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Posted: 11/5/2009 2:59:08 AM | | Sounds like some guys take being a bit of a prick too far. I have heard of guys being a bit difficult or a smart ar*e to be a bit funny and all that but this is ridiculous. I have been called an idiot, as an example, but it was after i did something or said something funny and not an attack. I think this guy needs to work on his social skills to work out what is appropriate to say and when. I hope it is an act and he really isn't like that, otherwise there are real problems. | |
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| What's the point?
Posted: 11/5/2009 3:31:30 AM | What part of good-bye dont ya understand?!....while I know nothing about your personality....I would geuss you put up with to much crap....look like a nice woman...ditch him and move on...to much differences.....leads to big ones! | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 3:36:06 AM | personally i think it's completely physical attraction (easy to see why) x
I could be wrong... They do say opposites attract!
& lets face it sometimes emotions are at their most high when someone actually holds different ethical and moral backgrounds, so it could actually be based on the same points that make you decline
well :D
hi everyone x
newbie... see you all around the place :D
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Posted: 11/5/2009 5:20:25 AM | | Can't believe how many messages that I get where it's obvious that the guy didn't even read my profile....I think alot of them just look at the pictures and that's it. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 5:32:52 AM | ^^^^ profile ? What profile...? 
It's all about attraction. Always has been, and always will be..... Everything else comes later. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 5:43:06 AM | Weird how someone can show their true colors....when I politely declined his offer for a date he got pretty angry.
I just said to him "You know...the things that are important to me and I love you seem to hate...it doesn't make you a bad person at all. It just means that we'd make a bad couple. That's what the whole 'getting to know' someone is about. When getting to know you I realized that we wouldn't be compatable."
He said I was mean and that I led him on...I'm really glad I didn't go on a date with him. He seems like an angry, negative person...
I found out some interesting things about him as well so I really dodged a bullet this time. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 5:59:44 AM |
The dog thing alone would be a deal breaker for any dog lover.
I agree twolf33.
if he doesn't even like hot dogs, he definitelly isn't an ideal companion.. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 6:40:02 AM | Op,you're a pretty girl,so,im with the other Posters who have said he's hoping to have sex with you.
Id say this is ALL he has on his mind...................*shakes head*
Sure you can do much better.....
Ps.I revel in my dorkiness.....................
I found out some interesting things about him as well so I really dodged a bullet this time. .....so,Tracy,what did you find out???????? | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 7:00:19 AM | I agree, Tracy's super-pretty.
I found out some interesting things about him as well so I really dodged a bullet this time. .....so,Tracy,what did you find out?
Yeah, I'm curious, too. It's public knowledge anyway, right? I mean you pretty much must've got the info from mutual friends. So it isn't like you'd be divulging a state secret or something. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 4:41:14 PM | Tracy congratulations on getting rid of a jerk!!
Guys like that can only be after one thing and you definitely don't want to be wasting your time on them. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 7:24:13 PM | Seriously, if I thought personality and attraction were about a big long list of matched activities, I'd be over on match.com instead of here where people are talking to each other.
There are some people you meet, where everything you have in common makes you feel comfortable and happy, and everything you have different makes them fascinating.
Other people, everything they have in common makes them boring to you and everything they disagree on makes them seem like they have the dumbest ideas, you just want to set them straight every time they open their mouth, and their company is annoying as hell.
There's no formula for this. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 7:37:33 PM | | i have never found a man who likes the same movies i like...men and women are different politcally usually...food...who cares i eat to live....the dog is not going to be able give you a few things you can get from a man...you are focusing on some minor issues... | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 5:34:18 AM | Ok, so I found out that this guy didn't have his first girlfriend of lose his virginity until he was 25 and that he doesn't like to have sex. I discoverd that his family no longer speaks to him and that he's trying to start his own business but won't tell anyone what that business is. Apparently a female friend thought he was such a disaster that she took him out for a makeover (think What Not to Wear...). Now this guy thinks he's kind of a big deal. He also has, like, an OCD thing...
Also, he told me that we went to college, but I found out that he just got his on-line degree last year. Not really a big deal, but still...
I think I was vague when I said to y'all that we had different political views...the other day i said to him "I have to stop on the way home from work to vote" and he said "I don't believe in voting - its just a huge waste of time. I 've never voted in my life and never intend to" Huge turnoff for someone like me... | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 5:42:15 AM | Oh, dear. He's kind of missing some essential pieces, isn't he? And unpleasant as well! I feel a little sorry for him, really, but... more relieved, for you, that you didn't get sucked into this vortex of apathy.
"Vortex of apathy," hey, that sounds like something that might be found in Warehouse 13.
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Posted: 11/6/2009 5:55:05 AM |
"Vortex of apathy,"
I believe you have just coined the POF phrase of the day lol
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Posted: 11/6/2009 6:19:16 AM | OP: Wow "HATES" - that's one strong word.
I guess he finds you easy on the eyes. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 7:56:03 AM | | I;m surprised you haven't blocked him yet... | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 7:58:37 AM | OP, I'm, with you. You didn't miss much with this guy. I once had a guy tell me while I made a comment about a book I was reading that he thought reading was the biggest waste of time ever. That's a red flag moment. You can dislike something, but turning it into a declaration like that speaks to your issues.
the dog is not going to be able give you a few things you can get from a man...
What in SAM HILL is this supposed to mean? | |
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