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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/4/2009 11:07:16 AM |
Try working out 5-6 times a week.It takes motivation and dedication, something some of I you seem to lack.
So, 5-6 times a week you go to a room full of mirrors and fluoro-lighting and look at yourself lift weights with a bunch of other people pumping themselves up.
For me, I do just fine out in the fresh air riding my bike and paddling my kayak, and the best thing is the scenery changes all the time.
I`m an adult and find nothing wrong with having more than one partner.
I'm just wondering if you have enough hours in the day, with all of these women on the go and being required to attend the gym 5-6 times a week.
I could be wrong, but I just get the impression your only requirement in a women is to be good in the cot and that's it. And she better be good right off the bat too brother, none of this emotional connection and relaxation crap! | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/6/2009 6:44:20 AM |
Thats quite interesting. How is it possible people who have no photo`s are so critical of everyone? Whats the point acting like this when all you do is take pot shots at everyone?
Grow up....
It's actually quite easy to take pot-shots... not really much effort at all....
I for example know that I'm so good looking I don't need a photo..... | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/6/2009 8:17:58 AM | LMAO^^^
Yeah, why does one need a photo to take pot-shots? Is this a new rule?
OP, you are backpedalling and everyone can see right through the fact that you are bringing up pot shots to avoid the questions that some have asked.....I mean, I don't actually care whether this is the same girl or not, but the way you answer seems rather defensive. The more you protest.... | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/11/2009 8:24:14 PM | OP,
I don't think you did anything wrong. You had sex with her and you weren't compatible and you let her know your thoughts. I totally disagree with the posters that say you should help her get over her inability to" let go"..... or whatever they were saying. At your age you can make a judgement if you think someone is not compatible.
You are not a scoundrel because you decided to end it rather than go on some ego trip of how you are going to "fix " this woman and the way she is. She wasn't being duped into having sex with you!!!!.....she needs to grow up....stop acting like a lunatic ....that is the chance you take when you venture into a new relationship.....
I don't think you owe her anything more than the honest explanation you already gave her. | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/12/2009 3:50:33 AM | | i've been with a guy who wasn't that satisfying...but i loved him dearly. so in that case, you let them do their thing with you...then when they fall asleep, go in another room and diddle yourself into orgasmic bliss by yourself. | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:10:46 AM | op every time i read one ofyour post it is about someone you r having sex with.
well i think you have a case of needing to be the center of attention and probably cant get no sex so you makeup something to get attention
people keep replying he will keep posting the next 1 lets see maybe she will be the wild animal hmmmmmmmmm | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/12/2009 8:08:50 AM | what I don't understand is how people are ending up in bed with people who are really bad lovers (and this topic has come up on other threads)
that's only happened to me when I had sex with someone I didn't know very well, or when I ignored the lack of chemistry...
I usually know before getting naked with someone that the sex is going to be good, based on our knowledge of each other, our attitudes, our chemistry... the only surprise is that the sex isn't good, it's fantastic
Guess I have a really good picker | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/12/2009 8:20:21 AM | | You did the rite thing man. Shes acting out because she probably really liked u dumped her for having issues with sex. Ignore her and find a woman that appreciates sex like u do. If the sexual chemistry isnt there--then theres no point in trying to pursue an intimate relationship | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:17:27 PM | SCD.... its amazing how you are getting ROASTED by some posters for stating that the woman was NOT GOOD in bed aka "sexually incompatible!! You didn't get memo.....? Only guys are bad in bed, lazy, unemotional and inconsiderate!!  I wouldn't sweat it because women can be just as bad at criticizing men sexually in their little "gyrl cliques" and some are very promiscious!!
All you did was HIT IT (a few times) and QUIT IT (left her alone due to SEXUAL incompatibility!!) Wise choice!!! | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:22:32 PM | Though I sympathize with your plight. By confiding in you she was asking for help. I think she may be correct in some of her accusations. I basically agree with her, but not necessarily the way she is handling the situation.
I'd just slap you. | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:35:24 PM | Dude, you should see it from her angle.
You had sex with her 3 times and dissapeared. That is WHAT SHE SEE's. She didn't realise she was bad at it so why not be honest?
You've made a tiny problem into a mountain and its going to leave her very upset if you don't talk to her about it or try and teach her, but that would be off the cards seeing as she now feels like an idiot.
Way to go on being in-sensitive. | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/12/2009 6:39:23 PM | You were honest with her. I have never heard it come from a man like that so you definitely put it the way it should have been told. I could see why she got offended and misunderstood what you said to her. But if she has issues "letting go" she shouldn't be dating until she gets her act together.
For sex to be fulfilling, you have to be on the same page as her. Not your fault if there is no chemistry on her part. | |
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| How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 11/12/2009 6:52:26 PM | Sexual compatibility is more important to some, less important to others. It's very important to me and obviously is to you, too. If it was this bad now, I doubt it would get any better.
Lots of people say, "Friends first," implying they want to get to know you before having sex. While I've always thought that was a good idea, I'm starting to think it's backwards. Maybe it should be "Sex first" so I don't waste time with a bad lover.
Wasabigal - there *are* some bad lovers out there, trust me. | |
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