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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/4/2009 6:07:24 AM | At the same time, I don't think age matters either way, as long as there is chemistry between two people. Age is just a number
Very good. I must say that I have dated some women in their late 60's that rocked my world. They were in shape and had a great attitude. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/4/2009 1:50:07 PM | My previous girlfriend was 22 and I was 39 and there was definitely chemistry and she definitely sought me out. Why, I have no certainty but have often thought that the initial attraction for her may have, in fact, been related to "daddy issues" although she denied it at the time.
What was important however was that once we were together, we really hit it off and had a wonderful time together while it lasted. Ultimately though, there just wasn't enough in common and shared history to make it last and we parted as friends. In fact, I just talked to her last week when she called to see how I was doing.
So the answer to do they exist is yes. How many and whether it will work is a great unknown. At this point I don't think I could date anyone younger than about 28 or 29 as that 12 or 13 year difference is about the workable limit for me. And actually, that makes a little biological sense as well since I wouldn't be old enough to be their father.
In any event, it happens and can be great for the right two people, just like most other scenarios. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:33:26 PM |
anyone?
Aww Kitten... if only I was ten years younger and you were ten years older, and if only you lived a little closer, I would gladly lust after you;) 
do young women lust after older men??
Some young women are attracted to older men.
Some young men are attracted to older women.
Some people are attracted to (and are compatible with) people regardless or in spite of their age.
Some people are attracted to people specifically because of their age, regardless or in spite of compatibility.
Some people are attracted to whom and what ever they're attracted to and have no need to justify or put a label on what is not only a personal preference but a personal matter (unless asked about it in a public forum then all bets are off:) 
One last thing...for the person who thinks that some (or all or most I can't remember) older women accept a younger man because well...I won't go into their list of because cuz that would only compound the assumptions to a ridiculous level.
Anyway, all I can do is speak for myself and I know (not assume) that for me, it's the exact opposite. For one thing, what/whom I find attractive hasn't changed all that much since I was 14 so regardless if I'm old(er), I can't force myself to be attracted to someone just because my options may not be as good as they used to be.
But it goes deeper than that...the older I get, the more I'm able to see a pretty exterior for what it is...pretty is as pretty does and I'm certainly not immune to looking (and occasionally wanting;) a pretty shiny object but ultimately, it's the whole package that I need to be attracted to for the initial (physical) attraction to have any sort of hold on me...so again, the assumption that an older woman is this or that therefore more willing to accept a younger but somehow lesser man just because she's old is just that, an assumption.
Of course, now I "risk" having the labels of bitter, angry, addled, etc. added to all the other derogatory labels that are usually slapped on older women for simply clarifying/defending their position but that's a "risk" I'm more than willing to take - what I can't take is the arrogance of some people who assume to speak for me or anyone other than their own selves, specially when it's obvious they know not what they speak of.
Edit: And Kitten? Forget McD...nothing's too good for my lustbunny..er I mean my kitten...now remember, my options are running out and I'm getting desperate here....now c'mon baby kitten...who's yer mama???
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/4/2009 8:56:59 PM | | I've had people call me a gold digger but if I'm a gold digger I am a really lousy one because my fiance doesnt have much money. I am with him because he knows how to treat a lady and shown me that true gentlemen do still exist. | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/5/2009 3:17:03 AM | While the age would be a problem in a normal relationship....such as things in common....short term...Ive talked to some that like to be with older guys because of maturity....but for the most part alot of age difference...I think would be aproblem long term..... | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:21:56 AM | | I have always lusted over men of all ages and varieties - however to be completely honest - older men have never really been my forte! In fact younger men have usually been the ones lusting over me and I have responded favorably! | |
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| do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith??
Posted: 11/5/2009 6:01:43 AM | | I'm not sure what exactly the poster a few comments up would call a long term relationship. So maybe I dont fit into that catergory but my fiance and I have been together 3 years and we have a 20 year difference. | |
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