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Posted: 11/2/2009 5:49:47 PM | | If we lived in the same city, I'd give you the best orgasms EVER!!! | |
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Posted: 11/2/2009 6:20:55 PM | | I'm much older and I'm not bored with it. Maybe you should find a man, one who knows what it takes to arouse and satisfy you. Maybe watch some porn or read some erotic literature to get your mind stimulated for better orgasms. | |
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Posted: 11/2/2009 6:33:49 PM | To OP
Try giving it a rest for a while,,
of course it isnt going to be good if your doing it all the time,, your body probably needs a break and thats its way of telling you | |
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Posted: 11/2/2009 8:06:16 PM | Being a guy, I'd say that your stressed or that your getting bored doing it by yourself. However, there are plenty of ways to spice it back up again. Take a bath, romance it up a bit with candles/soft music, or do it in a public place where no one is watching to get your blood boiling, or best yet, find some guy that you want to date/be serious with and make the orgasms better that way. If that doesn't help, try new toys, but...my guess is this: your under alot of stress and thinking about it way to much. Relax, masturbation = fun....not boring! | |
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Posted: 11/2/2009 10:14:31 PM |
How can I Improve my orgasm? I masturbate alot, and frankly i'm getting a little bored.
Srsly?? SRONG WITH YOU!!! If someone hasn't said it already, the answer is quite obvious.... STOP MASTURBATING SO MUCH! You say you are bored of masturbating. My dear, tell me you feel about your vagina after 2 weeks with no masturbating. Make it 3 weeks if you dare, though I don't think you'll be able to handle that kind of heat. | |
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Posted: 11/3/2009 5:22:14 AM | Wouldnt think any woman would need help with masturbation....but ....it starts in the mind....maybe a drink....little music....warm bath.....your imagination...not rushing to the inevitable point....keeping yourself on the edge....try it...I do it when with a woman...keep her right there till shes about to crawl outa her skin...lol... | |
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Posted: 11/3/2009 6:36:57 AM |
How can I Improve my orgasm?
i'll be right over....don't move | |
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Posted: 11/3/2009 8:04:06 AM | I know I am not the female perspective you desire OP, but having been married, and having many female platonic friends, I can give you a little advice.
You mentioned you masturbated "a lot". That is fine, but maybe try teasing yourself a little? The way a guy would for you or vice versa. Let the tension build up for a day, or a few days..don't just get in a quick rubout. Much more satisfying when the tension is built up. Also a female friend told me that in between relationships she would occasionally set up a date with herself! I know, on the surface that sounds silly, but think about it..If you are getting ready for a date with a man, and you think you might be having sex and hence, orgasms, do you just throw on a ripped up pair of sweats, not shower, and leave the house? Of course..doll yourself up a bit..light some candles..put on some "do it" music..set the mood, have a glass of wine, and have a fun night alone. Another bit of advice..fantasize..no holds barred..whatever you think might float your boat, even if it's a pirate ship. In other words, it is fantasy, so even if you wouldn't do it in "real" life, it is just you, your hands and toys, and your imagination. You are in your own home, it is your own body, with nobody around to comment or criticize you.
Hope some of that helps! | |
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Posted: 11/3/2009 9:52:27 AM | Do you drink often ?....... | |
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Posted: 11/3/2009 10:13:12 AM | | Try phone sex. Women cum harder when they have a guy to cum with. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 6:14:49 AM | Hitachi Magic Wand and its attachments.
These things are great my lady friends love them.
