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 ladylowrider41962

Joined: 7/30/2006
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Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/4/2007 10:15:58 PM
YES I HAVE TO SAY IT IS VERY POSSIBLE THEY DO MAKE TOYS FOR PLEASUREING OUR SELVES BUT IT REALLY ISNT AS GOOD AS THE REAL THING
 b.rock

Joined: 11/29/2005
Msg: 302
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Posted: 3/8/2007 9:25:55 AM
i went without it for over a year, but when i finally had sex again it was amazing.
 Rudy_Alvarez91586

Joined: 12/24/2006
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Posted: 3/8/2007 9:39:15 AM
umm yea scared of commitment with one man confuded wiether it is going to work out she is living with another guy so that means she enjoys his company over yours find another girl it time to call her and give her the fed up speach and the relationships seems to be going no where speach. Then find another girl
 unchainedmiracle

Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 304
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Posted: 3/8/2007 10:54:46 AM
Yes I think some women dont need sex as much as men, sometimes can even go years without it. It may be a decrease in her sexual drive, also and not something personal. Good luck.

In my case if I was with a special someone, the sex is a very intimate part of the relationship, which I feel is important and necessary.
 CajunSweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 3/12/2007 10:01:23 PM
If a girl is with the wrong guy then hell yeah she could stay forever without sex... But give her the right guy and I promise she won't say no for long
 lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006
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Posted: 3/13/2007 3:26:46 AM
I WOULD RATHER GO WITHOUT THEN BE CALLED DIRTY or better yet FEEL DIRTY. Also the regrets....or chance of catching something!


I really don't concider myself UGLY or Fat and I can go without sex!

If I am unhappy....in my relationship (or single). I can please myself. Not that I don't think about having it but I prefer to have the connection (mentally), to really enjoy and get the most out of the experience.

Not saying I have never had sex just because.....or a friend with benifits. But can definatley hold out too.

So I say YES a woman can go without sex!

I think it depends on what stage you are in in your life and what your expectations and wants and needs are.

 Melanief8123

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 307
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Posted: 3/13/2007 3:33:53 AM
Without reading all the posts, I most certainly can go without sex for long periods of time when single. In a relationship.. well, that would be a little harder, unless there was a good reason, I wouldnt see a reason why one would need to.
Why, you couldnt go a long period of time without sex ?!?
 dillysick

Joined: 10/16/2006
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Posted: 3/13/2007 3:35:21 AM
I have to also say:
Yes a woman can go for an indefinite period without it.


So can a guy...


We are not all animals guys, mind over matter a little!
YOU are in control of your body, not the other way round, that is when you get in trouble!

Are there no GUYS out there who can go without either? Are we all slaves to our own flesh?

I have had feasts and I have had famine, they are both good for their own reasons.
 sgtspock

Joined: 7/27/2007
Msg: 309
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Posted: 7/31/2007 9:59:21 PM
yeh well i've got most of you beat ha ha. lol. I've gone over 18 years without sex. BEAT THAT IN UR FACE! jk. lol. Actually i'm waiting till i'm married so it may not truly count 18 years but still. i thought it was funny. sorry. lol
 Joquer

Joined: 9/26/2005
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Posted: 8/1/2007 8:05:11 AM
sure, we can go with out sex... anyone can go without it...

but when i havent had any for a LONG time... i start getting overly hyper and frustrated... easily distracted and just mean... *lol*

my friends will be like, damn girl, you need to get LAID...

same goes for if i am stuck having BAD sex for long periods of time... *sigh*
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 8/1/2007 8:17:27 AM
It's been so long I can't remember. During my last relationship we did fool around a lot but never had sex. Why? Too many reasons to list but mostly he didn't initiate things and if I did, he was only interested in his own pleasure and never, ever mine. I got tired of the selfishness.

I do know for my next relationship he will pay as much attention to me as I pay to him, if not more (he's already told me he would).

But, I do take care of myself nicely when I don't have a man in my life. BOB is a great friend!
 justsomefun01

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 312
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Posted: 8/1/2007 1:48:38 PM
If they use the "no sex until you do the dishes" move then dump her.

If a girl said something like this to me, then I'm thinking that she views sex as something she gives to a man without pleasure to herself. she doesn't quite understand what relationships are all about and is content to play games.

However!, if say i don't do the dishes and it gets on her nerves that i'm lazy or something and then she simply 'isn't in the mood' then thats alright.
 IloveLasVegas

Joined: 7/27/2007
Msg: 313
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Posted: 8/1/2007 5:24:19 PM
Oh yes my friends women can go whithout sex, I am right now, don't get me wrong I loooovve having sex but I am not the kind to just go out and get some wherever I can, that's just gross, for me it has to mean something, but I do have toys though LOl
 WarmthNpassion

Joined: 7/18/2007
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Posted: 8/1/2007 5:26:32 PM
Unfortunately, yes, women can go without sex. I read in a magazine once that 40% of women would rather shop for shoes then have sex. Men on the other hand would go without shoes and walk across a bed of fire to get some.

