| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/15/2005 10:50:38 AM | LMAO... Nope.. Not uless the woman is a BAD actress..
I sadly admit to having faked a time or two as a youth..
(not that I'm old or anything lol)
But once I got a little more experience I stopped faking it..
I need mine too... So if I am not enjoying it? Belive me.. you will know..
Katelynn | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/15/2005 11:29:23 AM | No you men CAN NOT TELL!! Its way to easy to fake one when your a female. I love the men that swear they know.  You wish you did | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/15/2005 11:43:20 AM | Ohhh, let me see...I have a few days open next month. Is the 3rd OK with you??? let the testing begin!
On Topic: Can men wearing a rubber fake it??? LOL | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/15/2005 11:46:21 AM | Yes Men can fake it.. but why would they want to??
Hmmm.. I think I can manage the 3rd..
I'll be in available for about a week or so... | |
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dskate
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Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 57 | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/15/2005 12:08:56 PM | I have gone over this before on here.
Not all when orgasm a thousand times a night, like you all seem to believe.
I wont fake just because he is bad in bed, I am willing to train.
I have faked before and will fake again, sometimes there are nights, when I aint going to cum no matter what you do, so I fake it. Take it as a gift and move on. Really its no big freaking deal!! Get over it men!
Off topic: Ok Mike lets test it out, bet I could win!! :P | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/15/2005 12:11:05 PM | | no matter how hard we try, or think or finger we can....we can't. we are dumb creatures. other wise we wouldn't ask. didja???? lol | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/16/2005 12:32:42 PM | And the moral is: Deliciously nipping and nibbling at each other, making that connection, holding the one you love, kissing, stroking, slow grinding, upping the tempo to body pounding against body, reaching or not reaching that crescendo, laying beside each other in the aftermath, then doing it all over again and again, etc., that's the real ecstacy. Because if you're doing it right, the journey can be just as exciting as the destination, so either way, you got yours. So, rather than asking , "Did you cum?", maybe it should be that age old favorite, "Was it good for you?" Then there would be no need to fake anything.
On the other hand, if you're just having sex, who gives a shyt one way or the other!    | |
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Joined: 1/18/2005
Msg: 61 | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/16/2005 1:22:01 PM | | I was with my ex for nearly 6yrs. & yeah I will admit I faked a few. & he was never able too tell. Youd think that after being with someone for so long they would be able to tell but NOPe | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/16/2005 1:40:31 PM | I dont care if she fakes it or not.
What I can tell is if she isnt into it at that moment.
Id rather be with someone who is faking it and still enjoying it than someone who isnt into it at that particular time (and YES, I dont care how fantastic a lover you are, and we all are on here, but sometimes the partner just isnt as into it as we would like) | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/16/2005 2:50:52 PM | I am never, ever, never, ever going to fake another orgasim as long as I live... and he isn't getting out of that bed, off the floor, outta the chair, off his knees until I'm friggin well done and ready to let him go... how's that ? | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/16/2005 10:09:33 PM |
I am never, ever, never, ever going to fake another orgasim as long as I live... and he isn't getting out of that bed, off the floor, outta the chair, off his knees until I'm friggin well done and ready to let him go... how's that ?
Much better then faking it. 
But, if you are with the right person and you both want each other, you shouldnt have to fake it. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/16/2005 11:36:43 PM | | sometimes.... like when I'm porking her on the couch and she asks her sister to close the blinds because she can't see the picture on the tv... | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/17/2005 8:07:53 AM | @always smilin You're right, for the most part... but I think that kind of easy, uninhibited, indulging, great sex comes with time which create intimacy, patience, which creates security, and practice, which creates confidence. I don't think you can get that, meeting someone dating a few times and jumpin in the sack...which is what the guys I've met previously through online dating expect...not that they get it, but that's what they expect.
OT: I don't think a guy can tell, there's the same moistness, do a kegal or two to contract the muscles... it's not rocket science. But when I hear a guy say...who cares whether she gets off or not....I think, well what does it matter if you faked it or not...he could care less anyways...."shrugs" | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/17/2005 10:09:00 AM | But when I hear a guy say...who cares whether she gets off or not....I think, well what does it matter if you faked it or not...he could care less anyways
I just think that if some-one has to fake it, there is a problem.
You should never have to. If you are at the stage with some-one where sex is involved, you should be able to communicate like adults and figure out why you would have to fake it (or even consider faking it).
I get turned on when my partner is having a great time, I think it is one the best things about sex. It would ruin that if she was faking it, and I would rather her tell me that some-thing is up before she feels she has to do that. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/17/2005 11:55:13 AM | @always smilin... Well, again you're right..but don't think I haven't tactfully tried to say that it wasn't really working out for me... the response was..."well f*ck you take forevvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrr to get off"...or they took it personally and then it just went from bad to worse. It's not that I didn't enjoy myself, I did, very much, and yes there were times where it was very erotic and felt really, really good, but the O just wasn't quite there yet...and it was just easier for me, and him, not to say anything.
Now, I'm not saying (ALL) guys are like that, but some are, and I've had my share of them, one being the person I was most intimate with...my ex husband...I mean it just doesn't get any more intimate than that....and it was a very touchy subject.
However, I think I've learned that before I engage in sex with someone, we need to talk first, rather than after, it's just easier if he knows what he's in for...maybe I'm just a hard woman to please... | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/17/2005 1:20:28 PM | @ cocoa
no darlin' it was just a joke....I am certain most of them (except 1 or 2 in my youth) have foung the experience as a whole gratifying. I just rarely take myself too seriously.   | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:04:09 PM | I'm very responsive and don't have a tough time at all getting my cookies....so on the couple of occasions a lover was so bad that I COULDN't ...I just left.
No real need for me to fake. | |
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