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 buteo regalis

Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 25
How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/29/2009 8:45:07 AM

What are you trying to convey through this gesture?
Maybe the guy's not trying to deliberately "convey" anything?
Maybe he's just feeling nervous, awkward, and uncertain, and isn't really sure how to act, or what to say at that moment?


wow, and I thought that I often think too much.
I think that's exactly what this is. Over-thinking.
It seems like the OP's over-thinking this too much, and trying to hard to search for some sort of deep meaning in what was likely nothing more than an innocent, unconcious gesture that had no deep hidden meaning.
 scottdehart

Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 26
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Posted: 10/29/2009 8:52:19 AM
It's to hold your image in our memory until the time we can see you again.

But yeah, we also are checking you out again.
 bikeman1467

Joined: 9/22/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 10/29/2009 1:26:44 PM

when you say your goodbyes and you two seperate and after a few steps he turns around and looks back at you. Gentlemen - What are you trying to convey through this gesture?
If this were me, I'd be checking out my lady's ass. Seriously. I'd only be doing this if I hadn't had a good look at it during the date.
 MetDBlck

Joined: 1/18/2009
Msg: 28
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Posted: 10/29/2009 1:45:02 PM
"Killer date, great talker. Fascinating conversations, she's funny, beautiful and I can honestly say I haven't had such a great time in ages...yeah...*smiles and peers behind as goodbye is said*...and yes, she also has a killer ass!"

Also known as checking to see if there is sugar on the frosties.

Jokes aside.

It is literally as simple as:

He was checking your rear
 PlaidTruffles

Joined: 8/4/2009
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/29/2009 4:33:24 PM
I personally believe that a man is either interested or he's not. While I would like to think a lingering glance had meaning, I would also like to encourage you to
Stop. Analyzing. Men.
Stop.

I think men are difficult to understand. Men think women are difficult to understand. Centuries of literature, academic study, dating, marriages, and affairs have not changed this. No amount of further discussion will either.

Maybe years of “dating” have taught me that no relationship should be assumed to be serious, or permanent, or even a relationship. Actually the date means nothing unless overwhelming evidence to the contrary presents itself.

So I’m glad you had a great date. You enjoyed yourself and that’s what matters.
How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/29/2009 6:03:01 PM
Ok, so what would it have meant if he didn't look.

That must be similar to when you are already saying "I love yous" and you say it and he doesn't say it back that time.
 ItsMargo

Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/29/2009 9:03:20 PM
A long time ago I read something that said some people are wavers and some aren't... and I think it went on to suggest that people who turn around for a last wave were more open and friendly than those who weren't.

I hadn't noticed. But I started to pay attention. There are people who say good-bye and immediately go into what's next with their life... usually striding off down the sidewalk ensconced in their thought bubble. And there are those who linger and 'sneak a peak' before moving on. I don't know if it means anything.
 nativeleidee

Joined: 10/15/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 10/29/2009 9:27:21 PM
Why make it complicated, wouldn't the obvious thing be, to just ask?
 Sunnier

Joined: 9/8/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2009 9:53:55 PM
He turns around, watching your eyes......noting if your eyes go south to his zipper, which, BTW, he left open on purpose!
 beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 34
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Posted: 10/29/2009 10:11:17 PM
Not a damned thing Honey, we just want a look at your butt. Hey, we're guys, it's what we do.
Maybe if you stopped trying to interpret small gestures and to read between the lines, you would not have the problem you talked about in another post.
 Liliana_LC

Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/29/2009 10:46:13 PM
he turned around to catch a glimpse of his "dream girl" before he truly left her side, he just needed to look at her one last time to see if it had all been REAL....

this means...he is..head over heels in love with you.
hahahahaha Maybe I've been reading too many romance novels...

but honestly what are you trying to figure out by this? doesn't really seem like anything important
 BBW_4_U

Joined: 4/18/2009
Msg: 36
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Posted: 10/30/2009 12:27:26 AM
Maybe his lookin behind him because his paranoid person Hahaha
Or maybe his wanting to see if you do a Uturn back into the cafe to have another date Hehehe
Or his lookin to see which way your heading home :-P
Or maybe his just making sure you cross the road ok :-D

Or maybe its the ass thing thou id prob say his wishing you had asked him back to your place for sex an his hoping you still will if he give you a cute smile an a sad lil wave goodbye ;-)

Lady did say some people are the serial wavers an some are not i dont think iv ever looked back to see if his lookin oh my bad i think im the chick who offers my place or yours blaHahaha
 BBW_4_U

Joined: 4/18/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 12:27:56 AM
Maybe his lookin behind him because his paranoid person Hahaha
Or maybe his wanting to see if you do a Uturn back into the cafe to have another date Hehehe
Or his lookin to see which way your heading home :-P
Or maybe his just making sure you cross the road ok :-D

Or maybe its the ass thing thou id prob say his wishing you had asked him back to your place for sex an his hoping you still will if he give you a cute smile an a sad lil wave goodbye ;-)

Lady did say some people are the serial wavers an some are not i dont think iv ever looked back to see if his lookin oh my bad i think im the chick who offers my place or yours blaHahaha
 zippy2000

Joined: 3/7/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 2:49:46 AM
It means he hasn't lost interest in you over the course of your date. Even if it's only to check out your butt, it's YOUR butt he's checking out! It could also mean that he had a great time and wanted one last look to stretch it out jsut a tiny bit longer. Take it as a compliment.

On the other hand, if he keeps walking away quickly (or running like the hounds of hell are at his heels), then it probably wasn't a good date.
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