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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 9:36:39 AM | Naw it's the whole.....
"It's not you, its me thing" or  
Their way out, good thing you found out before it got to far. I know it can be frustrating investing all the time and effort it takes to build even a small relationship, then, have it pulled out from under your feet but it wasn't meant to be.
now go find a sinner! 
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 9:58:24 AM | I'll put it like this:
When we'd bit*h and moan about having to get dressed up early on Sundays to go to church, my mom would heap on Catholic guilt saying "Jesus gave up his life for you, you can't give him an hour"? Then after feeling an imaginary bearded man staring at me shaking his head in disgust, I'd go if only to be the cool person to put the money in the pass around thing.
So, in this spirit... I say unto you "Jesus gave his life for you, you can't let the man break off a piece of your girlfriend"?
You selfish ba*tard!
Editorial: I think ultra religious people are hypocritical at best and insane at worst. Some of man's greatest atrocities in this life are due to religion. I think organized religion is too often a poor excuse for independent thought, and I have no room for it in my life. | |
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 10:16:04 AM | Dont be unequally yoked....in any situation....people from other countries with different styles of living.....religion...morality....rich to poor....it wont work...stick with your own kind..
Perhaps you might want to see what it is that they see in Jesus and the promises...the fortold prophesis that have come to pass ....They know the truth of why we are here...they got distracted by you......Eternity is a very long time..
Anyway....the destructors of this nation use Free Love...Free Sex...Living together to keep people thinking about their croutches all day long...instead of watching the wolves that are destroying our society....Perhaps we should be watching these wolves for a bit..instead of trying to 'score'...using foolish women that sleep around with various men..putting their health at risk..Who would even date a woman like that anyway...
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 10:34:09 AM | Being on the other side of this, where I have held off sex because I felt it was sin, I can safely tell you that there is a reason.
The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 6:9 "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."
Sex outside marriage is a sin. Sometimes Christians slip and that casuses a lot of guilt. For those who are not Christian or see it differently, then they are not bothered by it, but if you ascribe to these beliefs, they are.
That is probably why your Christian girlfriends felt bad. It probably had little to do with you, personally, but with their beliefs. You don't share them and so sex is fine for you before marriage, but for a Christian it is not.
For a person who ascribes to Christianity, though, even if they succumb to a moment of weakness, it is not less sin. Sin leads to damnation and destruction. Before that it leads to the understanding that you have betrayed your beliefs and your God, so it is best to avoid being put in situations where sex becomes a temptation.
For those who wish to avoid sex before marriage, I agree with the poster who said it is best if they stay with 'their own kind' (ie. devout Christians). But for those who are more open to sex before marriage, and see it as a vital part of a relationships, then you need to be with someone who shares that view too.
Clearly these two are incompatible realities. It's unfortunate on some level, but as you know from your experiences and I from mine, it can only lead to heartbreak and the end of your relationships.
Good luck to you regardless. Tough lessons are learned the tough way, but they are learned.
Cheers,
Ulysses. | |
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 10:58:47 AM | I'm Christian myself (tho' I'm not fond of the term 'religious' because it implies mind control), and I can understand where both of you are coming from:
You're perplexed at her reaction to sex outside of marriage since she's already been involved, etc., and to you it's nonsense to let a silent, invisible entity have influence on one's morals & behaviour.
She's upset because to her, Jesus is not just religion and teaching; He is her foundation for life and... love. On some level, she may feel as if she is being used, especially if you have a more casual approach to it, in contrast to her attitude that sexuality is sacred and should be reserved for marriage.
Why, then, did she (or they, as I see you're referring to more than one instance) begin with you at all?
Because they're human, they get emotionally attached, and they want to be close.
It's just that such circumstances often preclude the 'proper' steps of dating, commitment, engagement and wedding, and many Christian ladies can easily feel like we've tripped up badly.
Speaking for myself, it does make me feel guilty when, unmarried, I want to connect physically with a man I adore, so I would be conflicted and might behave in a flaky way. It's not always an excuse or cop-out.
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For the record, it's not as if Jesus is "having His way with us". That's actually kinda gross...
Yep, might as well move on when you learn of a woman's faith in Jesus. Its nature is most profound, and is best avoided if you're not into it yourself.
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 11:17:10 AM | The most interesting thing about the original post, is that it happened twice, with two different women.
Obviously, there is something about these Christian women that you are attracted to. Could it be that they are exceptional women, loving, caring.....and you are drawn to that? Perhaps you should find a church that is based on a relationship with Christ, rather than "religion" and you'll find lots of beautiful women just like that.
I'm actually surprised to see responses by some wonderful Christian sisters here!!! | |
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 11:18:27 AM | | I should have added, that you need to see what these women are, what these women have, and ask Christ into your own heart. | |
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 12:09:22 PM |
Dont you understand offer to marry them already! If you are not ready to get married move on.
