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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:13:46 PM | Clearly a guy asks you to his house he is a creep/criminal/potential rapist? Dont think so. Of course giving his address away wouldnt be a very good first step would it? And of course every other guy in this country is a rapist/paedo because the daily mail/fill in the blank moron paper says so? Dont think so either. What if a woman asked a guy to his?? Clearly she is not capable of committing such crimes like Myra Hindley etc etc etc??  | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:24:54 PM |
Clearly a guy asks you to his house he is a creep/criminal/potential rapist?
Internet safety rule number one..........................DO NOT MEET AT HIS HOUSE.
Sorry if that sounds harsh, but was a teenager recemtly found dead after meeting a guy from the net unbeknownst to her parents ?
This may be a free site, but follow the rules of the paid sites ....................... tell a friend where you are going, and don't meet at your house.
Unless you like the danger element...................... which is your choice of course 
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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:30:42 PM | | I see the point but also see the sort of hysteria caused when perhaps someone would rather meet a stranger in the comfort of their own place. Other countries would probably look upon it as a very open, trusting and welcoming gesture. I think paranoia has set too many people on a strange path. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:36:13 PM | I'm sorry to hear what happened to you angeldelight. Glad to hear you haven't given up hope though.
Cleverkitten- spot on don't apologise! I read the story about the teenager meeting a guy from the internet. Let's face it, you never really know who you're meeting, even after several emails and phone calls., they're still a stranger.
John-Boy, sad as it may seem the person (male or female) you're meeting could be a potential...well, whatever! There are plenty of horror stories, but it doesn't mean it can't happen to you. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:38:28 PM | | I don't see it as paranoia, when it could happen to you | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:40:59 PM | John Boy .................. I once met a guy on a Greek Island, he invited me back to his house...................... to meet his family...........................to see the way he lived. He actually lived in a cave house, and I was honoured that he wanted to show me his home and meet his parents with no hidden agenda other than a cultural exchange. He was actually engaged to an American girl at the time. We understood it was friendship nothing else, and nothing untoward occurred.
I believe not all encounters between members of the opposite sex have to be sexual, and my life is enriched because of that 
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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:44:15 PM | | I could win the lotto but I aint paranoid about that. Bring it on. A wee bit of danger now and again never hurt anyone. Sometimes doing something outside your comfort zone can bring sursprising and refreshing results. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 5:28:36 PM | | only a bloke could say something like that yes its ok to go outside of your comfort zone, if your a black belt | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 5:32:36 PM | I implied nothing of the kind my dear and age is no guarantee of experience whatever you may be implying  . I would like to see you spell this well after several large drinks.    I also like to wind folk up from time to time to soothe my boredom. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 5:35:26 PM |
only a bloke could say something like that yes its ok to go outside of your comfort zone, if your a black belt
Touche, but im no black belt only green and long since forgotten. At 5'7" you just need to be able to run like f$ck! | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 5:42:20 PM |
I would like to see you spell this well after several large drinks.
I was.
I also like to wind folk up from time to time to soothe my boredom.
And what was that adding to the debate? Flaming or Baiting? I am never sure of the terminology perhaps you could enlighten me?
CK trip traps to the naughty step
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Posted: 11/4/2009 5:52:13 PM | Mmmm well im not so sure they are really debates tbh (thats me down wit the kids using abreviations because im lazy) I believe in all honesty i was adding a little sugar and spice to a rather plain loaf  | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 4:46:28 AM | | know what you mean at 5.2 I run fast but it helps having three big brothers who all work outdoors | |
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