Most likely she is having second thoughts about you. After all she is still living with a guy and he is tapping her too you can be sure. Perhaps you may want to consider doing some of the things that she found seductive about you in the beginning. After a couple has been together for a while, some men stop the seduction because they do not see a need for it because they are already getting sex.

There is something wrong in that the frequency of seeing her is dropping off. Wish you luck in figuring out what that is so you can address it.
 goodlistener711

Joined: 1/24/2007
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Posted: 8/1/2007 8:09:24 PM
Sure they can! it's called "Marriage"
 cherished4life

Joined: 7/28/2007
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Posted: 8/2/2007 5:48:15 AM
I agree! There has to be emotions behind sex or I cannot fully give myself to a man if he isn't returning those feelings. I enjoy sex, but will wait for the man willing to give what he wants in return.
 Paprikash!

Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 317
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Posted: 8/2/2007 6:13:04 AM
Wow - I was going to cut you some slack because I thought you were probably young and thought people couldn't go very long without sex. Don't you have any self control? Of course you can go without sex.
 wan2talk2you

Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 318
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Posted: 8/2/2007 6:19:21 AM
Marriage changes sex for some men too. I am married. I still love sex. I still give oral. My husband is too tired. Or he is too busy. Marriage didn't change sex for me. I still want it . In fact I want it more than before we were married.
 beachchick

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 319
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Posted: 8/2/2007 8:20:32 AM
If she's still living with that guy, she's getting it at home, dude. And if she's still living there, have you asked her WHY she's still living there? Why IS she still living there?

Whether at home or not, she's getting it elsewhere.
 Prissymae

Joined: 8/19/2007
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Posted: 9/7/2007 6:23:04 AM
Hey - they don't make the silver bullet for nothing baby!
 Jayderaven

Joined: 7/16/2007
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Posted: 9/7/2007 7:02:12 AM
Not I. I need it, want it, enjoy it. No apologies, I am a very sexual person and need a mate who is up to the task.

Relationship sans sex equals a platonic friendship, IMO.
I have lots of friends I love dearly but don't sleep with - we are FRIENDS. Not spouses, SOs, lovers, whatever - just friends. Different kind of love entirely.

When I love someone romantically, I look at them and my temperature rises - very simply put, I *want* them. Big difference from friends I love...
 Heavenly Angel

Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 322
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Posted: 9/7/2007 7:47:25 AM
Yes we can !! Sex is something you do out of love, and if there's now one special to love i don't have sex. It's as simple as that.

I think in your situation she' not clear and fair to you and the other guy !! It's not fair dating 2 guys at once !! She is playing one of you or bothof you !!

Go and find someone who's yours and only yours.

good luck
 Gurleygirl33

Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 323
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Posted: 9/7/2007 10:43:11 AM
I love sex just like every ones else, but the longer you are with out it, you don’t think about it to much. If she is still living with this guy than of course she does not want sex from you that much, she is getting it from the person she lives with. You stated you guys made plans for marriage, if she is sill living with this guy you are NUTS!

I hope I am wrong about this situation, beacuse I can't believe a person would put up with this.

 andygodwin

Joined: 11/17/2006
Msg: 324
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Posted: 9/17/2007 7:37:41 PM

I don't see how someone can say they Love you and can't stand to be away from You and still go without sex!


well...op...lets see...been divorced for 4 yrs...last time I was intament...4.5 yrs ago....now....think about it....
 AQUALOVE

Joined: 6/13/2007
Msg: 325
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Posted: 9/18/2007 12:30:48 AM
Uhhhhhh? Excuse me "'Hello
It is obvious that there is soooo Many Women and Men here who choose to remain celebate and Lonesome for what seems to be a commonality between both genders .
Drum Roll "Wheres that dam band when you need them ?
Here goes ""We the postees who do not choose to have SEx for Long periods of
time ........it seems to be for similar reasons yet """""""""different circumstances !
We want to be In Love ""We want to invest in Heart Love !
Heart to Heart there is nothing like the feelings and Joy of two people being
IN LOVE !
Matters of and from the HEART ! ******** KUDOS to the people who have the
same commonalities and Heart as this postee !
GOD BLESS all of you with a TRUE LOVE STORY with Happy ENDING
That is the Key to a Lasting relationship ""Two people wanting and waiting
for the same KINDA LOVE !
THEN having Great SEX is not even in Question
Both parties are willing to go to great lengths to please each other !
so to speak Forte becomes a thing of the past "We are in Love TOP 2 Bottom Its all GOOD ! Personally
I really Enjoy Sex with a man I am in love with and He Loves and is in Love with me !
Providing He is not on drugs ,drunk more than not ^uses stimulants or becomes Obsessive with SEX !
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