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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 5:43:15 AM | | i need to add my 2 cents. this guy is gay (definitely) or has VD and trying to finish his meds. okay, please let me just do my post and no feedback. | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:53:06 AM | Fascinating.
We're evil for wanting to have sex with a woman. Now we're evil for NOT having sex with a woman....
I think I'll just go  | |
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NEPA71
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Joined: 10/13/2009
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 12:19:24 PM |
He did the finger smell test..........and you didnt exactly pass, lmao
He's thoughtful and waiting for the lesions to at least scab over first?
Lmao!!
personally, after looking at the body in the OP's last profile pic, I know I would've caved. unless there was a serious gastrointestinal issue or something.
You can always play the roofies card as a last resort.
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 4:09:16 PM |
With all those fish jumping and circling and flopping around near the shore, it may not occur to us that there are fish who swim in other areas of the pond. Looks like you found one. Yup. | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 4:16:17 PM | You blew it. Plain and simple. He liked you and was quite content with how things were progressing. No pressure, just letting this happen naturally. He seems like cool, laid back guy. Then you tell him he's a keeper but you're not sure if you want to keep him. So, in the mean time, let's have sex until you figure all this out. ...lol Are you serious? ...lol
With your actions you just told him you'll have sex with someone you're not sure about. If he is a "good guy" you just turned him off. If he has a bit of the "bad boy" in him he'll have sex with you until something better comes along. Why? Because you told him that was an alright to do. Either way, you just told him you're not girlfriend material. Easy sex combined with uncertain behavior sends up all kinds of red flags to most men. A woman can be easy or a woman can be uncertain and be okay. But being both is a definite disqualifier from the girlfriend Olympics. However, you may be in luck. If he is a "sucker" he'll go along with you until you get sick of him being a door mat.
Yes, that may be harsh. But it is reality. You may have just blown what could have been a great relationship for you.
Lateef | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 4:59:32 PM | What does he want? Who knows? At least we know what he DOESN'T want. He doesn't want an easy girl.
Some guys wonder if a gal will jump into bed with him soon after meeting, how many other guys has she jumped into bed with before him? Just because you are ready doesn't mean he is or has to be. It's a hard concept to deal with, I know. Give the poor guy a break. And be sure to let us know what happens.... | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 5:48:06 PM | | Thanks for all the posts... as blunt and honest as they were. I see that I am not looking at my actions b/c if i was i would know why the men i date do what they do. Time to work on me. Thanks | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 6:04:36 PM | | let me get this straight...you spent the night together but didn't have sex...wow..you both must be scary young...but wait..you are 27...when i was your age i was married and had a kid and a house with a mortgage...you are a student...life must be in slow motion for you...this is all such kid's stuff...you need to come up with a plan, an end game and a goal to work toward...eventually a life partner but not now... | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 6:07:07 PM |
Thanks for all the posts... as blunt and honest as they were. I see that I am not looking at my actions b/c if i was i would know why the men i date do what they do. Time to work on me. Thanks
You're a smart girl, good luck. | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 6:11:49 PM | So your upset, the guy didn't bang ya right off,,,,,,, Did all the others ?
You think maybe this entered his mind ? maybe he has a clue ?
maybe He's not into getting the gift of a lifetime.
maybe he has the gift, and did want to give it the next guy on the list, knowing it's his room mate ?
maybe he gay.
maybe he doesn't think your all that -------------- ??
maybe he's to small ?
maybe your to big ??
maybe his emotions are real and meaningful yours are not ??
Maybe ??? | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 6:14:45 PM | | Startle... I am happy to hear you did the marriage, family house thing at a younger age. Although character is half of maturity and it seems you are mighty judgmental without many facts. I grew up and seen a bad divorce and seen a mom who struggles now b/c she made family life her everything. I myself decided to go for the career thing first, for many reasons. If my life is slow, then hunny u livin to fast. | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 6:19:44 PM |
but wait..you are 27...when i was your age i was married and had a kid and a house with a mortgage...life must be in slow motion for you And now you're 51, divorced and on a dating site flaunting it .. What was your point? | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 7:59:26 PM | | what am i flaunting...i truly enjoy the single life....everyone gets suckered into the marriage mirage...i got out and live to tell about it...i have been single 20 years...i live by my own rules...to the point..being a slow poke is just a waste of a life...do something...each step in life does not have to last so darn long...by the way divorce is not a failure...it is a gift of freedom... | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 8:12:57 PM |
and small further advances
If you both are getting off with ORAL thats sex without the penetration. Come one who are we kiddin here LOL | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 8:49:10 PM | ^^^^^^Or maybe she's worked it out and has moved on.
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maybe, The clock does move faster for some, than others. 
The game plan ,, spun me around also .. | |
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NEPA71
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Joined: 10/13/2009
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:02:38 PM |
everyone gets suckered into the marriage mirage...i got out and live to tell about it...i have been single 20 years...i live by my own rules...to the point..being a slow poke is just a waste of a life.
So exactly what is she supposed to speed up? You flaunt the single life...and she is single.
Should she hurry up and get married so she can get divorced to be free...which she already is? that's circular reasoning at its finest...with a trip through cowsh*t at every lap.
If divorce is the gift of freedom, what is being single [before marriage]? | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:15:47 PM | maybe he really likes and even (gasp) respects you? or he might have erectile problems.
True story - I dated this guy, he didn't make a move on me for WEEKS! and then just kissing. I thought I met a REAL gentleman at last - - it was like 3 months before he jumped me and guess what? nothing - he was just a passive aggressive loser with permanent whiskey dick
just putting it out there - it's possible, happened to me | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:16:37 PM | | Thank u nepa... I mean for real.. if divorce is a gift of freedom... then that means she must have had a bad marriage or even at that I wonder why she just didnt stay single to begin with. And if being single is so good and is the ultimate goal, why the hell is she on a dating site. I would rather be confused then straight arrogant. | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/24/2009 1:42:04 AM | | the single life is a heck of a lot of fun if you know what you are doing...some people just waste their time being miserable when they don't have to be...move on...enjoy life..don't look back..no regrets... | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/24/2009 10:15:32 AM |
And if being single is so good and is the ultimate goal, why the hell is she on a dating site. You really aren't THAT naive are you ? .. lol .. 
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