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Posted: 10/28/2009 10:03:42 AM | OMFG wow...just wow.
Yanno...after reading the OP, I just can't get the image of Ben Stiller rocking on a chair in his robe outta my head.
Watch "The Heartbreak Kid" and you'll get it...
I shoulda stayed in bed. | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/28/2009 10:07:41 AM | I'd say.. Dude: It wasnt me.. your WIFE told me she was single and that her EX was smaller than a cigarette.
I cant help it.. I was BORN this way.
Look dude.. so she's totally orgasmed out now.. Heck.. if you dont mind sloppy seconds.. she probably wouldnt CARE if you went for some yourself now@!
Or something like that. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 10:13:18 AM | OMG!!! This is just too fawkn funny, OP!!!
If I had a man cry while in my bed, it better be from JOY!!! Otherwise, hand him a tissue, his clothes and out he goes.
And I'm keepin' the VIBRATOR! | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/28/2009 10:29:39 AM |
I'd say.. Dude: It wasnt me.. your WIFE told me she was single and that her EX was smaller than a cigarette.
I cant help it.. I was BORN this way.
Look dude.. so she's totally orgasmed out now.. Heck.. if you dont mind sloppy seconds.. she probably wouldnt CARE if you went for some yourself now@!
Or something like that.
Are you suffering from sort of neverous disorder today? | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/28/2009 12:16:54 PM | hrlyguy wrote:
Harsh crowd here. If this were a man writing the post, there would be all kinds of outrage if he was with was so insensitive.
I've gotta agree - a man would likely be pilloried by a lot of women if he'd posted the exact same thing the OP did, just with genders reversed.
That said, it IS an unsettling experience - clearly the guy wasn't ready for anything yet - I'm not really sure what you could've done, though, other than to ask him if he wanted to talk about anything.
Even then, I mean, I'm no counselor, and I'm sure most people aren't cut out for that - I don't really know how to handle it had the situation happened to me. | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/28/2009 1:28:30 PM | You cuddle him up tight close to your breast and do your best to comfort him...
while trying not to giggle so he doesn't get shaken baby syndrome!
Obviously he knows that he's not up to the task of satisfying a woman himself so at least he was considerate enough to bring reinforcements and provide you with the gift that keeps on giving...a vibrator...hopefully not the other kind!
Men have feelings too but your guy sounds like a bit of a whack job... ie: going fetal and the balcony scene.
I've had a couple of guys cry when they told me they loved me but not after sex.
I occasionally cry after sex because it's an emotional as well as a physical release for me more so when it's been a while or is extremely intense there may be some tears.
I know there was a thread about this but it mostly pertained to women crying. I don't think any men admitted to it.
Do men have this same emotional release after sex?
If he was a man I cared about and he started to cry I would obviously hold him and talk it out but it sounds to me like you need to get to know your lovers better to screen out the whackos.
I've gotta agree - a man would likely be pilloried by a lot of women if he'd posted the exact same thing the OP did, just with genders reversed.
Not really. Crazy is crazy no matter how you slice it and it's not gender discriminant. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 1:59:05 PM | Accidentally In Love wrote:
NotElvisJunior wrote: I've gotta agree - a man would likely be pilloried by a lot of women if he'd posted the exact same thing the OP did, just with genders reversed. Not really. Crazy is crazy no matter how you slice it and it's not gender discriminant.
Oh, I don't doubt that crazy is crazy just as you say - but it seems that women would attack a man for posting something along the lines of what the OP posted. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 2:01:35 PM | I have to say, I think this is a mean-spirited post.
Poor guy. Yes, his reaction was weird, obviously!
I don't know how I would react, and I probably would tell friends about it, but I doubt I would laugh at him about it. He sounds like he's in a lot of pain, so to me it's not really all that funny. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 3:27:59 PM |
I have to say, I think this is a mean-spirited post.
Cas they haven't been to heart warming towards to OP either, so I guess it is just one of those threads where the rocks are being thrown in their glass houses...
Sad thing is, we never REALLY know from minute to minute who's going to go weird on us, and who is ready for what is coming...
I still think he isn't over the last gf, OR is probably cheating on her... Regret what an ugly thing to deal with... | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 4:45:41 PM | yes i did consult him and he was upset but when he started talking too himself and showing signs of bereavement i counciled him.
yes its a true story but in all good fun i was not putting this man down he was just not over his girlfriend and i told him its ok... but since that weekend he turned out to be married and was using women on pof...
hey my sense of humour is witty but this chap needed some serious counciling and since he left in the early morning maybe i was lucky too realise men have emotional issues too....
