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 RedPaladin

Joined: 12/17/2006
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/26/2007 4:00:56 PM

It was easy to figure out when my ex-wife was faking it, cause in between her moans she would be eating a ham sandwich.


OMG!! even if you are kidding
 Paddy O Furniture

Joined: 9/15/2006
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/26/2007 4:05:42 PM
Of course I was kidding!

It was ham & swiss
 Alicia1986

Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 203
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/26/2007 4:19:24 PM
What is the deal with this? OF course you can tell if a woman is faking it...can't you feel it inside her?

I think the first symptom would be the violent vaginal contractions for starters...oh and let's not forget how she suddenly gets soaked...oh and how about her muscles quivering and spasming...and if you look at her coochie you can see the darn thing talking at ya!

Duh, guys!!! Wake up!

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I agree 100% with this!!!!
 tiny_wonders

Joined: 12/11/2006
Msg: 204
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/26/2007 7:33:49 PM
AMEN to this!!!!!!!
 prettyprincesst

Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 205
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/26/2007 7:37:07 PM
depends on the people
at times it very hard for guys to tell
 Nick Thinker

Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 206
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/26/2007 7:45:08 PM

Duh, guys!!! Wake up!


Not so loud please, we are trying to sleep over here (in Urop). Time difference. LOL LOL

It's all in the timing aka synchronicity. Like tango!

PS. "look at her ...."? At O time? How can this work ... anatomically, I wonder? Maybe in group situations, otherwise, a tad hard to implement!

PS2. Not all Ws exhibit the same ... O symptoms (plus condom make feeling ... harder)


PS 3. Can W tell when M fake it?
 M2k7

Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 207
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/26/2007 8:21:15 PM
Their faces turn flush. - so hold your breath faker.

Why leave my ego intact? Why not boost me up by teaching me how to pleasure you, and I'll want to do it more.
 Simply*Enchanted

Joined: 3/9/2006
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/27/2007 7:30:15 AM
Why would you fake it? let him know where it feels good vocally, so he knows where to go, and what you like, go crazy when it feels fantastic, and be silent, and give instruction when it "could be better"


when you fake it, your only cheating yourself, he still gets his, believe that!
 Bwitching_Bella

Joined: 12/11/2006
Msg: 209
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/27/2007 7:41:39 AM
Quote....Msg: 4
we can probably tell but, who cares if she faking or not? We're still gettin' it!

Hahahaha
and that's why it's so easy for women to fake it!

personally I've been lucky and never had to fake it
 TYzillian

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 210
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/27/2007 8:48:24 PM
I would say is pretty damn difficult for a woman to actually do a good job faking an orgasm, there are SO many tell-tale signs that say true or false just by the look in her eyes alone, thats NOT to mention even a slight breeze across her sweet spot would definately make her quiver, a woman becomes VERY, VERY sensitive after her special "arrival" & in my opinion is a wonderful time to orally pleasure her further for that second "dish" should I say. Did I type that ?

Alicia, lol, thats SO true, looks like she could be stretched down too the FLOOR at that point also.
 boll64

Joined: 4/2/2004
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/27/2007 9:52:49 PM
I like to think i could tell lol

But i don't see the point in faking after all having an orgasam is the whole idea is it not??

i have asked anyone i have been ongoing with to please not fake it as i like to please her but there may be times when its just not going to happen, and if that is the case on a regular basis then you aren't clicking for some reason and you need to figure it out as it is no good if it's only enjoyable for me becuase eventually she won't be interested anymore
 hudsonbay

Joined: 8/19/2006
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/27/2007 10:17:29 PM
with sweet - hot mustard o'course..
 rolleratnight

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 213
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/28/2007 5:48:11 PM
I've always wondered if women could tell if I am faking it.
 Ryan8150

Joined: 3/10/2006
Msg: 214
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/28/2007 5:50:22 PM
i've been with people who fake and some of them are really good. but i dont understand why faking, just tell the guy that it doesnt feel good and tell him how to make it feel better.
 Ariesgirl003

Joined: 11/26/2006
Msg: 215
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 2/28/2007 6:02:29 PM
How can you brake his heart even if he doesn't get you off ?We can act like they did or just make me do it over and over again and again till he gets it right
 How many toads?

Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 216
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/5/2007 2:54:09 PM
Okay...after reading most of the posts on this subject I have finally decided to write.

