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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/24/2009 1:42:04 AM | | the single life is a heck of a lot of fun if you know what you are doing...some people just waste their time being miserable when they don't have to be...move on...enjoy life..don't look back..no regrets... | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/24/2009 10:15:32 AM |
And if being single is so good and is the ultimate goal, why the hell is she on a dating site. You really aren't THAT naive are you ? .. lol .. 
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/25/2009 4:24:52 AM | | Most of my life, I was looking for sex by the second or third date. Sometimes, if I was lucky, I might get it on the first date. (Usually, when I had sex on the first date, there was some real chemistry there.) Recently, however, I was in a relationship where I didn't even get a kiss for 7 weeks. I tried to kiss her at the end of our second date, during which we both had fun, but she rebuffed my advance. When she rebuffed my advance, I just assumed that she just wasn't into me. I told her that was okay, I was a big boy, just tell me.... But, she stated that wasn't it.... She just wanted to take it very slow. So, for the first 7 weeks, the most that we did was hold hands. And, we did not have sex for several months.... After about 5 weeks, I was about to break it off. But, one afternoon, I was planning that if that date did not go well, it was over, I was out of there..... Well that afternoon, we got involved in this conversation that went on for about 6 0r 7 hours.... I was hooked and ,ultimately, I fell head over heels in love with her.... I must say that it was the most unique and refreshing experience of my life..... Some of my fondest memories of our relationship were those first 7 weeks when it was so simple and innocent..... Kind of funny how life can throw you curve now and then..... | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/25/2009 6:19:47 AM | | He must be gay, men are dogs , they will take any opportunity to get it when they can. Move on and try your luck with another guy, if he doesnt respond then perhaps its you,lol. But i doubt that. | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/25/2009 6:34:11 AM |
I did initiate it, but it ended up feeling kind of nice just cuddling after awhile.
You're doing it wrong...
But no shet though, The guy not wanting sex right away is now an issue.
Feck, back to the drawing board! AGAIN!
Priceless.. | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/25/2009 7:00:04 AM | Wicked Cricket says:
True story - I dated this guy, he didn't make a move on me for WEEKS! and then just kissing. I thought I met a REAL gentleman at last - - it was like 3 months before he jumped me and guess what? nothing - he was just a passive aggressive loser with permanent whiskey****
just putting it out there - it's possible, happened to me
I have a girlfriend who fell for a guy who did this same thing. He actually put an $8,000 ring on her finger and they had not had sex yet! I kept asking her, "Have you had sex yet? He's hiding something!!!" Sure enough, she eventually found out not only could he not get an erection, (he was a hardcore alcoholic, which she later found out as well...)
he was hung like a field mouse! Just something else to ponder...
smsweendoggie says:
Bingo you nailed, he's hung like a stud field mouse, lol | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/25/2009 5:42:14 PM |
Most of my life, I was looking for sex by the second or third date. Sometimes, if I was lucky, I might get it on the first date. (Usually, when I had sex on the first date, there was some real chemistry there.) Recently, however, I was in a relationship where I didn't even get a kiss for 7 weeks. I tried to kiss her at the end of our second date, during which we both had fun, but she rebuffed my advance. When she rebuffed my advance, I just assumed that she just wasn't into me. I told her that was okay, I was a big boy, just tell me.... But, she stated that wasn't it.... She just wanted to take it very slow. So, for the first 7 weeks, the most that we did was hold hands. And, we did not have sex for several months.... After about 5 weeks, I was about to break it off. But, one afternoon, I was planning that if that date did not go well, it was over, I was out of there..... Well that afternoon, we got involved in this conversation that went on for about 6 0r 7 hours.... I was hooked and ,ultimately, I fell head over heels in love with her.... I must say that it was the most unique and refreshing experience of my life..... Some of my fondest memories of our relationship were those first 7 weeks when it was so simple and innocent..... Kind of funny how life can throw you curve now and then.....
I've had a very similar experience. The best relationship I ever had was with a woman who made me wait more than a year for sex. Not only was the sex great when we did start having it, she was absolutely no drama to have around. There was a level of trust there that made the relationship easy to be in.
But of course, I was young and fraked it up. Haven't found anything like it before or since. Live and learn.
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/25/2009 5:49:09 PM | If you don't initiate it, he may not respond.
Maybe he got turned off at the sex only thing and agreed only to be polite. The most puzzling is why did he come back let alone want to hang out again?
This does not sound truthful to me but a lot of the forums are like that =)
Oh well, there is always next time. | |
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/26/2009 9:02:12 AM | "Why if men love sex, and him having an opportunity, did he not take his chance. He still wants to hang out again, but I guess I dont know what he wants. Any suggestions or anyone man or women been in a similar situation??? "
I think I know this guy...wait, I think I AM this guy! 
I don't know about him but with me, it's morals. Maybe talk to him and tell him how you feel. If it's something you WANT, or NEED, explain it to him and see how he feels about it. Maybe he is not as, shall we say, conservative as me, but maybe he is. I learned, from my forum thread, that it's better for him to be honest about that and if it's something you can't agree too, and need something more, then you can decide if this is something you want to continue to pursue or if it's time to move it back to the 'friend zone' and move on.
Just a thought.
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| Holding off on having sex with a women??
Posted: 10/26/2009 9:08:24 AM | Don't get it either. You're a cutie and I'D like to jump your bones!
"Sex" really boils down to: How he feels about you and how you feel about him. Are you hot for him? Like his bod? Does he feel the same? I think you two should have the talk about what specifically (body parts) you find attractive about each other. This should get the lust sizzling, because you'll begin exploring those body parts with your toungues.
If "sex" still isn't happening, you've got a great lukewarm guy friend there who likes to cuddle, and, if you're looking for sex, tell this cuddle-buddy you're going to start looking elsewhere to get that need to get fulfilled. If he likes you, and doesn't want to lose you, he'll start being a little more aggressive in the lust department. | |
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