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 Max¡mus

Joined: 8/8/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 2:09:41 PM
Why are you still yapping about me? As if I'm the only @sshole? As if nobody is at times?

I see you don't let go of things too easily. I have done forgot about that ever since it happened. Damn, I couldn't imagine something someone did to you 10 years ago. You still think about that too?

Get over yourself.
 Monongahela Sal

Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 102
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Posted: 11/1/2009 2:22:38 PM
Correct me please if I'm misunderstanding: men on POF are uploading nudity & sending it to you within the POF site?
You both block and report them, but then they do it again?

You look to me like a cute, smart girl. I wonder whether your repeated postings on this same topic may be giving off the mistaken impression that you may be at least partly enjoying the attention.

I also wonder if it's a small number of men constantly creating new multiple profiles to hide behind while they perpetrate their perversions.
 blueceleste

Joined: 6/2/2005
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Posted: 11/1/2009 3:57:35 PM

Why are you still yapping about me? As if I'm the only @sshole? As if nobody is at times?

I see you don't let go of things too easily. I have done forgot about that ever since it happened. Damn, I couldn't imagine something someone did to you 10 years ago. You still think about that too?

Get over yourself.


was i talkin to u? no, then shut the **** up. ur still here? oh what a shame. i think u need to get over urself. i didnt come here to talk to u nor am i here to talk 2 u. if a guy is an ***hole and i say his name, obviously he must be an ***hole. i dont sugarcoat anything.
 Max¡mus

Joined: 8/8/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 4:55:50 PM
Obviously, you can't tell I'm the same person with a different name.

Apparently, you must be blind too. Of course someone else has to be typing for you...
 Lil Brooker

Joined: 6/17/2008
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Posted: 11/1/2009 5:12:53 PM
OP
For the most part, the crude messages I've gotten have been from men in your age group. The majority of older men seem to show respect to women. I apologize for your generation. What happened?
 pleasurelimits

Joined: 2/9/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 5:24:48 PM
no accounting for idiots. Some young men really think this sort of thing is funny, but they are probably late teens or twenty somethings going on 10 just ignore them as you would some moron at a function that makes an inappropriate approach to you. Funny thing is that this type never probably grows up and ends up on here as 30 somethings wondering why they are still single. I am afraid this sort of thing comes with the territory so don't let your judgement of the whole be tarnished by the few.
 ChancesRMD

Joined: 4/11/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 6:23:03 PM
I noticed the same thing Lil Brooker. I checked the profiles of the people who said they get a lot of nastigrams and they all were in their twenties. Those above 30 said they didn't have many issues with the men who emailed them. Hopefully this is just a maturity issue and these boys will grow out of it.

I also have a theory that it's the same guys who are responsible for the majority of complaints. They probably wouldn't have a chance in hell to get sex any other way, so they just take their shot. The reality is that just about anybody could sit on a park bench and ask every woman who walks by if she wanted to have sex. Sooner or later someone is going to say yes. Maybe for revenge sex.

I don't believe the numbers posted earlier.

50% perverts
45% morons
5% normal

I think it's more like

70% normal= 20% of email
20% morons= 40% of email
10% perverts- 40% of email

Don't ask me where I got my figures from. I admit I pulled them out of my azz.
 TheReason_

Joined: 5/16/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 7:05:51 PM
80% of statistical numbers posted on the interenets, are totally made up.






Including this one!!!


 JCBoston69

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 3:23:54 PM
Well, I'll take heart in not having much competition then.

By the way, it's "number of perverts," not, "amount of perverts."
 Margo64

Joined: 7/28/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 11:02:20 PM
Perverts? Where?... This is a NORMAL site believe me...
 Britt884

Joined: 3/30/2008
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Posted: 11/4/2009 11:15:48 PM
Did you change your mail settings to "must not be looking for intimate encounter" and "must not have mssged a user looking for sex"? Bc, after I did this, I got significantly less creepy emails. lol.
 jakeya99

Joined: 5/9/2008
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Posted: 11/5/2009 6:11:20 AM
Complain much? Can we collectively block you?

Who cares what a hard time you're having. Suck it up and move on.... or go watch Oprah. You know you can't live without men, babe. You'd be stuck munching carpet all day (if you switch teams) or feeding your 8 cats because you've become a bitter cat lady.

