| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:15:13 PM |
or they took it personally and then it just went from bad to worse. It's not that I didn't enjoy myself, I did, very much, and yes there were times where it was very erotic and felt really, really good, but the O just wasn't quite there yet...and it was just easier for me, and him, not to say anything.
I dont stop until my lover has the "O".
So, if you fake it with me, you are only cheating your-self. (regardless of why you are doing it)
But, to the question of the thread, depends on the woman and how good of an actor she is.(I suppose)
But again, if your relationship has decayed to that point, or if it cannot be openly discussed with me why she would want to do it in the first place, I probably would not care.
And, if a man is childish enough that you cannot talk to him about it, its time to exchange your boy toy for a new one, or a dildo till you find a real man. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/18/2005 7:42:15 AM | | well i think i have found a way if shes fakin. when i go down on her when shes making the big O-face is that a womans c**t pulses when shes climaxing, u can feel it if u put it between ur tongue and lip. it happened evertime i made a woman cum going down there so its not just a freak thing or just one lady. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/18/2005 6:56:41 PM | Dietcola;
Any man who would post a pic of himself on a dating website with a finger up his nose hasn't a clue about women! PERIOD. But then again, from some of the things I've seen on here, some may find the finger up the nose thing sexy. Takes all kinds. Thanks to you and everyone else for your answers!  | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/18/2005 8:49:38 PM | | I never understood why women did that shit . I asked my friend and she said to spare his feelings . I asked her what about your feelings( particullarly the ones in your vagina) | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 8/23/2005 10:58:44 PM | I wouldnt know....I've never faked it...
if its not good...i change positions until it is
*thats why god gave me hips*..or something | |
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JasonB
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Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 87 | |
| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 8/24/2005 4:20:05 AM | Oh its pretty easy to tell.. there is ..hmm how to put this.. there is a distinct wetness that happens directly afterwards. And its f'ing GREAT.
Yum
Ego shmego, sex is supposed to be a shared thing, if she doesnt "O" I like to try and find out, then try and make her with whatever/however I can. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 8/24/2005 4:24:26 AM | | If a guy cant tell then he doesn`t really care. I can deffinetly tell if a girl fakes it, cause it`s not just about moaning and screaming,if you really make her have good orgasims you can feel them pulsating and their legs shake like crazy. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 8/24/2005 5:28:48 AM | when you've been at it for less then 60 seconds, and she claims to have "enjoyed" herself, you KNOW she's faking it.
(wonders if he should send her the link to this post  ) | |
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Elycit
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Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 91 | |
| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 8/24/2005 8:02:54 AM | Men have to know when women are faking it.. When a woman has a G spot orgasm.. there should be a gush of clear fluid or whatever.. I have never had a dry orgasm.. Even clitorally.. when a woman has a clitoral orgasm, she sacretes a goowy like jelly clear fluid (wet)... If she doesn't have this clearr stuff after a clitoral orgasm.. You've been faked buddy...
so there's always a way to tell.. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 1/26/2007 8:58:54 AM | I used to fake when I was younger, but like many women, stopped. However, I had a boyfriend who said that almost every woman he was ever with had vaginal orgasms and that because I didn't (as with most women), he had decreased interest in sex with me. Funny thing was, I thought sex with him was great and so many other aspects of it worked well. Ultimately, the relationship ended and I know that that was a contributing factor. But, I guess if I really wanted to save the relationship, I could have faked it like 70% of the other women he dated.  | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 1/26/2007 9:24:23 AM | What would be the purpose of faking it? His ego? Heck, I'll stroke a lot of things during sex, but not his ego. If you aren't doing the job right, I will be the first to let you know and guide you through some on the job training! | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 1/26/2007 9:25:38 AM | | ha i've faked it.........for two years I faked it. Didnt want to hurt him. I woke up one day and told myself I would never fake it again. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 1/26/2007 10:05:34 AM | Is it easy for a man to tell when a woman is faking orgasm? And, which would men prefer, her just enjoying the ride and all the great sensations without the Big "O", and being honest about it, or the great deception of pretending? Especially with new relationships, sometimes people have to become accustomed to each others bodies and learn the proper erotic zones, since each person is different. By feeling the need to fake it, sometimes women are depriving their partner of discovering exactly how to please them. On the other hand, by faking it, the mans ego is left intact. So, which is best?
Yep. Some of us can tell. If my face isn't drenched, or if I'm not dripping her from ass to rib-cage, then I know I am not finished.
All you're doing by faking, is re-inforcing what he is doing and training him to do what DOESN'T get you off.
Knock it off!!
Your happiness, and ultimately, your relationships, are at stake. Don't fake it. Don't worry about his ego. You're doing a bigger disservice to both him AND yourself by faking. If he doesn't get you off, turn on your coy-flirty looks, and "suggest" some of the things that make you cum. If he cares about you and your happiness, you'll see him INSTANTLY change gears, and try his hardest to zero in on what you like best. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 1/26/2007 10:14:47 AM | If the guy is un-experianced, he can not tell (I've had to fake "it" (unfortunately) with un-experianced guys and they could never tell!)
But if he is experiance and knows a real womans orgasm he can tell if you fake it or not but that's when you don't need to fake it!  | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 1/26/2007 10:59:22 AM | I wish I could stop faking it...  I know it's my own fault.
And no, none of them have been able to tell. Or if they could tell, they didn't ask about it.
<--- has never gotten an orgasm from a man. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 1/26/2007 11:07:00 AM | | Hell--no way. We all believe every one of those porn actresses are having actual orgasms, so give us a couple "Oh baby's" and "unh, unh, unh's" and toss a "you're so good, so big" and we'll roll right over | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 1/26/2007 11:16:01 AM | | I believe that if ur not even getting close to orgasm..than show the guy ...where to touch and stuff..because ovious u know where u like to be touched..and faking it..wow never...well if its a quickie i know i dont..its the long and more exciting sex that makes me..and i dont think i hear alot of guys faking it...but i would prefer to take the time and show him that way there i can enjoy it than rather feel like ok i nver got any enjoyment outta that...it may be frusterating and embarrising but hey in the long run its worth it..try not to fake it... | |
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