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 Author Thread: Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
 dudeish

Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 251
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/5/2007 11:45:59 PM
Have you never been in that area when she has coughed? Same contractions. Do you not think that she can fake the shivering and spasming??? Yup she sure can! Not all women get soaked when they finish either!
If she does "fake it" she is the one losing out not you! So really does it matter?
 EKboyInTheCity

Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 252
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 4/6/2007 2:39:30 AM
Sometimes I have known when a woman was faking it (as in poor acting), don't imitate the porn movies ;) However, it is much much harder to know when a woman is not faking it, as in having a real orgasm. Mostly I can tell when my partner is close, so as I get to know them I can learn it. My best suggestion is not to fake it unless you are dead certain that your partner will never get any better and you still want to keep him, because if you don't fake then he has a better chance of learning to improve timing etc.
 scottdehart

Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 253
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 10/9/2009 7:23:30 AM

Is it easy for a man to tell when a woman is faking orgasm? And, which would men prefer, her just enjoying the ride and all the great sensations without the Big "O", and being honest about it, or the great deception of pretending? Especially with new relationships, sometimes people have to become accustomed to each others bodies and learn the proper erotic zones, since each person is different. By feeling the need to fake it, sometimes women are depriving their partner of discovering exactly how to please them. On the other hand, by faking it, the mans ego is left intact. So, which is best?


Okay, yeah, it's an older thread, but still can be relevant.

IMO. I'd rather a woman tell me that "it's just not working" instead of acting like it does. If you tell me, then I can try something else to make you feel good. I really want my partner to have the best experience I can give her, but if she's faking I'm not learning a thing. I also realize that a woman's erotic areas change at any given time. i.e. what made her go crazy last week may not be giving the same response this week. But by faking it you're not telling your guy what gives you the most pleasure.

Ladies, new input please? Thoughts on this?
 gabrielle523

Joined: 9/16/2009
Msg: 254
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 10/9/2009 9:46:52 AM
I think any woman that fakes it is short changing herself and the guy she's with. I think it's just as important to communicate needs to acheive the desired effect. Any guy who can't tell a girl is faking just doesn't want to know or maybe doesn't really care.
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