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Posted: 10/28/2009 5:49:16 PM |
Oh, I don't doubt that crazy is crazy just as you say - but it seems that women would attack a man for posting something along the lines of what the OP posted.
And it seems you are lumping all women into that category.
I'm just saying that the crazy has nothing to do with genitalia and I would say the exact same thing to a man in the OP's position.
yes its a true story but in all good fun i was not putting this man down he was just not over his girlfriend and i told him its ok... but since that weekend he turned out to be married and was using women on pof...
WOW! So he was crying over his ex-girlfriend and he's married?
Nobody can use you without your permission but I can almost guarantee that if you had spent even a minute amount of time with this guy before sexing him up that the crazy would have been visibly oozing from his pores. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 5:55:06 PM |
yes i did consult him and he was upset but when he started talking too himself and showing signs of bereavement i counciled him.
yes its a true story but in all good fun i was not putting this man down he was just not over his girlfriend and i told him its ok... but since that weekend he turned out to be married and was using women on pof...
hey my sense of humour is witty but this chap needed some serious counciling and since he left in the early morning maybe i was lucky too realise men have emotional issues too....
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Great! He's married and has an ex-gf he's mourning.  | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 6:12:56 PM | Wow judgemental - extremely rude and harsh responses - for shame!
There but for the grace of God, go I
OP good to know you tried to discuss this situation with him - all you can ever do is show some empathy and perhaps make better choices for the future. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 10:43:47 PM | My impression from your post is that you are a cheap "kiss and tell". Woe to any man who might end up in bed with you; they will become your funny story on POF forums.
I cried once. It was from intense regret and disappointment. | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/29/2009 12:52:35 AM | Ok lets get one thing straight.... pull the cat claws in lol
I dont kiss n tell... and if i have.... what is forum about...
i have read issues on here that has amazed me.
But im a big girl now and most of your comments are welcomed.
Im big and tuff ... come on guys and girls ... just asked a question in jest.
Too you boys that said he should of kept the lights off lol
Hey he was wrinkled ugly and old but i did not mind that for it was my choice.
But remember ...people reading your replies think.... what a asspoop ... so who will win...
So you might think your gorgeous and hunky and just perfect....
Good for you.... Love yourself... but remember make room for others to love you too.
But don't be shallow.... because maybe someone on here might think YOUR NOT ALL THAT.... lol
Girls thanks for the comments.... to each there own....
I like to thank someone who message me ... its ok people cant like everyone... but people can learn that hurt can damage people.... cyber bulling is not cool....
So gents and ladies.... clip the claws.... it was just a question....lol
I appologise if it offended people and too the ones it didnt have a cold beer on me.
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/29/2009 5:04:07 AM | | I cried the first time i had sex with an ex. I dunno why but in the middle of the act tears just started rollin down my face. It was an all nite event and the tears just kept flowing.At the end i figured it was because it was a long time and it felt incredible to be that close to someone again. After the relationship was over i figured it i was crying for all the future drama i was gonna get into with her | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/29/2009 6:07:41 AM | Funny! Why do you ladies defend this coward and consider him to be a man?!
He`s a boy who didn`t realize what he was doing to this gal. He used her for his own pleasure and than after he did, cried like a "baby"...What a "man" does after they engage in making love is put his arms around his lover, kiss her passionately,touching her entire bode exploring every angle of her body with his mouth and fingers.Thats what a "man" does in order to keep his lover pleasured and aroused so she can feel comfortable for more intercourse. If you ladies feel otherwise, i`am all ears to know why?!
After all BIG was expecting this man to meet his obligations the moment she invited him into her bedroom and bedded her down for the night! Can you as a women deny this?
This man had every intention of being the lover when he bought a vibarator to her, indicating he was prepared to pleasure this woman for the rest of the night! The crying act shows a man who`s unstable and quite frankly a child who has a tendency to want to be with his Momma! what he put "big" through makes all men look ridiculous...
He deserves what he`s getting here. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 8:26:27 AM |
I just cannot believe you are using this man for the butt of your jokes. How very cruel & just plain disgusting. He is on POF & can read this. What a horrible thought
Who cares. She didn't name him. He's the one who's married and having random affairs. He's making himself the butt of jokes. | |
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