| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/4/2009 3:18:15 PM | i checked your profile and you would be a great catch....don't waste time with revenge,everything happens for a reason.the guy's an idiot.remember what goes around comes around.he'll get his. | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/4/2009 4:46:06 PM | | nothin wrong with a lil revenge i used to do it all the time to guys. an eye for an eye! if u had hacking abilities, u could **** up his computer so bad. thats what i would do if i had great hacking abilities. | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/4/2009 5:33:07 PM | That is what the problem was, he told you everything you wanted to hear and made it all too easy on him. Saw an opportunity and he took it because as soon as he saw that you didn't hold back upon him whispering sweet nuthins in your ear, it was a "free for all".
Natural that you want to get revenge. Won't solve anything since the hurt will still be there. Now as far as the revenge......
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/4/2009 5:38:56 PM |
want to confront him. Unless you crave drama, and angry confrontation in your life, what do you actually have to gain by confronting him?
Why not just move on and forget about him?
I'm ready to move on.... If you were actually "ready to move on", would you need to be angrilly stomping your feet and demanding revenge? | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/4/2009 9:01:55 PM | What's the best revenge ? To live well .......... always ! | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/4/2009 11:31:12 PM | | You'd be best off just cutting him out of your life completely, to the point of ignoring him. If you stop taking calls, texts, and emails without any explaination, it'd mess with his head, and you need to do that anyway so get your revenge that way and skip the drama :) | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 11:23:48 AM | | First of all if a guy I was interested in and started dating did that to me I would leave him alone There are other guys out there it is not worth getting yourself sad and mad over I believe there is a guy out there for me and if it was not meant to be it is not meant to be No revenge LIVE YOUR LIFE SHOW HIM YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT HIM THEN HE WILL DEFINATELLY PROBABLY WANT YOU BACK IF NOT HIS LOSS | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 11:35:24 AM | You seem to have it all figured out.
But WTF is up with your profile?  | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 11:48:47 AM | Is this man your husband? Your profile states your married.
Not sure why you are calling attention to yourself in a negative way - after reading your profile......... | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 2:41:47 PM | You do drugs. Keep that up and the sex will be just as good with the next guy becasue it is not chemistry at all ,it is drug induced. Then a few years down the road you wont even desire sex at all anymore.
I only felt revengeful one time in my life. No follow through though. I am glad becasue the consequences I would have reaped would have been worse than the actual act of reveng itself.
For every action there is a reaction. Postive = postive negative = negative
revenge = negative | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 3:03:32 PM | Geez if this is the way you are (vindictive) it's no wonder you are being treated like this in your relationships.....
What you give out is what you get in return. Seems like you got a lot of learning to do with the physics of life.
I am kind of feeling that he may have picked up on these qualitites from you and it turned him off - JMO, but good luck!
But WTF is up with your profile?
No kidding!! | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 3:17:55 PM | | somebody obviously messed with her profile......maybe it's the ex boyfriend being immature....... | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 4:41:43 PM | | I don't think that it's because you are not enough woman for him.....he's probably not ready to be in a relationship .....this is to be expected when you meet men on the internet......the bottom line is they have too many options to choose from and don't really need to settle down with anyone no matter how great the connection is........better you found out now than later.............next........(...looked at your profile again and you state you are married and you are looking for a woman......I am confused) | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 8:36:20 PM |
somebody obviously messed with her profile......maybe it's the ex boyfriend being immature.......
Yep - the OP's profile is completely different from the way it was when she started this thread.
Looks like she gave him her password as well...
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 8:42:37 PM | Well, any guy that did this to her profile definitely lacks a pair.
She shouldn't be crying over the loss of this mama's boy ... OP, you need to find a real man. | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/5/2009 8:54:06 PM | " with a little help from a friend sending him a message on here, I've learned he is DEFINITELY looking"
Means you created a fake account with some hottie on it and hit him up. I wonder how many people do this daily on here. My ex is doing it to me right now. Anyway yeah the dudes looking for some new puntang. Put your profile back up and play his game or break up with his butt and deal with it. | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/6/2009 9:37:36 AM | kingsfan is right, can't win here.
In my book if I'm sleeping with a guy and talking with him daily for months, then find out he's been with someone else...that is clearly cheating and no two ways about it. He should have had the balls to TELL her if he was done or had changed his mind. Doesn't months of a growing relationship and sex regularly indicate some level of a commitment, or do ya'll think it means nothing at all? I find this sad.
Revenge is so tempting when one is hurting, but don't go there. You're a gorgeous and smart girl, so act with dignity. Ignore the creep and move on, his loss. Let him sweat...he earned it. | |
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| Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/6/2009 9:47:09 AM |
.....don't waste time with revenge,everything happens for a reason.the guy's an idiot.remember what goes around comes around.he'll get his.
YEP! That is worth a repeat. | |
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