| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/29/2009 8:33:48 AM | OP, I did find the whole story humorous....what I found even more humorous is a poster who berated and bashed you for even posting the story…...is on another thread whining because someone berated and bashed her for a post she made. I mean really??
OT: I really don't know what I would have done....would be awkward to say the least. I would like to think I would have empathy for anyone who had a "break down" of that sort, period. Him standing there screaming to his "girlfriend" off a balcony, however, IMO...is someone with far more mental/emotional issues, than I am equipped nor trained to handle.
Now him being married on top of him mourning the "girlfriend"....sorry……
That is just a plain NUTJOB!
I, do however... agree with this:
Oh, I don't doubt that crazy is crazy just as you say - but it seems that women would attack a man for posting something along the lines of what the OP posted.
A man would be lambasted for posting about a "woman" crying after sex.
Although, if someone, regardless of gender, hopped out of bed after "sex" with one person and proceeded to stand on a balcony screaming out apologies to their previous "lover" for "letting them down"....I think the other person should not resist the urge to help toss them over that said balcony.  | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/29/2009 10:43:17 AM |
Although, if someone, regardless of gender, hopped out of bed after "sex" with one person and proceeded to stand on a balcony screaming out apologies to their previous "lover" for "letting them down"....I think the other person should not resist the urge to help toss them over that said balcony.
Oh GAWD - what a visual...........gotta laugh at some of the stuff we read on here. | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/29/2009 10:29:34 PM | ROTFLMAO.. OH GOD I CANT MAKE IT STOP.. there are tears of my own, and I myself may curl up in the fetal position. Oh lord, its too hard to type ... I can't see, everything is fading out on me. . . .
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/30/2009 3:56:18 AM |
Why didn't you push him over it? Sounds like you might have been doing him a favor. Wise words indeed, remember to exercise the same mercy for any of your future gf's DaGent ...After all their going to need it.
Man that situation sucks..I hope you have better encounters in the future..Btw I really hope you saw him take the vibe out of the package..Who knows where it has been?  | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/30/2009 4:12:21 AM |
What a "man" does after they engage in making love is put his arms around his lover, kiss her passionately,touching her entire bode exploring every angle of her body with his mouth and fingers.Thats what a "man" does in order to keep his lover pleasured and aroused so she can feel comfortable for more intercourse. If you ladies feel otherwise, i`am all ears to know why?! I'd rather the man that gets me the warm cloth, a cold glass of water or better yet, watered down apple juice and a cigarette... no, scratch the cigarette cause I quit smoking...
Give me fifteen to wind down, freshen up and rehydrate... then start all over again...
The second he starts crying, I'm outta there... this wasn't a relationship, it was an intimate encounter...  | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/30/2009 4:37:08 AM | Lin, The cold bottles of water are always on the night table, the warm cloth is prepared in the bathroom.During the 15 minutes of winding down, i love to start messaging my lovers back and legs.. I agree, i can`t believe this manchild would cry like freaking baby after intercourse.He should have been seeking another man, not a woman like Big who gave herself to this mook.. | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/30/2009 6:00:14 PM | You sound like a highly compassionate person. Maybe it was your approach, or just you.
You know what I wouldn't do. Post the story on POF.
The guy is obviously having issues and here you are, throwing them into the public quarter ...
I wouldn't want to share anything with you. I couldn't trust that it would be treated right. | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/30/2009 6:14:04 PM | to answer independently without commenting on the OP's experience because it is too bizarre for comment.......
I wish only to provide an answer because it is a beautiful question, to which the answer should be obvious.
If I am in bed with a man who cries, i hold onto him and kiss him if he will let me. And not ask questions. And fall asleep.  | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/30/2009 6:37:54 PM | | chances are he still loved his ex and after realizing he did it with someone else out a guilt feeling on him and caused him to take in what was actually happening in his personal life. Sorry. you just got a guy that was looking fo some momentary female attention in his terrible personal life. | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/30/2009 11:37:25 PM |
what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
I would imagine that the appropriate thing to do in that situation would be to laugh at him, and then kick him out of your bed and your house. | |
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| what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 11/11/2009 7:07:01 AM | Hope the vibrator wasn't a used one....... BTW you're lucky you didn't end up in the front pages of the newspaper the next morning...............be more cautious next time.....seriously......... | |
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