| Monogamy??
Posted: 11/7/2004 8:48:36 AM | None could have said it better than you did, Familyman.
Because it is so rare, that special Forever bond is what
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 11/7/2004 10:28:43 AM | nightshadeinferno, I anin't no teacher, but I do study EARTH HISTORY. YES, especially if you like heart breaking matrimonial problems and relationship challenges ! ONE MAN AND ONE WOMAN THE SACK AT A TIME WITH PRIVACY OF EVERY VAREITY. No freak fetishes, feces eating sodomy anal sex, red wings, orgies or other uncleaness, in my opinion. Solomon and David did for example. Wilt 'THE STILT' Chamberlain's life may shed some current LIGHT and IN SIGHT intothis DARK PLACE. barry@reviewmarks.com may know how to provide you with contact information. I believe, A man must be able to support, shelter, feed, clothe, and have spending cash for each wife and their children as they desire. Course Solomon demonstrates how such relationships HAVE TOO MANY OVERWHELMING HEART BREAKING problems and he concluded, BE SATISFIED WITH THE BREASTS OF THE WIFE OF YOUR YOUTH. Davis demonstrates how this multiple WILLING RIGHTEOUS wife issue led him to MURDER Israeli warrior Uriah and of course one of his children murdered another sibling, one raped another sibling, and one tried to kill David himself... BIG DANGER ZONE. These relationships are frequently NOT AUTHORIZED by CLERGY or STATE because MARRIAGE IS CREATOR ENDOWED and not licensed. Of course, HELL ITSELF hath no FURY as a Lady scorned. Personally, ONE WIFE is my LIMIT and the CLERGY and STATE do NOT LICENSE her to me. She gives herself to me of free will in TRUE LOVE...
barry@reviewmarks.com
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Chamberlain (CHAYM buhr lihn), Wilt (1936-1999), was one of the greatest scorers in National Basketball Association (NBA) history. During his 14-year NBA career, he scored 31,419 points. Only Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, Karl Malone, and Michael Jordan have scored more. Chamberlain, a center, set an NBA record for career rebounds with 23,924. He stood | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/17/2005 9:04:00 PM | Perhaps it is all illusion       | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/17/2005 9:08:26 PM | heck no...i've always been a long-term, strings attached, serial monogomist...
does it take some effort and imagination to keep things alive for years??
well, of course...but the emotional intimacy to be gained is priceless... | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/17/2005 9:11:50 PM | I'm a big believer in monogamy ... well, serial monogamy.  | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/17/2005 9:20:03 PM | It's been done. It's being done. People see their relationships as either open or monogamous. That's just the way it is. Open relationships don't denote "confusion" or lack thereof anymore than monogamous ones do.
I swear, anyone that deviates from any self-imposed "norm" and many of you want to lynch them as "confused".
I'm not even into the idea of an open relationship before I get flamed and/or labeled a sex-crazed, cheating whore. | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/17/2005 9:23:57 PM | | Well, I wouldn't be able to do that. But that's me.. Everyone is different. I really do think it's better to have a relationship with one person, though. | |
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myxtup
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Joined: 3/29/2003
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/17/2005 9:28:19 PM | | depends on your morality... i would say its wrong! why marry the person if you dont want to commit yourself to them....? | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/17/2005 9:35:20 PM | Monogamy? Yes, always.
(However, let's remember that monogamy - even if it comes from both sides - is no guarantee of long-term relationship or never-ending marriage).
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Posted: 6/17/2005 9:36:58 PM | Ya know.. there's really NOTHING wrong with monogamy. At all. Many expect it from their partners and THAT IS NOT A BAD THING.
However, there are some that don't expect it. Guess what? THAT IS NOT A BAD THING EITHER.
If you don't like open relationships, don't have 'em. Easy as pie!
I realize that sometimes you'll unwittingly hook yourself up with someone who doesn't take monogamy all that serious and he/she should be dumped. Cheating is bad, mean, heartless and insulting. Don't tolerate it.
Don't confuse agreed to open relationships with cheating. | |
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myxtup
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/17/2005 10:44:57 PM | I am greedy.. won't share..
noper.. wont share me either.. | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/18/2005 2:06:15 AM |
marriage is supposed to be a commitment to one person. If you don't want the commitment, don't get married.
Sounds so simple...why are so many having so much trouble with this simple and "normal" part of human sexuality? | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/18/2005 9:14:08 AM | | Wouldn't being in love with someone make you only want to be with that one person? | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/18/2005 11:56:46 AM | | Polygamy is an ancient practice and is still going strong (just not here in the West). Obviously having multiple partners can work. | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/18/2005 12:37:51 PM |
Just a quick question...In your honest opinion..Can 2 people have a good relationship and still sleep with other people? Im talking like marriage with a little bit on the side. You love someone and want to spend your life with them,but still would like to be able to have sex with someone else if both parties were ok with it. Is this ok?
I think this, as most things do, depends on the people involved. I personally would like to just have one lover long-term and explore every possible level of intimacy with them. I can see scenarios where my wife and I would have the occasional 3 or 4some, but to go to someone else's bed without your other, to me implies that they aren't giving you something you need, but that's just me. Everyone is different. | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/18/2005 2:02:16 PM | My father has a house out west.. The front door is solid hand-carved monogamy. 
OT: I believe in monogamy, it should be administered in every relationship.. It only brings more drama if it isn't. | |
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| Monogamy??
Posted: 6/18/2005 5:12:32 PM | This depends on the 2 people envolved. I guess it could if both were ok with it.
IMO monogamy is the only way a relationship can survive.
A relationship like this might seem like a good idea, but will probably eventually cause problems. | |
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