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 Rarebird76

Joined: 5/10/2009
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fighting because of facebook.....
Posted: 11/6/2009 9:36:37 AM

It doesn't get any more retarded than this. Even my dog has a FB page, with 1000+ friends. All from her old shelter, old friends ya know.....
Wutz Ur dogz mood?

Also shouldn't it be called "snoutbook" in that case? :laugh:
 CassaGo

Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 11/9/2009 10:30:34 AM
I've ruined a relationship over FaceBook, although since he was screwing other women it was probably doomed, anyway (um, I wasn't lily-white in this scenario, either). It's the ole "what I don't know won't hurt me" thing. I like to think that a man likes ONLY me, but on FB I can clearly see he has lots more interest in other women as well. I can't avoid reality, as much as I'd like to.

But I love FB, PoF limits me to 10 posts a day--where else can I snark out?!
 JCBoston69

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Posted: 11/9/2009 11:19:18 AM

Facebook has been known to cause problems like these between people.


Yeah, just like guns cause murders. Get a brain.

Her jealousy and/or insecurity caused this issue. Dude needs to let her know that won't fly, period.
 JCBoston69

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Posted: 11/9/2009 11:29:33 AM

Ludacris is on Facebook??? He seems more the type to say it with tweets.


Haha...pop-culture is really dumbing-down our society, isn't it?
 TheFarkistan

Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 55
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Posted: 11/9/2009 5:19:23 PM
I really don't get why woman are so jealous of guy's female friends. My best friend is a woman. I'm 30 and single with no kids. She's currently 46, married, and has three children. The older one is like a year and half younger then I am. I was the one who gave her away at her wedding (her family didn't like her new husband, who is a great guy and absolutely loves her).

I feel a lot of the times that we're not just friends but I almost feel like she' s a family member (for those who know Chinese expression like an aunt). She's been there to give me guidance in life, to support me when I'm down, to provide a shoulder to cry on. I've done the same for her and listened when she needed someone to talk to.

The last gal I dated would not accept that. She always think when we talked that I was going to cheat on her (I have never cheated on anyone and I clearly told the girl at the time of our friendship). But she would never accept and wanted me to end me and her friendship. This friendship goes back over 12 years (we were classmates in college) and I value it highly.

It seems that a lot of woman don't understand that.
 Ivory81000

Joined: 8/16/2007
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Posted: 11/10/2009 10:30:31 PM
I didn't read all the posts but if she's freaking out over you adding girls on Facebook, what'll she do if you start TALKING to another girl. To me it sounds like this girl and/or your relationship has some insecurity and trust issues which is manifesting itself through FB. I mean seriously. . . this is just ridiculous . . .
 RobertKoi

Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 11/12/2009 2:42:46 PM
FB is pure shit and as.sholes who use it that way know exactly what I mean. Since men and women can't be friends anyway it makes even less sense to pretend that it works better online.
 AlwaysWants2BWithU

Joined: 10/28/2009
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Posted: 11/12/2009 9:51:59 PM
Ohhhhhhhh! This is funny!

Here is somebody giving advice on what to do about Facebook and is carrying on with a PlentyOfFish account while also carrying a husband.

"Honest hunny! I was only on POF to meet new friends! I promise!"

What a joke.
 jacintos

Joined: 7/23/2009
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Posted: 11/13/2009 5:10:42 PM
I'm mad people are being so serious about Facebook. If you two can't handle each other having new Facebook friends, I'm pretty sure you probably shouldn't be dating.
 4gotnsoul

Joined: 9/24/2009
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Posted: 11/14/2009 10:36:11 AM
Lol,,,I'd be mad if my girl was using FB for finding new guy/friends no matter the situation. People who asking what's wrong with such sites cuz they use it for passing information to friends and relatives about their activities is kinda stupid. Why i say that? Has anyone ever heard of CELL PHONES to communicate plans and stay in touch. Hell, just use ur Email for it also not some stupid website that's full of people searching for incouters of sexual and bs. What a joke to make excuses for someone based upon ur activities even if ur activities are harmless in such sites!
 slimholly

Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 61
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Posted: 11/14/2009 10:59:22 AM
I have a FB account under a nickname, not my real name. I make it a rule to never "add friend" to a man I'm dating... I don't want to deal with questions about who I added or how I know them.
 aaamm

Joined: 7/5/2009
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Posted: 11/14/2009 11:07:45 AM
I have 700 something friends on myspace. Some I know irl and others are cyber friends. On facebook I pretty much know them all irl. I have my fiance on both sites. I am also on here. If you know someone and trust someone, there isn't a problem. If you have no trust, you shouldn't be with that person. I always think that someone that accuses you of doing something wrong, they are projecting what they do or have done.
 4gotnsoul

Joined: 9/24/2009
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Posted: 11/14/2009 11:19:09 AM
Trust is always in actions u present not simply by stating such trusting words. Oh i don't know why anyone needs 700 freakin friends outside of a real relationship with someone. I come to realize some people are simply attention-seeking junkies and sites like that fulfill the need to be seen and heard by as many as possible. I pose this question to those.......Isn't ur partner whom u say u love and desire and suposed to admire be ur best friend, lover, partner in activities? Lean on them when in need or feel lonely not someone over a site 100's miles away. Cyber-sex is growing and is my reasoning for not using sites. I opened a couple and found little use beyond meeting strangers. I use Emails and phones for my activity updates n plans. Wow!
 aaamm

Joined: 7/5/2009
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Posted: 11/14/2009 12:32:02 PM
actually my fiance lives over 100 miles from me.

