Is it easy for a man to tell when a woman is faking orgasm? And, which would men prefer, her just enjoying the ride and all the great sensations without the Big "O", and being honest about it, or the great deception of pretending? Especially with new relationships, sometimes people have to become accustomed to each others bodies and learn the proper erotic zones, since each person is different. By feeling the need to fake it, sometimes women are depriving their partner of discovering exactly how to please them. On the other hand, by faking it, the mans ego is left intact. So, which is best?
Okay, yeah, it's an older thread, but still can be relevant.
IMO. I'd rather a woman tell me that "it's just not working" instead of acting like it does. If you tell me, then I can try something else to make you feel good. I really want my partner to have the best experience I can give her, but if she's faking I'm not learning a thing. I also realize that a woman's erotic areas change at any given time. i.e. what made her go crazy last week may not be giving the same response this week. But by faking it you're not telling your guy what gives you the most pleasure.
Ladies, new input please? Thoughts on this?