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 JO01

Joined: 8/14/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 2:39:31 PM
ladies back you all the way love being on my own since april, bed all to myself. but saying that would like a man who would be happy to live in his house and me in mine.
 thebushcutter70

Joined: 8/15/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 2:47:10 PM
iam very happy to have a girlfriend who will live in her home and myself in mine, living under the same roof spells disaster.

i certainly aint desperate to have a woman in my life, i dont need sex at all.

i used to miss the hugs and the cuddles and the holding hands but i certainly dont miss the tantrums, the arguments and all the heartache that comes with a relationship.
 aitche

Joined: 12/22/2007
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Posted: 11/4/2009 2:59:05 PM

i certainly aint desperate to have a woman in my life, i dont need sex at all.

i used to miss the hugs and the cuddles and the holding hands but i certainly dont miss the tantrums, the arguments and all the heartache that comes with a relationship.


Erm........so why are you here?



H.x
 JO01

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Posted: 11/4/2009 3:11:25 PM
relatonships are not all about heartache they can be really good with the right person.
 minnx

Joined: 10/10/2008
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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:21:13 PM
That would depend on how attracted I was to whoever was asking

If I was attracted they would be 'enthusiastic' and I'd meet them at the earliest opportunity because I can't be doing with weeks of chat and emailing.

If I wasn't attracted and they kept pestering about meeting up they would become 'desperate' and possibly blocked eventually, although I haven't blocked anyone in 5 years (on and off).
 JO01

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Posted: 11/5/2009 4:43:33 AM
I can e to soft, been talking to someone for ages and he wants to meet but its never going to happen, he even sent me a questonaire to fill out about likes and dislikes. but just trying to let him down gently
 thebushcutter70

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Posted: 11/5/2009 3:21:53 PM
JO01

msg 57

i aggree but its FINDING the right person, many times i have thought i have found that right person and have given my all only to get my heart broke every time at a later date and after she has showed her true self.
 Simply me being me

Joined: 9/14/2009
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Posted: 11/5/2009 3:24:07 PM

I can e to soft, been talking to someone for ages and he wants to meet but its never going to happen, he even sent me a questonaire to fill out about likes and dislikes. but just trying to let him down gently

Let him down gently???

Ya mad yoke....id be shoving his questionairre up his fooken hole!!
 soulfire37

Joined: 10/24/2009
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Posted: 11/5/2009 5:55:24 PM
[i used to miss the hugs and the cuddles and the holding hands but i certainly dont miss the tantrums, the arguments and all the heartache that comes with a relationship]


not all relationships have ended because they were bad , not just talking about mine but some friends I know have amicable splits because they have just maybe changed over the years and want different things ;)

OP I dont think your desperate either, although personally I wont be rushing into meeting anyone as in dating , I have tried it and just ends in disppointment that I dont like them or dont feel they are suited to me anyway if that makes sense. I am trying the opposite approach too what I have normally done.

I dont give out my number or email address I dont do serial texting for the simple fact its not who I am , I am busy and dont have the time for being accused of ignoring people if I dont answer right away when really I am just busy.(its happened many times) lol

but its good to have enthusiasm and hope is the key , were there is will there is a way as they say. good luck to all, whichever way you prefer.

I am def not an attention seeker just very genuinely looking and want to find if possible the right person instead of meeting people for the sake of it , not that I ever have

 paulmale39

Joined: 5/31/2009
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Posted: 11/7/2009 2:55:18 AM
I think it can do you yes, I have experienced similar.
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