| finding friendship difficult
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:51:38 AM | OP if you come back .......
Just stay away from him.
My ex-wife (married 17 years) would be up for fbuddies (just like he is).
The thing is ......... I know it, you have not accepted it yet.
You need to "get it" and stay away from him. | |
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| finding friendship difficult
Posted: 11/7/2009 1:57:41 AM | | Thanx everybody. I totally agree just easier said than done. I realise now I don't love him the same. I think just after ten years of being with him since 18 findin it hard to adjust I know now that its not him I. Want I'm just scared to let go but I'm going to have to. | |
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| finding friendship difficult
Posted: 11/7/2009 5:52:30 AM | clockwork lime would you please get off my back on these forums?
There is no contradiction in the advice I gave them.
I told them both to not see them for a few months.
I told them both they were being used.
Someone needs to think about something other than me and how
to try to embarrass me. | |
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| finding friendship difficult
Posted: 11/7/2009 12:33:11 PM | Why should you give him the benefit of your friendship and time if he doesn't want it to be more? You have seriously got to think about the lovely qualities you have got to offer someone. When you feel rejected it's so easy to start to feel negative about yourself when you are the perfect woman for some special person. You are a genuine, caring and loving person. Farceur knows what he's talking about. Please don't waste yourself and your gifts on someone who isn't able to appreciate them. There are others out there who would appreciate and love you, if you only let go of him. Whilst you are still fixated on him, you are inadvertently creating a wall between yourself and a better future. The minute he becomes part of your background and not foreground, other suitors will start to emerge.
I don't go along with this idea that someone who has broken up with someone is using them. This can be the case of course, with some dispreputable people, but others do appreciate the friendship and even love their ex, just do not feel they are 'in love' or that the person was right for them. Having said that, if it's painful for you, you are under no obligation to stay friends or in contact - it may be better for you to withdraw from that painful situation and concentrate on building yourself up again. | |
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| finding friendship difficult
Posted: 11/7/2009 12:44:24 PM | [The man who loves you is so amazed and grateful to spend time with you at all that his mission if life is to promote your welfare and happiness, so that as you prosper he gets a front row seat to the glory and splendor of your soaring spirit. ]
Farcuer, I'm printing this quote out and hanging it where I can see it every day. I will stay single until Ifind the man who loves me like this..... | |
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