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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/13/2007 7:01:57 AM | You cannot be 100% sure a girl is faking it unless you've already made her come genuinely enough times to know full well what symptoms to expect, because not all girls are the same! Even then she could vary from time to time.
You can generally tell pretty easily if it's definitely NOT fake, but it does not logically follow that you can tell when it IS fake. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/13/2007 7:14:23 AM | | Interestingly enough I was having a conversation with a GF of mine on this topic last night. I have never faked it. Never felt the need. She has faked it. Always faked it with her husband during penetrative sex, can cum orally tho. I was like.. why??? They have split up 'cause he's a dawg, and I told her last night if she wanted to really crush him she should tell him that she faked it!! She went into detail about how she does it too.. and I was still dumbfounded about the whole thing. I wouldn't even begin to know where to start to fake it!! | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/24/2007 6:21:32 PM | | well, honesty is the best policy, if the man aint doing it right than push him in the right direction, if he believes hes getting his partner off every time, sure his ego will be through the roof, but then she will get very bored very quickly and might ruin the relationship by cheating. if she is honest than likes the guy enought then she should politely let him know that it aint doin it for her and she is unhappy. besides, most guys can easily tell when shes faking it and in my experience, when i know she is, i normally dump her before i lose my ego. FAKING IS LYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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D3nis3
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Joined: 3/10/2007
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/24/2007 11:47:00 PM | Some people give too much information...While others don't think logically enough...
Its a shame too as the question is "Can men tell when a woman is faking it?" Some of the responses though are all over the map!! LoL..
**I still think the 2 best comments came from
No you men CAN NOT TELL!! I love the men that swear they know. You wish you did
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Keep this discussion going! I love hearing all of the ways guys can "tell" that
we're faking it! lmao. Truth is, there's no way in hell any of you know the truth unless you ask the question "Did you come?" and she doesn't lie!
This is correct when it comes to not being able to know. However, asking the question "Did you come" is a very unreliable way of getting an answer. It is like asking a little kid if he got into the cookie jar. Don't listen to what he says. Look at his hands.
Yes... Its obvious... eyes never lie
Case in point.
I don't think men can tell, at least not a SINGLE ONE I have ever been with. Oh men can easily be deceived in that department!
It would be a long time before I derived any pleasure in watching a woman with this sort of inclination achieve orgasm. Not pointing to 'you' specifically, but just in general.
I am not pretentious enough to think I can tell initially. The sad thing that seems to come out of it all for me is that I feel I need to take a wait, learn and see approach. I look at a woman's first orgasms with tainted eyes. I'd rather stand by and watch emotionless than be deceived. In good time I may be able to piece together enough to get an answer I am satisfied with.
It is a shame that a man can't simply ask the woman he loves if her orgasms are real and expect a straight answer. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/25/2007 12:42:26 AM | Looks like you have covered just about everything. Here is what I was told once by a woman, "There are so many different kind of orgasms a woman can have its hard to describe them all. Vaginal, clitoral, whole body orgasms, orgasms that combine then all, anal and on and on. The one that is the best is the one I have when I know I pleased my man, that in itself is whole other orgasm in itself too. It makes me feel real good to know I can make a man do that."
Never sell yourself short guys, no pun intended, lol... | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/25/2007 8:28:30 PM | | If she faking it, it's only hurting her self. I'm gonna make sure I get off, and I will try my hardest to get her off. If she says she's good, then cool. But if she's lying about having enough, then it's her not getting fully off. Just use proper communication and ask for more, and of what do you want if you want more. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/25/2007 9:12:58 PM | | to me its like this. woman dont want a man to screw her roll over and fall asleep do they? well for me at least if a woman cant be honest and tell me what i am doing thwat turns her on or off or what she wouldnt mind trying what trust do you have. if your lieing about that what else. most woman think men are stupid. i put it to you mabe men are just bluffing just to get there petters wet. so many men do it roll over and then start to snore. do you think if men do that they really dont know if a woman is faken it or not i do and if a woman is just doing it so she can get money to spend or to manipulate the man in doing something she wants so be it but if a woamn wants and really loves a man and the relationship she will be honest and tell him isnt that what all woman want from men be opened honest maybe if woman start being honest with men put that men and woman bull aside and start treating each other as people just mabe we will enjoy sex for what it is a bunding between two people its not a tonka toy or a barbie doll to play and share with all our friends even over coffee talking about what he or she did last night keep it for the bed room and i promise this trust will make more woman cummmmmmmmmm and men will want to make a woman cum | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/26/2007 12:24:34 AM | | Women fake it and so do men. Men just do it in a differant way, here's how. men don't want to be cheated out of a release, so when a woman isn't really turning you on, you just think of the one's who have done it for you in the past and keep quite about it, so her feeling's don't get hurt! | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/26/2007 10:12:53 AM | | How old are you qzilla? And boy are you missing out if you feel that selfish towards sex.As far as women faking it,the only thing i have to say on that subject is ,why reward bad behaviour ladies. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/26/2007 1:26:23 PM | If you are really, really good, NO, men cannot tell. A woman should know her body, her orgasms well enough to re-create one whenever needed. Sometimes I just want to stop. I have been with several men who will not quit until they know you are satisfied. In those cases, sometimes you jsut HAVE to......laundry and dishes have got to be done you know. :)
Recently trained a friend of mine to properly fake hers. She has been married for about 11 years, he knows her and her orgasms well, and she has never been able to get by with faking. After my little training course, she has reported favorable faking results!! | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 3:26:54 PM | I really dont understand this "faking it" thing , whats the point?
