opinion who believes another human being needs to be trained like a dog!
Did you really think I meant what I wrote?.......... ..........You know me better than that.....  | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/2/2009 6:10:11 AM | nurse; for your info i've lived a dream of a 14yr in a small town in n.j.. in fact i did more then the dream ever was was. yes, alot of pain along the way, but it was worth it.
my plan was and always will be very simple. i just go out and be my self, warts, off beat s-o-h, and storys of a life lived like few others. i put my pics up for people to look at. i do not run and hide from anything. i'm not sure you understand the concept of that. | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/2/2009 7:56:54 AM |
And men, by their nature want to save you from something. No. BOYS play that game. MEN want a whole, fully functioning woman who can love unconditionally and without playing games... and training someone like a dog is DEFINATELY playing games... and attempting or desiring to change someone is a game that GIRLS play, NOT women.
You see nurse, for all the garbage you are spouting... and yes your version is garbage... its obvious that you have completely missed the basic tenents of every eastern religion book you have read and that is: ACCEPTANCE. Eastern religions do NOT teach manipulation, they teach acceptance and allowing each person to find their own path in their own time. There is nothing in a single one of your posts that indicates that you are capable of accepting anyone as they are, but you instill a constant need to change (which speaks to your control issues which speaks to your own insecurity).
Did you really think I meant what I wrote?  ....................You know me better than that..... Wait! What was I thinking... that was SARCASM!  | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/2/2009 9:29:07 AM | I think nurse hooked one, used her karma sutra positions on him, cut off her supply of oxygen to the brain while bent in an awkward position, used him like a dog then cooked him. See what happens when you cook what you hook, use it and then eat it?
Ok, I know that was a little silly but I am finding such humor in her "I know everything" attitude. I am also glad to see that people posting here don't agree with her. Again, I have no clue why I was the focus of her "lessons" . | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/2/2009 9:50:27 AM | Creamy, spoken like a true American... why get involved in anything that's not aimed directly at us... I mean no reason to stand up for abused animals, abused women and children or anything else thats wrong in society right? not quite the same in my opinion, but I do see the reasoning behind your comment.. I also agree that people do not need to be treated like a dog or trained as them either.
a lot of people in this world desire to live a lifestyle that includes this train of thought that this nurse seems to infected with .. and when someone has these type of opinions as she does .. I have no respect for them either ..I just don't go out of my way to personally(sp) take after them if I was not the target...that's just me. I can express myself when I feel the need to.. isn't the old saying" pick your battles"??
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/2/2009 1:56:52 PM | Thank God the women who fought for your right to vote didn't feel the way you do! But then, maybe the world would be a better place if they had...

Again, I have no clue why I was the focus of her "lessons" . Deb, its because something about you caused her to face one of her many insecurities and instead of looking inside (as she preached), she found it easier to attack you. | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/2/2009 2:51:31 PM |
change yourself to be like you want to be. Dream the dream, then run the marathon, and be the dream that you just dreamed of. Remember no pain no gain. Namaste all. Thanks Nurse, but again NO THANKS. I am ALREADY WHO I WANT TO BE.
You know you come on here, giving one or two words, expecting eveyone to KNOW what you are talking about. Kama Sutra??Perhaps some of us don't want to live by Kama Sutra or your beleif system of "success and relationships". When we don't accept YOUR way of thinking you call US "Superficial and Uneducated". Sounds like you are using the fact that we don't accept your way of thinking as a your "scapegoat" to your arrogance.
If I came on here talking about Manderbrets set of Fractal numbers and someone did not understand what they are (and boy are the really cool!) I would not call someone superficial or uneducated, I would explain it in more detail. ONLY IF the person was INTERESTED. If a person WASN"T interested that's o.k.. then I wouldn't, out of respect. No one person has all the knowledge of the world. Nor do some of want to have knowledge about some things. That doesn't make us superficial or uneducated. Namaste
^^^^^^^^^^^^What the hell did she just say????^^^^^^^^^^ Blue it is simple.... she spoke of "atillaess the hun in person" . Don't you GET it, she was scourned by Attila the HUN ( you know, that FEARSOME Leader of the Hunnic Empire back in circa 434 to 453). Now it's Pay back time. Geeeze I thought ANYONE would have known that.
The silent majority agree with me
Please be more specific on what they agree with?????????...... Oh boy, I can hardly wait to hear this one. Pssst... Blue I think it pretains to the imaginary MAJORITY Just an uneducated guess of course.
Ok, I know that was a little silly but I am finding such humor in her "I know everything" attitude. I am also glad to see that people posting here don't agree with her. Again, I have no clue why I was the focus of her "lessons" . No Idea Deb, but I agree with Pete, you were an easy traget in her eyes. In other words, it's an attempt to validate her own insecurities. Glad to see you still have a sense of humor.
Pete I agree, NO ONE should be trained like dog. That is just plain arrogance.
Creamy I agree, we do have to pick and choose our battles. However when I see someone with such lack of human emotion that is self centered, that can sum up the human race as non caring, meaningless creatures, and thinks she is all knowledgeable. I fell compelled to speak. | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/4/2009 2:48:14 AM | | The nurse is right. I am looking for a LTR but all I meet are witches and the pathologically obese. I want someone that keeps fit, and someone that has a plan. I was trained to meditate and the thought of intimate meditation works for me. And in the plenty of fish vernacular, while a little slang, it is true that you need to hook her before you can cook her. Too many people try to find differences on the first date rather than common ground - you got to find the hook first. From one lonely fish thats looking to be trained. | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/4/2009 4:38:32 AM |
all I meet are witches and the pathologically obese
From one lonely fish thats looking to be trained. Does anyone think their might be a correlation between these two items?
