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 MS_belle_01

Joined: 4/1/2009
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Posted: 10/29/2009 8:33:48 AM
OP, I did find the whole story humorous....what I found even more humorous is a poster who berated and bashed you for even posting the story…...is on another thread whining because someone berated and bashed her for a post she made. I mean really??

OT: I really don't know what I would have done....would be awkward to say the least. I would like to think I would have empathy for anyone who had a "break down" of that sort, period. Him standing there screaming to his "girlfriend" off a balcony, however, IMO...is someone with far more mental/emotional issues, than I am equipped nor trained to handle.

Now him being married on top of him mourning the "girlfriend"....sorry……

That is just a plain NUTJOB!

I, do however... agree with this:



Oh, I don't doubt that crazy is crazy just as you say - but it seems that women would attack a man for posting something along the lines of what the OP posted.


A man would be lambasted for posting about a "woman" crying after sex.

Although, if someone, regardless of gender, hopped out of bed after "sex" with one person and proceeded to stand on a balcony screaming out apologies to their previous "lover" for "letting them down"....I think the other person should not resist the urge to help toss them over that said balcony.
 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 52
what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/29/2009 10:43:17 AM

Although, if someone, regardless of gender, hopped out of bed after "sex" with one person and proceeded to stand on a balcony screaming out apologies to their previous "lover" for "letting them down"....I think the other person should not resist the urge to help toss them over that said balcony.


Oh GAWD - what a visual...........gotta laugh at some of the stuff we read on here.
 Shaitan

Joined: 7/8/2009
Msg: 53
what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/29/2009 10:29:34 PM
ROTFLMAO.. OH GOD I CANT MAKE IT STOP.. there are tears of my own, and I myself may curl up in the fetal position. Oh lord, its too hard to type ... I can't see, everything is fading out on me. . . .


^T^
 DaGent

Joined: 10/25/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 2:22:41 AM
How far up was the balcony? Why didn't you push him over it? Sounds like you might have been doing him a favor.

I'm JOKING!!!! sort of... LOL
 85032Luck

Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 55
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Posted: 10/30/2009 2:43:26 AM
i'm sure the warning signs were there, you just chose to ignore them...

 darktranquility2526

Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 56
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Posted: 10/30/2009 3:56:18 AM

Why didn't you push him over it? Sounds like you might have been doing him a favor.

Wise words indeed, remember to exercise the same mercy for any of your future gf's DaGent ...After all their going to need it.

Man that situation sucks..I hope you have better encounters in the future..Btw I really hope you saw him take the vibe out of the package..Who knows where it has been?
 Lint Spotter

Joined: 8/27/2009
Msg: 57
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Posted: 10/30/2009 4:12:21 AM

What a "man" does after they engage in making love is put his arms around his lover, kiss her passionately,touching her entire bode exploring every angle of her body with his mouth and fingers.Thats what a "man" does in order to keep his lover pleasured and aroused so she can feel comfortable for more intercourse. If you ladies feel otherwise, i`am all ears to know why?!
I'd rather the man that gets me the warm cloth, a cold glass of water or better yet, watered down apple juice and a cigarette... no, scratch the cigarette cause I quit smoking...

Give me fifteen to wind down, freshen up and rehydrate... then start all over again...

The second he starts crying, I'm outta there... this wasn't a relationship, it was an intimate encounter...
 scd

Joined: 7/3/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 4:37:08 AM
Lin,
The cold bottles of water are always on the night table, the warm cloth is prepared in the bathroom.During the 15 minutes of winding down, i love to start messaging my lovers back and legs..
I agree, i can`t believe this manchild would cry like freaking baby after intercourse.He should have been seeking another man, not a woman like Big who gave herself to this mook..
 My-Immortal

Joined: 10/23/2009
Msg: 59
what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/30/2009 6:00:14 PM
You sound like a highly compassionate person. Maybe it was your approach, or just you.

You know what I wouldn't do. Post the story on POF.

The guy is obviously having issues and here you are, throwing them into the public quarter ...

I wouldn't want to share anything with you. I couldn't trust that it would be treated right.
 barbyanne2

Joined: 10/19/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 6:14:04 PM
to answer independently without commenting on the OP's experience because it is too bizarre for comment.......

I wish only to provide an answer because it is a beautiful question, to which the answer should be obvious.

If I am in bed with a man who cries, i hold onto him and kiss him if he will let me. And not ask questions. And fall asleep.
 rokndad

Joined: 10/21/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 6:37:54 PM
chances are he still loved his ex and after realizing he did it with someone else out a guilt feeling on him and caused him to take in what was actually happening in his personal life. Sorry. you just got a guy that was looking fo some momentary female attention in his terrible personal life.
 oceansunfish

Joined: 10/15/2009
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/30/2009 9:26:08 PM
you punch him in the face.
 DALLASDAME

Joined: 8/5/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 9:57:09 PM
^^^^^ Why didn'y I think of that?
 Brand New Sin

Joined: 2/5/2008
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/30/2009 11:37:25 PM

what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed


I would imagine that the appropriate thing to do in that situation would be to laugh at him, and then kick him out of your bed and your house.
 TOMic bomb

Joined: 10/5/2008
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/31/2009 7:27:46 AM
if he starts crying then you bit down too hard on his BALLS!!!

ease up on the stones, honey they're SENSITIVE.
 RickyGR

Joined: 10/9/2009
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/31/2009 7:57:36 AM
There is no crying in baseball.
 PizzaSlut

Joined: 6/30/2009
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 10/31/2009 10:53:32 PM
Get the taser and don't ask questions, trust me on this one.
 MagicalMary

Joined: 5/26/2008
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:01:53 AM
Um----I've never had a lover cry in bed that I can recall.....but if he started whining about a past lover I'd boot his sorry ass out of bed .....and NEVER ask him back again.
 ArsenicAndOldLace

Joined: 10/28/2009
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:50:53 AM
Give him a reason to cry and slap him for being a wuss.
 SuzyqInMD

Joined: 9/9/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 6:55:36 AM

There is no crying in baseball.


Thats what I was thinking too!!Tom Hanks screaming "Theres no crying in baseball!"
WTF?
 xxxFlexXXX

Joined: 9/11/2009
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:22:29 PM
I say just punch the guy lol.. "SHAT U FACE!" lol crying? wow
 Jenm70

Joined: 10/17/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 9:09:00 PM
HHMMM--JERRY! JERRY!!
 Lewis Cruyff

Joined: 5/2/2008
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 11/2/2009 11:33:16 AM
This whole thing is definitely a joke topic. Just seems too random and if it was a member from POF I certainly wouldn't write about it on the forums afterwards.
 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 74
what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted: 11/2/2009 11:45:29 AM

Give him a reason to cry and slap him for being a wuss.


 purrtypurr

Joined: 8/24/2009
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Posted: 11/11/2009 7:07:01 AM
Hope the vibrator wasn't a used one....... BTW you're lucky you didn't end up in the front pages of the newspaper the next morning...............be more cautious next time.....seriously.........
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