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| Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Posted: 11/5/2009 7:42:12 PM | I vote that you should stay with him, but insist he remove his profile and pics off ANY dating website.
I love it when you women keep these idiots around and off the market! That is, just one less idiot or a** that I could possibly run into or have contact me on a dating site because he is throwing his tantrums with YOU! Fool Fool Fool! | |
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| Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Posted: 11/5/2009 7:47:17 PM | | sh*t girl, strap on some roller blades and point yourself down the nearest mountain or hill...you couldn't run away fast enough...jmo | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 8:06:42 PM | Why do men do that? Why do they fall for someone just as they are, and then start trying to change them?
"Change your hairstyle," whereas before it was gorgeous, "Lose weight", whereas before you were "just right". "Change the color of your hair and the way you dress." Whereas, before you dressed like a queen and your hair color reflected the sun....
Men.........where are the genuine ones?
actually it's funny you should post this because i always hear men say the same thing about women. they say that women always try to change them. also i've never experienced a man wanting me to change my appearance or personality for him. and if i did, i think i would dump him because i wouldn't change for anyone but myself. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 8:07:08 PM |
I love sex and making love. He is unable even with the aid of the blue pill to make it happen in a "normal" way.
Oh sweetie, I'm sorry! I had hoped you were going to tell us he was amazing in bed...
Before everybody gets all bended out of shape, let me add that sexual performance difficulties do NOT have to torpedo a relationship if there is emotional health and love in the relationship. But this thing sounds like the proverbial "epic fail".
When we get past 50, even though being solo ain't optimal, being in a bad relationship that's gonna cause our 'golden years" to turn to rust, is WORSE!
Cindy O | |
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| Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Posted: 11/5/2009 8:08:17 PM | Oh girl.. you and I have butted heads in the past but please know when I speak from my heart that you need to get rid of this guy like 3 day old fish. You are such a strong willed woman and for you to "settle" for someone like this makes me really want to tear into you.. again. lol Listen to the advice you have given others and what is screaming to you from with in. You already know.. he needs to be out of your life. Your a smart gal.. I know that from our head butting..Listen to your inner self.
Good luck,
Arp | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 8:08:48 PM | CO dependency is not something to joke about, nor to judge. There is plenty of evidence regarding the effects of alcohol/other abuse on children, and the lasting effects it has on its victims as adults. There is no reason to participate in a thread if your only input is a put down. Nice to see you are perfect, but, still, you are here, so, if you have nothing productive to say, why bother to speak? | |
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| Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Posted: 11/5/2009 8:57:29 PM |
People like you make me wonder........
I suppose I'd have to see it with my own eye to believe anyone could be this clueless.
You are "dim"..........and alot of other things.
How did you ever get through twenty years of marriage?
I don't believe it.
Lol....Well, I suppose people like YOU have a handle on intelligence, relationships, long term relationships and really just have the upper hand in all things.
People like YOU, make me realize why people like ME wind up with ***holes and abusers....they seem like wise gentle giants in comparison.
But then, from your lofty heights above all others, I'm sure a dating website such as the one YOU are ON....is just a mere pastime while you are in between successful relationships...yeah, right, whatever dude...
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Posted: 11/5/2009 9:10:46 PM |
The FWB I had told me her ex was so impotent that I was the only good sex she'd ever had. Plus I introduced her to anal sex and deepthroat.
Ha, ha, ha.....ha...I'm about to fall out of my chair laughing at the ludicrous flapjaw on this wise guy whose mother must have told him a man's job is to be a walking****stick.
"I introduced her to anal sex and deepthroat." Yeah, I'll bet you did. Anal sex hurts like Hell, com'on ladies, admit it. It hurts like hell and the bleeding hemorrhoids afterwards and the deep throat is for the male, not the female. Yeah, like every lady enjoys having something crammed down her esophagus .....
What is it that certain men think their only value is as a Trojan horse-dicked bush poker? I guess its that they haven't enough brains so to make up for it they pride themselves in becoming human dildos.
There is something to be said for love and caring and devotion and protectiveness and chivalry. I would much rather have an impotent man who is all the above than a two legged dildo.
After all the climax is over in a day or two, but then you have to roll over and look at the "object" of your sexual performance. Its not a person with a family and a heart and soul. Its a piece of meat with a huge ass and a potential suck on your wallet for the next 18 yrs or more.
If it ain't love and adoration and devotion and commitment, mixed with intelligence, kindness, gentleness and affection, then you can keep your six pack and your sweaty azz. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 9:39:58 PM | That's not an alarm bell going off, that's the town siren!
Holy sh1t...getting cranky over $5.00 !!! If that's not a sign, I don't know what is!