You want to be trained and all you meets are witches... sounds like you're getting exactly what you want to me! | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/4/2009 6:00:40 AM | For us blondes (me) - I need someone to define "pathologically obese" - huh?
As I said.....Dearly Beloved....We are gathered here today to join.......... | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/5/2009 2:51:37 PM | ^^^^^ hope they don't meditate durning the ceremony and miss the "I do's."
I need someone to define "pathologically obese" - huh? No can do... also blonde.
And in the plenty of fish vernacular, while a little slang, I didn't even know POF had it's own language, must be why I don't get "pathologically obese". Also the training or the screw them or "atillaess the hun in person" would have anything to do with long term RELATIONSHIPS. (roll eyes) | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/6/2009 4:26:22 AM |
I need someone to define "pathologically obese" - huh? That's the one that complains that s/he didnt eat breakfast, has only a small salad for lunch and then goes home and consumes 10,000 calories when no one is watching and then complains because s/he never eats anything and can't understand why s/he never looses weight.
These are the same people that believe its a myth that more calories in than out equals fat!
Like everyone who is healthy doesnt know that it takes discipline and self control to maintain a healthy weight... | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/6/2009 5:39:07 AM | Thanks Pete!
No, I didn't google it, honestly could not understand that term - never heard it used before.
But does make sense - know a few people like that. Have a friend the size of Rhode Island and she only drinks Diet Coke because of the sugar - am guessing all the grease she uses for frying doesn't count!!
Discipline & self control is putting it mildly - it takes strict discipline to stay on the healthy diet - really difficult to do when you're at dinner & the others are diving into dishes with sauces or sizzling steaks and you're facing a grilled piece of xxx or another lame salad!
As for the LTR......at our age LT really is ST (short)!!  | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/6/2009 4:12:04 PM | In clinical practice, several criteria of the obese condition have been proposed:
1) Height / weight tables
2) The ratio between the actual and and 'ideal' weight of the patient. The ideal weight in kilograms is computed by subtracting 100 (in men) and 105 (in women) from the patient's height in centimetres. A person weighting greater than 120% of this ideal weight can be considered obese, and those weighting over 200% of their ideal weight, as PATHOLOGICALLY OBESE.
3) The Body Mass Index (BMI, or Quelet's index). This index is the ratio between the weight, expressed in kilograms, and the square of the height, expressed in meters. On the base of BMI, it is possible to divide the population into several classes: (a) underweight, with BMI (kg/m2) lower than 20, (b) of normal weight, with BMI between 20 and 25, (c) overweigth, with BMI between 25 and 30, (d) obese, with BMI between 30 and 40, and (e) morbidly obese, with BMI greater than 40. BMI is commonly used when dealing with obesity, because it is easily calculated and there is a good correlation between BMI and the rish of death.
In short, about 90 percent of those women on POF are in this category.

Hope this helps. | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/6/2009 4:40:21 PM |
In short, about 90 percent of those women on POF are in this category
Hence the term "AVERAGE" for Body type...........................  | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/6/2009 4:45:47 PM | I'd better change my profile then.....guess I'm not average afterall by these definitions.
Now you have me pondering......am I normal?  | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/6/2009 5:25:01 PM | In general those women profiles that have a "Body Type" of "Average" are what one could scientifically call pathologically obese. This is based on extensive research and interviews, and I have found a high correlation coefficient between these two terms.
Men, when you go on a date don't forget to bring your scale and measuring tape so that you can make an accurate determination as I have found that not all applicants are accurate and honest in their self reporting. | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/6/2009 6:01:36 PM | Blender Boi.....STFU!
DelrayBoi....Your last paragraph requires a correction - Should have begun "Men/Ladies".....
Ladies do not forget your measuring tapes either! You know if they reported they are 5'10", technically they are about 5'8"!! Remember - they are all using the POF Measuring System - measure plus 2. (Applies to other regions too)
My favorite are the ones who tell you they have a 32" waist - maybe - but I don't measure UNDER the tool shed - I measure around it. Pull 'em up semi Ed Grimley style and still tell me those 32" waist jeans work now.
It isn't just the ladies who fib a little - you guys are guilty too!  | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/6/2009 7:59:22 PM |
It isn't just the ladies who fib a little - you guys are guilty too
Oh my gosh.....No way. Men would never do such atrocities......  | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/7/2009 2:34:01 AM | Message on morbid obesity,
As a nurse I know what you can do with just a little effort. Please listen to this short video. Note the reference to dog training. Its the same way with men. Once you get them trained they will be good.
http://www.vegsource.com/news/2009/09/jay-gordon-md-you-must-exercise-video.html
Also, a message from rocco on the value of training your man.
http://www.vegsource.com/news/2009/11/rocco-the-vegan-cowboy-went-vegan.html
Time for weekend meditation. Namaste. | |
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| why do men post for serious/ltr only? Posted: 11/7/2009 8:44:06 PM | | Dog training??? As in dog obedience??? i.e. fetch, roll over, sit, play dead, etc. Include being house broken too. I'm glad that your a nurse and not a brain surgeon. All of your nurse training has got you educated beyond your intellegence. | |
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