Pick yourself up... go log off of POF for 6 months and come back later. Perhaps most of the guys will have turned over by then. Until then , have a sense of humor about it and stop thinking you simply HAVE to meet Prince Charming on here. Men don't think Angelina Jolie is lurking within these pages either... I assure you.
 daydreamin_honey

Joined: 12/30/2008
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Posted: 11/5/2009 9:10:42 AM
Perverts, weirdos, lunatics, @$$holes, ... i've dealt with plenty of them on here. And if you don't respond the way they want, you get hateful ugly messages calling you all sorts of names. That's why they invented the block/delete option I assume.
I don't know what on earth about me attracts the losers, but it seems you have it too. If you figure out what it is, be sure to share the cure!
 handsoflove

Joined: 10/26/2009
Msg: 114
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Posted: 11/5/2009 9:14:59 AM
It's nothing personal. If you go into the woods and the bugs bite, it's because you went into the woods.
 acuddler

Joined: 10/30/2009
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Posted: 11/12/2009 6:04:29 PM
Is it that there are so many pervs on here...or that you-for some reason-are attracted to the few who are here? "The lady doth protest too much, me thinks."
 hob782

Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 11/12/2009 7:24:14 PM
To OP;Your

1st post;



astounded by so many pervs? shit, im astounded by so many ***holes on dating sites. the hypocrites like maximus who talk out of their ass. i find it funny how i see ***holes on these sites who dont know anything about themselves and other ppl


and your

2nd post;



was i talkin to u? no, then shut the **** up. ur still here? oh what a shame. i think u need to get over urself. i didnt come here to talk to u nor am i here to talk 2 u. if a guy is an ***hole and i say his name, obviously he must be an ***hole. i dont sugarcoat anything.


Hmmmmmmmm..... how are you different????
 arwen52

Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 11/12/2009 7:31:21 PM
Face it, men are dogs. Lenny Bruce said so, it must be true. You're better off with women.

I was on a paid site for a year and a half. Not only was it not better, it was worse. It might have been because I had less experience. I've gotten better at this game.
 younowho

Joined: 5/17/2006
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Posted: 11/12/2009 11:18:40 PM
Aaa she's right you no.

just less than 4 years ago, I had a woman trieing to get me on yahoo, when she did, first thing ya know, out cums her Hooters. big Hooters. Fine ok ..

Then she wants mine, ok she gets my Hooters, didn't do it for her. Then she wants nude photo's. ok but I'll have to send those can't do'm on web cam. There to small.

I send two, shit bigger than day, within two minutes she sends both back.

now that's perverted.
 wonderinone

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 11/13/2009 7:07:32 AM
then i guess this means you're NOT gonna tell me what color undies you're wearing???
 Honey-Suckle

Joined: 9/4/2009
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Posted: 11/13/2009 7:43:58 AM
My main problem is :

Most are nice, but u get the odd one and it is dam annoying.

Take for example: Begin writing to a nice guy, picture on profile is of a nice bulky built guy, short wavy redish hair. We write for about month, we share some secrets on past relationships. He then offers his email address, we write, he then asks if he can send a picture of himself and his daughter, he sends me a very sexy 24 year old, also a picture of a very saucy blonde woman, and a picture of a fluffy puppy. NO picture of himself.

Then i ask for his picture - only to receive a picture of someone who is thin, pale, glasses, and abit fem looking, there is a picture of a girl with him, who looks nothing like the first picture he sent of his so called daughter - now why do some men put fake pictures on.

Another message reads: I come from mars, and recognise u, u look familiar have i seen u on my planet, and how far would u go. My reply to that one was - Sorry some things in life are for free respect and curtesey, none of which u have. Then i blocked him.

The commonest is when they know u have children, they talk for about a month, saying god bless, take care, i miss u, when will u write again, then u happen to mention that your kids are going to the pictures, and they are off.

Did they not read the profile about yes I have children, and did they not understand when u mention that the kids live at home. Do they think that children are only put on profiles to look good, and when u actually mention them, they take off. Are people not allowed to have children on this site. It makes me wonder.
 Consigliori

Joined: 1/7/2008
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Posted: 11/13/2009 8:37:10 AM

Has anyone else found this to be the case?


I'll tell you if you send me your home e-mail address and a pair of panties.

I mean, no I've never even heard of that kind of thing. Disgusting pervs.
 bump4bump

Joined: 12/3/2008
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Posted: 11/13/2009 8:51:34 AM
I got called a Pagan out of nowhere once..Not sure what that was all about...lol
 TuffLuv1984

Joined: 9/2/2009
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Posted: 11/13/2009 9:42:10 AM
BOB... the person you quoted is not the OP. I am the OP.

Lol. You need to know what OP mean... Original Poster...
 smileforgzus

Joined: 10/19/2009
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Posted: 11/13/2009 10:05:22 AM
I had a guy ask me how I'd like a big young black****...thing in the guy is in his 40's and white
 JM674

Joined: 10/3/2009
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Posted: 11/13/2009 11:37:22 AM
A thing I've noticed is that some guys confuse the idea of a "social network" with a device for "hooking up with and ****ing chicks" and nothing else. Put the same guy on an internet dating site and you can see where that leads.

Lots of women I've talked to on the internet have very similar stories. I'm not shocked to hear about it here.


I had a guy ask me how I'd like a big young black****...thing in the guy is in his 40's and white

I got that one too :(
lol
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