When and who made it the mans responsiblity to make a woman orgasm?? We're not responsible for their orgasm, why should they have the pressure put on them to "please" us? Women should be more open about their sexuality. We masterbate when men aren't around...why not masterbate while they're with us? Don't get me wrong, having a man give pleasure is great, but from what I've read, most of the women who have posted something said they've been faking it. I've never faked it. I've never rolled over wishing I had an orgasm. I take care of it myself! Guys seem to enjoy watching or feeling a hand slip down there. Loosen up ladies. Sex should be enjoyable for both parties involved. Faking it is just cheating yourself.
I don't get it. We've been told our entire lives that other people can't make you happy, happiness is something you have to give yourself. So give yourself the happiness of an orgasm and let your partner enjoy himself without that worry always in the back of his mind.

Just my two cents worth.

Oh and condoms don't make a difference...the pleasure is all clitoris stimulation.
 typingsux

Joined: 5/25/2004
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/5/2007 3:19:48 PM
The real question should be is do most men care?
 meandthensome

Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 218
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/5/2007 4:44:24 PM
so yeah guys? ever faked it? I have...it was that bad.
 tyson 7899

Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 219
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/5/2007 5:00:00 PM
Of course you can the body tells you when she is coming not her mouth...
 civicryder

Joined: 2/28/2007
Msg: 220
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/5/2007 5:02:24 PM
Ok i also have too add my 3 cents lol If a guy can't figure out that the woman in faking it i would think he should go take a class in sex...... a woman's body will tell u if they have had the big bang.....lol futher more if u are a good lover u will help the woman achieve it cause it makes for much better sex when she has had one more relaxed can get in better wetter must i keep going on?........So if u are the dudes that are getting faked on u must play first with her never u first things will happen better for u......
 SloGruve

Joined: 9/25/2006
Msg: 221
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/13/2007 1:27:40 AM
I don't think I've ever been faked on because I ask if it's going to happen or not, in a certain amount of time. With good communication, it is never an issue because you will be told if what you are doing is right or wrong. If a woman is comfortable enough with you and thinks you are comfortable enough with yourself, she won't worry about your ego.
Many women don't climax through intercourse and it has nothing to do with the man. Men are always too concerned about the finish, when getting there is more than half the fun. I have argued with a woman before that the rythmic contractions can be faked, and that might be true. Look for the electrical responses that woman have and men don't. A woman that gets off good, will twitch. The only time I have ever seen a women twitch, is during orgasm and sleeping.
In my opinion an agile toungue, is more important than some wiley wood. Clitoral stimulation is how most women get off, not all, but most. If you want a woman to get off through intercourse, my experience has shown me that a woman on top can find that sweet spot best on her own, if you have the equipment to reach that spot. Any woman that feels she has to fake it needs to disregard the man's ego, and tell him what he needs to do. I never took offense to being instructed, I always saw it as a learning experience. If it aint going to happen, throw the man off of you, and say sorry but it aint happening.
 MyNewName

Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 222
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/13/2007 4:13:59 AM
I may be able to, but I have to find a woman that actually has a real Orgasm first to be able to tell if there's a difference.
 MyNewName

Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 223
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/13/2007 4:18:42 AM
Oh yeah, I forgot, even if I could tell, I wouldn't!
 BLUE_EYES_FOR_YOU

Joined: 11/26/2006
Msg: 224
Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/13/2007 4:57:04 AM
yes there are visible signs that a women is enjoying herself and about to orgasm, when her clit becomes hard, the head of her clit pops up, as she arches her back, the small of her back sweats and you can taste her as she cums. the big thing is go slow you don't want her to get excited to soon. massaging licking nibbling and sucking the head of her clit. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

and ladies don't fake the experience enjoy it. TALK TO YOU PARTNER LET HIM KNOW IF HE IS HITTING THE SPOT?????
 Greggy01

Joined: 11/29/2006
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 3/13/2007 6:22:13 AM
When you've both come down from 7th heaven, if she can still walk she's faked it! (Devils Advocate)
Only by being honest with her partner can she show him his minor failings in pleasuring her, after all she knows her own body better than anyone.
Surely neither partner are going to enjoy fake lovemaking in the end.
Isn't it better to be honest at the risk of denting his ego in order for him to learn what gives her the vavavoom and what doth not?
Is it not better to find out what makes her tick under the sheets so she pops all her braincells and thus comes back for more of the same? Mans greatest desire?
That way they both enjoy equally what tickles and what does not (and the enjoyable path to learning) and both reach the ultimate goal of an earth shattering climax.
Aside from making babies isn't that a major part of why we do the horizontal olympics?

[On the other hand, by faking it, the mans ego is left intact. So, which is best?]

Is not the man once he suspect faking, going to wonder if she's always faked? And would that not hamper his performace due to invisaged lack of prowess (due to her need to fake to save his ego) lead making things worse for both partners?

Dent his ego and show him what works and then sooth his ego by screaming the place down when he's hit all the targets - his best reward.

So says Greg
In my humble opinion
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