| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 5:09:37 PM | That's why I get my Maxim delivered in the mail. After all if you can't trust a postman, who can you trust..................ummm......trying not to think about it too much.
OP- is your GF very religious? Some might have an issue with it. Don't show her Cosmo- it might have to go too! lol
Maybe you could ask her what brought about this reaction. She may have had a bad history with a guy and porn or something. | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 5:20:16 PM | Psycho.
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 5:24:21 PM | I am a drama adverse guy, and I see all sorts on needless drama there. The mature thing for her to do would have been to calmly talk to you about it later at home, making clear her issue and then listen to your take on it.
Her freaking out shows me she is not good at conflict resolution and jumps to conclusions. I am sorry, but I would be out of that relationship ASAP.
But that is just me. I lived in a drama filled relationship for 16 years... never Never NEVER again will I put myself through that again! I would need my head examined if I did. | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:30:35 PM | You're girlfriend is either very immature, or else she is cheating on you and wants to have a reason to 'flip the script' on you so you look guilty before she does...stupid but it happens all the time.
Watch and see...
Beth | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:38:49 PM | whew
I think magazines in the loo are a wonderful thing.
Your girlfriend sounds whacked.
I hadn't actually read Maxim before, so I took a look on the website to see what the fuss is all about. WoW, here's your perfect reason *cough* if you want to work it out with your girlfriend. (although, personally, I think you'd be whacked to consider it).
From Maxim... 21 awesome toilets! Obviously, you weren't looking at babes in the loo, you were thinking of redecorating!
http://www.maxim.com/humor/stupid-fun/84732/21-awesome-toilets.html
(I kinda like the crochet look, whatcha think?) | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 7:09:59 PM | | I agree with many others that YES, this is idiotic and immature. Cheating for looking at a mag? My ex was military & while he was on deployments, I would send many care packages. I always sent a ton of magazines, Maxim included. Half the time I read it before I sent it to him. Hey, that stuff is funny! Either she is uptight, making you pay for a previous bad relationship or needs meds. | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 8:03:08 PM | This fit was wrong for so may reasons:
1) she's jealous of a piece of damn paper.
2) She had a meltdown and accuses you of cheating
3) she did all this at your work, a clear indication she doesn't respect boundaries
4) threatens to destroy your property to get even.
This chick is bad news. And this behavior will not improve, only get worse. Walk away now and save yourself a lifetime of stress and irritation. I have found that when women act this way it is because they have a deep rooted hatred and mistrust of men in general. The more valued your relationship becomes, the worse this will get. Her emotions are based upon things she has undergone before you, things that are hers to carry forever or deal with and heal.
Her walls are her problem. If you try to tear them down, circumstances will arise that make her put up new ones.... If you bend over backward to defuse this grenade, you will be presented with another... and another... and another. You get the idea. At some point down the road you will be trying to account for every dollar in your pocket and every minute of your day.
Let me make a guess; you've heard this from her:"all men cheat or leave". This is because a bad man will cheat when he's going to take a load of crap anyway and a good man will drop her like a hot rock when she amps out.
Broom her and be a man and read whatever the hell you want to on the crapper.... | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 8:50:33 PM | | your on a dating site looking for someone to meeet , and treat?I think your not ready for her and shes not ready for you.maybe the magazine isnt the real problem ,maybe it was the fact she may be onto you and the mag was a last straw and shes too imature to discuse it like adults. Go your seperate ways perhaps you both will mature from this and do better with someone else. | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 9:07:31 PM |
She tore the magazine up in the store, said I was CHEATING on her by reading it. Seriously? Wow I wish that was the only issue I had with a guy that I was involved with. But actually it wouldn't even be an issue, I like to read some of the articles myself. She needs to chill out lol
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 9:21:09 PM |
We have been living together from the start of the year
I can only imagine how she is going to react when she learns you're on a dating site.
Your mate has low self esteem; she's threatened by other women.
My ex wife went nuts and hid the swimsuit edition of Sports Illustrated when it arrived in the mail (She bought me a one year subscription for my b'day). Had she known about that annual issue she would have never given it to me.
Ironically, her and her friends would girate against the TV every time Patrick Swayze appeared in "Dirty Dancing". Being a self confident man, I assessed the girating abilities of her girlfriends as opposed to getting upset about their behaviour. | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 9:34:25 PM | | Those are usually the type of women that men seem to like to marry. I think she might be your future ex-wife. She's no doubt psychotic and if I were you I back away from her very slowly. If she's like this now, you don't know what she'll pull when you try to break up with her. To humiliate you at your work is inexcusable and I don't condone violence but wouldn't blame a man for grabbing that woman by the hair and throwing her out the door. | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/27/2009 10:16:38 PM | | OP..it sounds like your gf is extremely insecure about herself to be jealous of you looking at other women...in a magazine no less..My ex bf was in the hospital after surgery and I took him flowers, a Maxim magazine and a cheeseburger...:) | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/28/2009 4:36:42 AM | | My nephew reads that magazine. Its a mens magazine, kind of like cosmopolitin for men. I see nothing wrong with it, it just gives men advice on being men that are attrative to women. After all thats what it is all about being able to have women attracted to you. I think you are dealing with a selfish , self centered controlling women. I would loose her, she needs to grow up. Reading is in no way cheating, I think she needs to get her head screwed on correctly. | |
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| Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/28/2009 6:22:28 AM | OP, this is purely a personal observation. I've no real data to back it up, but in watching many couples down through the years I've noticed, the person who accuses the other of cheating is usually justifying their own cheating.
So, my advise would be to get your balls back and find another woman. The magazine event is just the tip of the iceberg. Soon, you'll be called a cheater because you watched an episode of "Sex and the City". Or because you see a woman in a bikini in a movie. Heaven forbid you go to the pool or beach! ALL those women want you to cheat with them!
I'd check up on her. | |
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