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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 2:23:25 PM | They don't LUST after older men, they just prefer the money, maturity and lack of judgement on them that most guys place on them from peer pressure their own age.
Remember most are insecure and need validation for a million things, their beauty being especially in need of validation since not all of them are cheer leaders but are attractive.
Even when i was in high school women had a preference for older men, maybe not twice their age but older.
Funny how all the high school boys just want to get in their pants, the girls see an older man and somehow think that the older man is not going to want the same things?????
Plus the benefit of dating an older man for a younger woman is that it is seen as taboo and as a step up in that the older man must see something about her that is special enough to get his attention ( other than sex ) and it makes other girls their age jealous. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 2:58:27 PM | I am not going to say that is a myth because I know guys that have gone out with the twenty something gals, but for my money this is the problem. Twenty something girls are way, way to unstable. While they may like sex, they also jump around too much. Second, I have found that women when they get to 39 get this incredible wake up call where they find a sense of freedom and adventure sexually, and physically they become more fit. I have seen women that you look at her pictures in her twenties and thirties and by the time they hit 40 they lose that baby fat and become chisel and radiant.
So even though I don't believe it's a myth, I still prefer the more mature, sexually together, older woman. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 3:24:29 PM | | What I've found is that they can act very interested and you can strike up a online/phone relationship with them but they rarely follow through on actually meeting. Thirty-five is young to me. What do I need with a nineteen year old anyway? | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 3:26:53 PM | Im not young (44) but I prefer men my age or older.
Had a boyfriend that was 15 yrs older than I and when we went places younger women would flirt up a storm with him. He'd just smile and laugh.
I can see why younger women would want older men. Theyre confident and laid back..experienced.. I love it. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 3:38:25 PM | | My personal opinion is that they are thinking, "MONEY, SUGARDADDY" YOU are everything to them that their fathers weren't! Besides they wouldn't mind the experience of an older man, the younger one's are clueless. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 3:52:34 PM | | It's not a myth...I date 10-15 years older typically and have no interest in someone younger. I prefer the maturity level. My ex husband was 17 years older than I, we were married for 10 years and he was extremely attractive. He's 50 and his girlfriend is 28 so see... | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 3:58:09 PM |
By in large they don't but some are looking for a Daddy type thing.
That's true. Psychological studies have discovered that many young girls who come from fatherless homes end up in relationships with men old enough to be their father to fill the void in their life. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 5:26:50 PM | I prefer older men......because they are more respectful, more mature, grounded, and settled while men my own age are none of those things. I have more in common with older men from a maturity level as well.
Some bring up the word "sugardaddy and sugarbaby", but it has NOTHING to do with money. I have a job and I make great money....so I sure don't need someone's else's bucks.
So the answer to your question is, a big fat yes!  | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 5:52:19 PM | Okay, this is specific just to POF and what I've noticed here.
The older males here are indeed more respectful, more mature, grounded, relaxd, and articulate. The stereotype is that they are perverts which is the case for some. But, generally speaking, the older males here do seem more confidant and know to how to show off the personality & charisma. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 6:07:17 PM | | Unless there's a deep seated psych issue, myth. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 6:29:00 PM | always have........always will.
I find their "life knowledge" downright sexy. | |
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| I see it occasionally and it's for money
Posted: 10/29/2009 6:29:19 PM | And what money will provide! Material goods? Trips? An older man approached me more than once in my youth with promises of what could be shown to me financially. No thanks.
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 6:31:32 PM | | not a myth... im surprised at the amount of women that are intrigued... but then again, maybe its not their intention for the older guy but just the guy in question.... the bigger question is... do us older men want to even take on these little pets? women dont choose in my reality... I do. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 7:10:18 PM | They lust after us and perceive us to be surrogate fathers to assist them with growing up, and becoming a good lover and in most instances a well rounded woman...
Many are from abusive families,where the mother or father figure or both just weren`t there for them. Some have had abusive relationships so dating a caring and older man is a Godsend for them..
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 7:28:26 PM | I don't think younger women lust after older men, but I believe they are sometimes interested in what they may perceive as stability in older men.
I like women close to my age. If I asked where you were the day Kennedy was shot, or mentioned something about the Cuban Missile Crisis, I'd hate my date to tell me in utero, or worse yet, have no clue as to what I was referencing. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 7:41:16 PM | I've almost consistently seen this to be the case.
The profiles on here are one example. A lot of the 20-something female profiles I've looked at (I look at a lot of them, that's my age range after all) have restrictions on contacting them that include 1 year younger or 10 years older.
I've known a handful of guys in the 28-35 range who were dating women in the 21-26 range, just as I've known women in the 21-26 year old range dating 28-35 year old men.
Some of the most common traits listed as desirable in profiles in this age range are maturity, financially stability, goals&direction in life, not just looking for sex, and general Independence. All of these things are more common among older men. A 25 year old guy is more likely to be paying student loans then a guy who's 35 while a guy who's 35 is less likely to be looking for a a sex partner.
This doesn't mean that 21 year old women are lusting after 50 year old men, but I think quite clearly 22 year old women are generally more attracted to 25 year old men then 19 year old men. | |
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