You can never have too many friends even if they are cyber.

I only get emails from friends. If you get cyber sex emails, guess that is why you think others get them. I read my friends' updates and they read mine. Fast easy one line contact. We also share photographs. You don't have to snail mail them any more.

Oh I am on twitter too I absolutely love receiving positive comments and fun jokes. It brightens my day. Yoko Ono is one of the best for positive comments!
 4gotnsoul

Joined: 9/24/2009
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Posted: 11/14/2009 2:04:55 PM
U just proved my positions in every way AAAMM. Attention seeking junkie! Can't have too many friends...lol. I bet u won't answer this honestly.....about how many of the 700 plust cyber buds have u had a sexually contented conversation? Whether that be asking what u like sexually or what clothes u wear n such. Answer honestly. Bet u won't. I never said use cybersex anyway so thanks for interjecting urs in mine. I closed my accounts as like i said i use Emails and that wonderful cell-phone. Snail mail...lol. Text messages work well on cells also, and even emailing.
 Spoken For

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 11/14/2009 2:40:19 PM
What are you people, 12?
 aaamm

Joined: 7/5/2009
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Posted: 11/14/2009 2:42:18 PM
0 cyber sex. 0 phone sex. Yeah, Reverend aaamm. I practice what little I preach. That is who I am and if you read any of my posts you will see I tell the truth. As I said, you can't email me on myspace unless you are friend.

When I dated on here, if someone had something sexual including 69 in their name or profile, I wouldn't respond. I know how to use the block function. Sex to me is something special between two people that care about each other.

Cell phone is for family members.

Again, with one entry, I can reach all my friends on myspace, facebook, and twitter. Technology continues to advance and I take advantage of it for my business as well as family and friends. Tweetdeck rules.

Now I state again that I think people that think that way do so because they are guilty of it.
 4gotnsoul

Joined: 9/24/2009
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Posted: 11/14/2009 2:57:56 PM
And that last comment was so stupidly ignorant it's hard to fathom ur rationale. You think, is definately simpleton in thinking. Now I state again i think ur a fake. 700 plus friends seems kinda wierd. Define friends! Is it just someone u thought looked cool, so u added em? One message from em and now friends? Clarify for me please and stop sliding references of me being guilty of anything u don't know of. I do admire u, if ur honest by what u said on never sexually exchanges with guys. Me, i wouldn't need that if about to marry someone. They'd get full devotion from me without having them worry the least bit my cyber activities, or having a bunch of female friends constantly messaging me.
 aaamm

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Posted: 11/14/2009 3:49:39 PM
Sorry, don't IM, no time for that not to mention if I am in the middle of something and an annoying pop up comes up, no way. Don't IM ever.

How often do you think I can call or see my fiance? Don't you think that working from home all day that it is nice to have friends on line to touch base with? Does it matter to him if they are male or female, nope, not gay or bi and not looking for anyone else and my friends understand that.

Again, networking and free advertisement is important. I do what I can.

Why does it bother you if I say I believe people that think of things like that or accuse of others of that are the ones guilty of doing it? If it doesn't apply to you, it shouldn't bother you.

Everyone has a different life and they lead their lives in the manner they see fit. Everyone has a different job or position that requires a different way of working. You can learn so much from people. There is quite a diversity out there. I have enjoyed meeting so many people on line. I may not have the time when I move in about 7 months, but for right now, I am here and there and there and there
 4gotnsoul

Joined: 9/24/2009
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Posted: 11/14/2009 4:55:04 PM
Lmao! It's stupid for me to read that and believe wasn't somehow directed toward me given my fomum comments. Ok, slide that one off as u weren't. I'm not saying ur lifestyle is wrong if ur commited to ur man and he doesn't mind what ur doing. Only if he doesn't like it and wants u to cease but u don't then i'd have negative feelings. Glad he doesn't mind, honestly. If it's job-related then it's cool to further ur career. I simply want my lady to feel number 1 with never a question of my activities. I make her number 1.
 Amore Mio

Joined: 10/18/2008
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Posted: 11/20/2009 11:19:53 AM
my ex got mad because i unfriended her on facebook
 Helen0426

Joined: 6/2/2009
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Posted: 11/20/2009 11:33:32 AM
Is it just me, or is it getting really funny in here?

I am so glad I've resisted the Facebook lure...


Editing for Bad*MonkeyFunker (hee! I've always liked that), not true at all, I know several people in their 70s on Facebook. Used to be more for the younger set, not so much anymore.
 Bad*MonkeyFunker

Joined: 7/9/2009
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Posted: 11/20/2009 11:35:25 AM
If you're over 35, guess what... you're too old for facebook....
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