A Sybian machine works really well and can give you some rally strong orgasms
But they cost some $$ You can come over and use mine some time :) | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 6:35:08 AM | Why are you putting yourself out there like that
First you start a thread on how you are disgusted by getting emails about how great your breasts are and now you are on here talking about how much you masturbate
I don't get it! | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 8:33:39 AM | | I have been there before and I used a vibrating bullet. You can get them at Lovers Lane or any sex toy store. I have tried dildos but they didnt work for me. I just wanted to get my clit off so I used the vibrating bullet and it was amazing!!! | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 8:42:14 AM | OP , if you are open to it , maybe slip a bob in the backdoor while you masterbate .. I have know alot of women that say that boost the OOOO a few levels . | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 9:03:12 AM | | God I can't believe the topics here.This is a dating sight and if you can't find a man to take care of you.Buy the biggest dildo you can find and try to be happy. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 9:20:19 AM | OP...you are quite the little attention seeker, aren't you. If the e-mails you were getting about your boobs weren't offensive enough to you, now you start this thread..... ~shakes head~
If you are bored with masturbating, stop masturbating.....seriously!!!
Toys etc... are fun but if you play with them too much or for too long, you can make it harder for yourself to achieve the big O with a (gasp) living, breathing man. | |
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Posted: 11/10/2009 7:39:02 PM | Okay well first of all I hope nobody I've been talking to on this site sees this lol but here's my experiences:
I dated a guy once that turned out to be a total freek! But he was amazing in bed and tried all kinds of "weird" things on me. I was always a very conventional lover til I met him. Even conventional when playing with myself! Lol
but after this guy I tried all kinds of different things on myself! Maybe you can benefit from these tips too.
Have u ever tried double penetration? (use dildos) One in the vagina and one in the butt lol! Make sure u use lots of lube tho if u didn't already know. Or if that's too intense, just use ur finger(s) in your rear. It can be really hott!
Oooo and when u think ur getting really excited and might be able to come, try holdi g ur breath. Research this for the details of why it feels good.
And really REALLY experiment with your g spot. I find it most effective to use my fingers cause I can actually feel the g spot with my fingertips. Fingertips are sometimes better than a dildo because u can actually feel the g spot with ur fingers and know where it is and how to stroke it. Then once ur more familiar with how to work the g spot, use a toy. Lay on ur back and point the dildo/vibrator upward to hit the g spot better and directly. This can actually cause female ejaculation, which I've recently discovered by doing what I just described. If u can't get it right away, don't be discouraged. I've heard only 10% of the female populatio Can do this but don't quote me on that. I do know it's not all that common though. Also if you push like ur having a baby (not so intensely tho) rather than contract ur vaginal muscles, female ejac. is more possible.
Also, you know when u have to pee and you push ur bladder, it makes u really need to go? Well ive experienced that ici push down on my bladder while using a dildo, it increases sensation-probably cause It puts pressure on the g spot. Actually I like to do this when I have to pee. Is that weird? Sorry lol!
Also this is kinda strange but if you squeeze your nipples kinda hard, it may help. It helps me but you know, everyone is different.
I really hope this helps!
Feel free to message me with questions or if any of this helped u :) | |
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Posted: 11/10/2009 7:48:56 PM | i dunno , im in the mood for coleslaw now  | |
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Posted: 11/10/2009 10:13:29 PM | | don't use a vibrator is the best suggestion I can give on this...especially not often... | |
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Posted: 11/10/2009 10:36:49 PM | | something you should look into that before my wife passed away we both enjoyed both with each other and by ourseves. I know this may sound silly but get yourself a hand held shower head and then experiment with it . Some of the feelings can be intense at times | |
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Posted: 11/11/2009 6:18:47 AM | find a man or a woman who loves eating pussssy and knows how to do it right.... they will make your dreams come true.
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Posted: 11/11/2009 6:43:44 AM | | Try getting the pocket rocket........rumors has it that it does wonders with the vibration part on the most sensitive areas of your private parts.... | |
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Posted: 11/11/2009 6:56:39 AM |
Why are you putting yourself out there like that
First you start a thread on how you are disgusted by getting emails about how great your breasts are and now you are on here talking about how much you masturbate
I don't get it!
Good observation, Anunu. | |
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Posted: 11/11/2009 11:00:24 AM | Looks like a troll to me!!
Gettin' enough emails now honey?
If you're having trouble at 23, God help you when you're my age.
*never had that problem
outdoorgirl | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 7:01:28 PM | My Ex used to use vibrators but had to stop , she was costing me too much in Dental
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