| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 7:57:25 PM | | some young women lust after older men...they are searching for their father figure ...my lil sis is one of them since she was 15 she keeps going for the 28 and up club...at 15 ..mind it was more the pedophile club but i digress, she says she finds them more interesting, wiser and all that crapola..personnally i dont see the attraction ...we are all attracted to differents shapes, colors, ages ...so the idea that all women do is a myth , the fact that theres a group of women who like it... sure | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/29/2009 10:00:46 PM | haha of course we do!!
Its like a huge fantasy, the idea of being taken over and dominated by this older powerful man. Especially because older men supposedly possess a maturity that you can't expect in a younger boy.
Sometimes, when i'm at work, I check out the older men, like i'm 22 and i'm looking at men in ther 40's/50's.I think about the intense sex with an experienced man, it turns me on like crazy anyway. I actually look forward to that point in my life when I can attract men in there 40's without it being "taboo". | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/30/2009 4:36:19 AM | EEEWWWW NO!
I barely find a guy my own age attractive, let alone one who is older - money or not, im not materialistic!
i like em younger, -27, i would consider up to my own age but not much older if it was the right person!
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/30/2009 6:55:44 AM | TanishALovE says <div class="quote">haha of course we do!!
Its like a huge fantasy, the idea of being taken over and dominated by this older powerful man. Especially because older men supposedly possess a maturity that you can't expect in a younger boy.
Sometimes, when i'm at work, I check out the older men, like i'm 22 and i'm looking at men in ther 40's/50's.I think about the intense sex with an experienced man, it turns me on like crazy anyway. I actually look forward to that point in my life when I can attract men in there 40's without it being "taboo".
Honey, I looked at your profile...I'm pretty certain you attract men in their 40's | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/30/2009 5:42:01 PM | Dream on.....
The ONLY young women I knew of who took up with older men....were in it for one thing...MONEY. Once they had what they needed...education (primary)...they were filing for divorce within months. Most young women are disgusted by older men's advances....whoever, there are always some. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/30/2009 5:48:55 PM | | The myth is that older men lust after young women. Some will, but that's your daughter's friend, or your granddaughter's. You were young once and you know what it's like to be young. At the time you wanted all the young women your age, but since then as you grew up and found out the limits of youth, you see young women differently and what used to appeal to your hormones now just seems, way, too, young, to even be attractive, at all. Young women don't lust after older men unless by older you mean she's a 20 year old college student and he's an old geezer professor of 35. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/30/2009 6:07:13 PM | "while a guy who's 35 is less likely to be looking for a a sex partner."
You can't be serious!??!!
I have never dated a man who wasn't looking for a sex partner.
I tend to have that effect on them. Probably because it's on my mind as well. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/30/2009 7:33:46 PM | There can be several factors. In many cultures older men / younger women (I'm NOT talking "arranged" amrriages where 53 yr old Daddy SELLS his 14 yr old daughter to one of his hooka buddies) is quite normal and accepted. There is the MONEY aspect and you'll find that mostly in the big shitties ... I mean cities where $$$$ is THE determining factor in what many men AND women are looking for in a mate.
There can be an intellectual attraction that can exist even before either party knows the age and shape of the other and when only age turns out to be a factor they can have a ton of fun anyway.
A lot of young women are only interested in the fluff of a pretty boy. If there is more of an intellectual challenge required they may turn to older men who can engage in some interesting conversation and from there a curiosity may develop ... what else does he know. Also many younger women realize the "Cum and GO in a heaving rush (like the song) of young guy sex leaves a LOT to be desired and may turn to an older dude who can possibly put them in the hospital without ever even taking it out of their pants.
Again, JMO. Many factors. Many personalities. NOBODY should point fingers and go ," Eeeuw, gross." Not matter which way the age gap occurs.
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 10/31/2009 10:31:46 PM | Interesting that the"older" men replying to this post agree that young women are so interested in them. ???Because they get tired of the young men???? I'm confused.
It is in fact a myth. A young mentally and physically healthy woman is looking for a young man....maybe wants to start a family...have a real relationship.....The young women looking for an older man usually have "Daddy issues" and the relationship will eventually become a parent child relationship....All depends on the baggage , how much and how they can't figure out another way to unload it. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/1/2009 1:30:20 AM | | I've been physically attracted to older (looking) men for a long time. I'm very picky about that, especially when it comes to hair, and grey hair is a definite plus. All of my favorite actors and TV personalities have all been older men. (Alan Rickman, James Cromwell, Jon Stewart, Michio Kaku.) | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:39:16 AM |
"while a guy who's 35 is less likely to be looking for a a sex partner."
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You can't be serious!??!!
I have never dated a man who wasn't looking for a sex partner.
I tend to have that effect on them. Probably because it's on my mind as well
Exactly. And that runs to pretty much every message sent on this site, even the legions that seem to be looking for cyber romance. If the mission is a relationship, yep, we're ALL thinkin' 'bout it. Lol The key is how that chip is played. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:51:37 AM | | I don't think it's a myth,but it is rare. But what age are we talking about? Or age difference? 10 years? Or 20 or 30? My girlfriend is 13 years younger than me,and she sought me out. It just depends on the people involved. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:51:53 AM | Definite myth.
I have a buddy who's also 33 who's single, decent looking, and could even pass for being late-20's looks wise.
Here's the funny part, he'll get women in their early 40's telling him he's too old for them? 
I guess the cougar culture is so pervasive that all women want to hook up with 18-25 yr. old guys. | |
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