The 'new world' that women created for themselves...has turned out to be a farce...now men wont even marry them....lmao..and they still keep putting out... Women think they are free now because of feminism..but in essence..men and women are attracted to each other..but now...THE MAN GETS THE COW FOR FREE...WOW..that outta make you feel empowered..lmao...mans wisdom...what a joke.
And as far as being a 'free thinker' because you dont believe in the one true God...even with all the evidence around you...the creation...the Bible prophsies that have happened all through out the ages....I would say...your blind to reality..unable to comprehend the world around you...
Free thinker? Or trapped into rhetoric of delusion. Sort of a Sheeple people...
Yep..the worlds just getting better day by day.....except for the massive drug addiction..the welfare kids that have no idea who their 'daddy' is...the slave trade that is now going on in our own country...we cant let our kids play outside without a 'guard'...the schools are out of control...the kids are out of control...there is no law and order in our land anymore...divorces everywhere...families destroyed...morality destroyed....sexual diseases running rampant...
Yep...things are just getting better and better since we kicked God out .....how dare him provide us a sane and safe society to live in...how dare his provide children a mother and a father....how dare him give hope to the hopeless that keeps them off drugs and booze...how dare him give humans a concience to where they feel bad when they do evil..
Yep.,.its just getting better everyday......for those who love lawlessness and chaos..
I really think those of you who talk like that will be enjoying the world that is coming..If you think its bad now...wait till the next generation of kids come who have no Godly teaching at all...who have been raised on death, destruction and the mistreatment of women....
Human wisdom.....does not exist..The proof is in what we have done to our beautiful country....following doctrines of devils....
John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.
Thats why the girls leave...they know that there is a better world for them if they do not partake in the 'other side'...they just lost their way for a bit..perhaps your charming..and they got lonely..after all..they are human too..just like you people. They are not perfect..we make mistakes too..just like you people.
Ephesians 6:12...for our struggle is not against flesh and blood..but against the rulers , against authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms...
Sorry dude...your following either one or the other..even without understanding what you are doing to your own lives.... | |
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 12:52:55 PM | imulyssess, the topic is ~~~ Jesus is stealing my girlfriends (plural) and it has nothing to do with sex out side marriage a rerun of your previouse thread.. Virgin and Celibacy etc..
If this makes you happy this guy THAT I think" he is, THE ONE" I have him jump on a broom ,and I jump on the broom too , now we are married we will not sin having sex according to the bible 1 Corinthians 6:9,,,,,, fornicators,,,,,, , Note: I don't do the other sins,
Unlucky for him his holy jewel got snag on the handle of the broom, I think I set it too high, he divorced me and kick me to the curb... Now I am on the street of Plentyoffish,pounding the pavement looking for a man , I don't care if I am an evil doer, I will have sex with him out side of marriage this time..... | |
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 1:07:10 PM | OP
You're not alone, not by a long shot.
Me, I'm an aspiring Catholic. Gave up pickles for Lent. I hate pickles. By that I mean that I respect the religion but don't let it over-ride my rationale for doing things.
BUT, there are people who faithfully believe that religion IS their rationale. That is absolutely their prerogative.
SO, I would conclude that a person with strong religious beliefs would find it really difficult to have a relationship with one who did not.
What would I do? Not get into a relationship like that.
A man and his dog went to a church in the village. There they were met by the priest. "An animal is NOT allowed in a house of God," he proclaimed.
"But Father," the man said, "I was hoping that you would bless my little dog."
"An animal will not sully this sacred place!" the Priest responded.
Sadly, the man and his dog turned to walk away, but before doing so, he said, "Oh this is truly unfortunate, for I had intended to give the Church a $500 gift for such a blessing."
The gears inside the Priest's head started spinning ....
In his kindliest voice, he responded.
"Oh, my son, why did you not tell me that your little dog was a Catholic?"
Just goes to show -- even the staunches of believers have to be flexible at times. If they can't be flexible, they might lose a good thing. | |
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 1:20:15 PM | | Unless I have misunderstood the OPs original post, these women are not practicing Christian values or rules, they are having sex with OP then pulling back and using religion (that they supposedly already believed in) as a reason to stop having sex unless he married them. But let's say he meant they'd had sex before but have stopped and are now practicing the no sex without marriage rule...why would they be dating the OP while holding off sex, dating a man not of their values would be stupid and not much in line with Christianity. | |
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 1:41:44 PM | msg:121, Seriously, relationship is not working for the OP and his girlfriends, so to break the knot with him instead of saying the old line "I am back with with myEX.." I do that too ,even I don't have EX..
These women turn to Jesus thing, to break up with him.. But there is posibility of your input that "she" is witholding sex for him to marry her,( this doesn't make sense to me), the OP stated more than one girlfriend .~~~~~~~~ Jesus is stealing my girlfriends ,(plural)...... I am confused. | |
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| Jesus is stealing my girlfriends!
Posted: 11/3/2009 1:53:49 PM | Geez I've heard of people breaking if off for various reasons but this one takes the cake................. | |
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