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| Confused & upset - Why do men do this?
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:01:57 AM | | He's taking out what some woman he really liked did to HIM, on YOU!.....He wanted to make sure you wanted him just as he wanted HER and then vanished, just as SHE did. It was some sort of strange vendetta, probably. | |
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| Confused & upset - Why do men do this?
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:17:10 AM | I'm finding it powerfully amusing that, prior to my posting on this topic, it was sitting directly above the title, "Has your Adult ADD ruined/sabotaged relationships?"
As good an explanation as any, I suppose...
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| Confused & upset - Why do men do this?
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:21:33 AM | | you can sit around for days and wonder why? to just about everything that goes wrong in your life............... or you can do what so many others do and say he was not worth it and his loss and move onwards and upwards............. I know the choice is so hard.......... there is no way of knowing any persons intentions or any sure fire way to vent out nutters so don't stress over it............. I have a million questions in my life I would like answers too but came to the simple realisation I won't get any of them, simply put s h i t happens......... just forget it and move on, word to the wise make dates shorter and only arrange a second date the next day or whatever rule you have, give both parties time to decide if they are what the other wants, rejection is a part of life, so is pain and suffering........... do you want to sit there and suffer more of forget it and move on, there is a lot more fish in the sea. | |
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| Confused & upset - Why do men do this?
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:28:13 AM | To the OP. I used to spend a lot of time conversing with women here before meeting them...and i've since learned that this is the worst mistake to make. It allows far too many unreasonable expectations to build and as we can see from your post, sometimes we forget to manage our own expectations.
Now, I simply chat online once or twice and ask to meet, if they aren't into that, then they don't understand that relationships FIRST and FOREMOST require that initial spark...chemistry...whatever you'd like to call it to really be successful. Qualifying a potential mate with all that chatter is old school salesmanship btw....and we all just love old school sales men don't we??? | |
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| Confused & upset - Why do men do this?
Posted: 11/10/2009 11:46:17 AM | ...
and all people have difficulty with relating some types of their fears.
the nature of fear is that it is confusing ..mysterious...non-identifiable.
many men have walked away (as now do women) from relationships
as on a discovery ...due to not knowing for what purpose is the attraction.
the body is nice and attractive and meaningfull. but the body in contention
will set a part the union for its own discoveries to know why.
in this our era...where and when we had under-gone
30+ years of information bombardment to the obliterations of
but not lost of the
simple and sublime of human relationship.
by many personal and social conditions complicating...
people are conditioned to turn
face from confusion in relationship.
then find confusion once more to the loss
of personal respects in social environments
which mostly all speak of in terms conditional...
much unspoke of their various experiences even present.
but there are the open and non-inhibited of courageous heart society making path
to the minds of relationship exchange re membering among the new telecommunication set.
and that is lots of diversity asking to be reconciled
humanly ....purposefully.
peace out | |
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