If you need to fake it , its not enjoyable and if it is not enjoyable why not let your partner know what you would like ?
Doesnt that make more sense ?
I woild get more pleasure if I knew my partner was happy with it.
Just a thought.
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 6:27:51 PM | Sometimes we are enjoying it but just cannot jump that last hurdle, and if your man is doing his best to get you there whats wrong with a little fake now and then???????? | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 6:44:10 PM | | absolutely, hunny is right! Sex can be very enjoyable and deeply satisfying without orgasm. It is much harder for women to get off than men (generally) and we aren't always going to. I would rather fake it well, keep his ego intact, and not be rubbed raw with him trying for hours to accomplish the impossible. :) | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 7:01:35 PM | That completely depends on the girl. They can get viscious if you bring her close and dont finish. You may enjoy it fishy but some cannot handle it at all. Faking is bad anyways honesty is best  | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 7:19:32 PM | Wow. Seems this thread is populated by an abundance of both Casanova's and Academy Award-caliber actresses!
As for me, I'm sitting on the fence on this one.
Ladies, despite what you may think, you're not that great an actor. You might slip one by us on occasion, but it's mighty arrogant to think you can pull it off every time.
Men, despite what you may think, a woman will be able to pull a fast one here and there. It's as certain and constant as the speed of light in a vacuum. (Yeah, THAT didn't make me sound like a nerd...)
Personally, I think the solution is simply communicating your wants and needs efficiently while maintaining "the mood." If you don't do that, you're screwing yourself out of some seriously quality screwing. I know some of you are thinking "It can't be done!", but I assure you, it can. If you can't figure it out, you're just not thinking hard enough.
***Disclaimer***
This doesn't account for what I like to call the "less-than-enlightened" folk that generally miss anything that doesn't jump up and slap them in the face. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 7:30:51 PM |
That completely depends on the girl. They can get viscious if you bring her close and dont finish. You may enjoy it fishy but some cannot handle it at all.
 Oh come on.......get me close and don't finish and well.....does post coital homicide mean anything. LOL I am not talking about THOSE moments....I am talking about those over stressed days where it just IS NOT going to happen. I like....NOOOOOO, I LOVEEEEEEE a good orgasm, but there are times it just isn't going to happen. Honesty is a wonderful thing unless it stands the chance of hurting your man's feelings whe he is wonderful in bed and this is NOT about him. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 7:31:28 PM | My opinion is....... You can tell when a woman fakes it, once you know her body. and how she normally reacts to an orgasm. (that is, if you ever made her orgasm) The first time you have sex with her, you probably won't be able to tell the difference.
If she fakes it, she is just depriving herself. If the guy thinks he is hittin right, he is gona keep hittn it like that. Therefore, she is never gona get it done right.
But that is only one mans opinion. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 7:31:43 PM | | It's good either way, fake or real, I'll take any excuse to stop that she gives me. Somehow a rumor got started that women are entitled to orgasms, not just sometimes but every damn time. That slows things up considerably, even with extended half-time shows, you still wind up missing the kick-off more often than not. Usually there you are stuck pumping away or licking like a cat with a sore paw, and she is taking her sweet time building up to what won't be all that great anyway. If she fakes it to get things over with, she's happy and I am happy. I would consider it a generous gesture, not some kind of criminal deception. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 8:24:17 PM | ^^^^^^
Jumbo Mumbo . . . Instead of using your "WEAK LEG" . . . why don't you take out BOB and fresh batteries and show your gal a great time!!!!
1- YOU will not have to over exert yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2- YOU will learn WHEN your girlfriend is having REAL orgasm
3- YOU will be GENEROUS by insuring HER NEEDS are taken care of also
4- YOU will not miss your game for she can USE BOB without you!!!!!
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TishaG
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Joined: 4/1/2007
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 8:25:52 PM | | Why fake it? If he's not getting you close enough to the "end"...take matters into your own hands and let him help. That drives them crazy anyways to see you pleasuring yourself, and if they are inside you, that simultaneous "O" together is really awesome. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 8:40:30 PM | Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 9:54:41 AM
Women have Orgasms?
Very funny!!! Tris 67
Its like the movie with Dustin Hoffman, "Tootsie" when his girlfriend exclaims
"I am in control of my own orgasms"
There is much truth in this. A woman has to be in the right frame of mind, and no one can control that but her. Forget about the guy your with and pleasing him, he's going to get his rocks off just watching you get yours, so go for it ladies, you deserve it!
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 8:55:23 PM | Well put kczilla!
I get great pleasure out of making my guy feel good.
Oh, and lets not forget the "G" spot orgasm.....holy s***!!!!
Guys, if you can find that, "YOU DA MAN!" | |
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