At that rate, I guess it ain't gonna be a Manolo Blahnik. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 10:35:35 PM | I don't think you should date until you get a couple of years of professional mental health help, not only to break your cycle of abusive relationships and your part in them, but to protect your children & grandchildren from the type of men you bring home! Seriously, you seem to think this is funny, but if you must continue trying to attract these losers, please keep them away from your innocent bystander family member.  | |
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| Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Posted: 11/5/2009 10:40:28 PM |
I don't think you should NOT date until you get a couple of years of professional mental health help, not only to break your cycle of abusive relationships and your part in them, but to protect your children & grandchildren from the type of men you bring home! Seriously, you seem to think this is funny, but if you must continue trying to attract these losers, please keep them away from your innocent bystander family member.
I'll drink to that daynadaze lol  | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 10:48:18 PM | OP your attitude sucks. You've posted about this man several times so don't pretend you didn't know what you were getting yourself into. You expect him to accept you "as is", but you haven't ever shown me that you are willing to do the same for him. Looks to me like both of you are vying for position of top dog in this relationship.
As for your snide comments to people that don't tell you what you want to hear one can easily imagine how you treat this man. At 60 it's time to grow up and get help. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 2:03:48 AM |
rude to people, outspoken, loud and insulting to people in public. (from New York).
YUCK! Are you nuts???
...had to pay $5 using his own cash so he threw it down on the counter, obviously annoyed
OMG lady!!!!! This guy is my worst nightmare!
What is wrong with you to like him???
I just looked at your photos in your profile and I can see that you have
zero standards for yourself. You have no boundaries for what you will do
or put up with. Get some class and find some classier men. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 2:09:09 AM | | I wouldn't need it that bad, if I were you. I hate cheap and mercurial sh1theads. What an @sshole! He seems to relish his boy behavior and how offensive he can be to get any reaction. He's dead inside and needs to do that to remind him that he's still alive and in limbo. I'd question how his spouse died, quite frankly. What a miserable pr1ck! Move along and say aloud, "Next!" Good luck! Love, Titus | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 2:27:12 AM | | Relationships are there to complement your life, not ruin it. This guy sounds like he has real problems so he is sure to ruin your life. Meddles in your dealings with family, gets upset about things that don't matter, jumps to conclusions too readily, no respect for other people or there feelings. A woman can do much better. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 3:29:01 AM | Zephyr hunny - you're so good, you're a generous and loving soul. These soul suckers can sniff out good hearted women - they have a radar or something. I'm glad you're going to strike out on your own. Enjoy your new place, have friend fun, enjoy your children and grandkids. Anyone that tries to separate you from your family is a potential abuser (my ex was doing everything to separate me and my family, but I was in too deep, and didn't see it until later!)
God bless you dear lady on your new adventures...there's a good guy waiting for you. | |
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| Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:06:41 PM |
I don't think you should date until you get a couple of years of professional mental health help, not only to break your cycle of abusive relationships and your part in them, but to protect your children & grandchildren from the type of men you bring home! Seriously, you seem to think this is funny, but if you must continue trying to attract these losers, please keep them away from your innocent bystander family member.
Thanks for your concern for my innocent family members, but since you know absolutely nothing about my family or the innocence of such, I will have to ask you to sit down.
I protect those who are innocent and in my care. I am like a wounded lioness should anyone even hint at harming even one hair of their heads. This I can promise you.
But, seems the thing to do is jump to conclusions based on self experience here.
The men I choose to be with are first intelligent, not run of the mill, challenging and interesting. I guess I'm just not willing to "settle" for boring, predictable, not very bright and with one thing on their minds and that is trying to compensate for low mentality by trying to impress women with their sexual workouts.
No thanks, I prefer lovemaking to sex for exercise. | |
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Posted: 11/8/2009 1:14:23 PM | I know you weren't responding to me but....from this post and others I recall of your experienes with men, these aren't all entirely the brightest of men you've associated with, unless their brightness is with respect to how to undermine and use women. I'm just saying....
You tend to defend the indefensible...why? | |
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| Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:24:56 PM | Oh yes, those are major red flags. The quicker you get out, the easier and quicker it will be to get over it and move on.
Edit: I just read a couple more pages of this thread... this guy has so many deal breakers, I would have to almost write a book to cover them all. | |
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| Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:41:20 PM | You already know the answer
Why come here to ask?
The negatives out weigh the positives
Ask yourself if you can deal with a negative tempermental person in your life. If you can, then he is the one for you. | |
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| Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Posted: 11/8/2009 2:23:58 PM | I just looked at your photos in your profile and I can see that you have
zero standards for yourself. You have no boundaries for what you will do
or put up with. Get some class and find some classier men.
i kind of had the same feelings when i saw her main photo. i mean what on earth are you thinking posting a pic like that with half your boob exposed?? if you were my grandmother or mother i'd be so embarrassed. you must be quite desperate because someone who is 60 really should have more sense and class, geez. guess what? you don't have to post revealing photos to meet a man. frankly i'm not surprised you are meeting a bunch of low class losers. if you don't post better photos, that is all you will meet. | |
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