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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/24/2008 9:43:23 PM | Sure. A woman can go long periods of time without having sexual contact with her husband or boyfriend, but that doesn't always mean she's going without sex.  | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 1:26:54 PM |
She said she could go a year without it! Come on girls ,Is this really true???
Yes. My ex-LTR went without it for 4 1/2 years before we met, and then WE only had sex 4 times in the two years we were together. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 8:00:15 PM | Of course its possible. I cannot speak for all women, but everybody is different and we are not all ruled by our sexual desires.
I went without it for almost nine months this time, after breaking up with my bf and then engaging in a short term casual relationship with a friend last year. That doesn't mean I had no desire nor that I didn't care, just that I didn't cross paths with anyone I deemed worth to be intimate with, and even though I missed it, for me it wasn't worth it.
Now if during that period, I had a person I truly liked, I wouldn't have been able to keep my hands off him, so I really don't know what motivates your girl to act this way.
Some women might make a conscious decision to not make themselves vulnerable with a man who doesn't give a hoot about them, and some women might just not be in harmony with their sexual being. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 8:33:21 PM | i have gone without sex for a year,,,, the first time it was easy,,,, the second time wasn't so easy, but i did it, and i'm very proud of myself for waiting.....I'm no nun and sure as hell don't pretend to be one.... But yes it can be done, and more often than you think. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 9:02:18 PM | | I can and do go without sex for the sake of having sex. To me sex is an act of love between two people who care about each other. If I find someone who I love then and only then will I stop going without sex. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 9:18:37 PM | | Yes, you can go w/o if you have to.......my husband of 27 yrs became ill and long story short, i went close to 4-1/2 year without actual sex! I did, however, once I got to the point of living again, engage with a vibrator, rabbit, etc...... | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 9:23:09 PM | | Sexless women...sure, but not by choice. Those hapless enough surely have a negative disposition in some regard or another. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 9:31:45 PM | Can women go without sex?
Let's see.....how long has it been......hmmmmmm.....
4...5...6...7...8...etc...24...25...26...27...28...etc...42...43...44...45...46...etc...Why yes!! Yes I can!!! Oh geez!!! I lost count!! 1...2...3...4...5...6...7...
I'm thinking that dancing banana is looking very appealing right now------> | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 10:06:10 PM | YES! we can! I went without it from 1990, until I got married in 1998. I was a single mom, in college, working, and attending a church that advocated celibacy until marriage. The first year was the toughest because I had been VERY sexually active before that. But eventually it got easier. Also, I had no relationships, nor did I date during those years. I was simply too busy and focused on kids, school, and work.
I find that outside a relationship it is very easy for me to do without it. But once IN a relationship... its a need, and a regular one at that! I hold out for quality relationships, so I tend to want the person I'm with alot... and often.
Hope this helps. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 10:15:13 PM | Hey,
Yes we can go without sex.Personally I have gone 1 yr without it as I am single !! When I am with a man than no I will not be without it for a yr:) It sounds like she is with another man. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 11:02:19 PM | maybe flatNative the woman you were seeing is maybe married to him . I myself have no sex in my relatetionships you need to be attracked to your partner ,then some one comes around and then you enjoy it.
but i agree with the one who asked what about you men how long can you go with out sex?. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/9/2008 9:53:45 AM | As a Christian, this issomething that I have had to research and pray about. I trned to the Word of God for His thoughts. This is what I found. I know not everyone is a Believer, so, this will not apply to you, but to those who know Christ, perhaps you will find this encouaging. I do not want to offend anyone, so, f you are not a Believer, just skip this.
(1) PRE-MARITAL SEX (FORNICATION)
What does the Bible say about pre-marital sex? This is an area that many of us struggle with quite a bit in our Christian walk. Well, God is quite clear on how He wants us to live.
First of all, there are different terms in the Bible that describe pre-marital sex. One way is the term "fornication." If you looked in a dictionary for the definition of the word fornication, you would read, "Sexual intercourse between a man and a woman who are not married to each other." And another way that pre-marital sex is described in the Bible is with the words "adultery" or "lewdness." And the people who participate in pre-marital sex are referred to as "whoremongers" and "whores."
The world may have nice, fun terms for pre-marital sex, terms such as "doin' it," "foolin' around," "having an affair," "a fling," "one-night stand." But it is quite obvious that God sees such activity in quite a different light!
Let's look at several verses that show us how God feels about us participating in pre-marital sex.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 warns us, "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of God."
And 1 Corinthians 6:13b, 18 tells us, "Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without (outside) the body; but he that commiteth fornication sinneth against his own body."
The Bible is telling us that pre-marital sex is a sin and that it is something that unrighteous people engage in. As Christians we are to use our body in ways that glorify God.
We are warned to learn from the examples of the Israelites, who God judged because of their sinful ways. 1 Corinthians 10:6-8 reads, "Now these things were our examples, to the intent we should not lust after evil things, as they also lusted. Neither be ye idolaters, as were some of them; as it is written, The people sat down to eat and drink, and rose up to play. Neither let us commit fornication, as some of them committed, and fell in one day three and twenty thousand."
And Galatians 5:19-21 reads, "Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these, adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness ... of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God."
Again, we see that pre-marital sex is not something that God wants us involved with. God wants us to stay away from such behavior:
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel (body) in sanctification and honor, not in lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which do not know God."
Revelation 21:7-8, "He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be My son. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death."
All of these verses clearly show us that God is 100 percent against pre-marital sex and that He commands us to not take part in pre-marital sex. God's Word has not changed. God is today and has always been against His children participating in pre-marital sex! God wants us to have sexual relations with our husband or wife only. 1 Corinthians 7:2 reads "To avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband."
God's commands are not always easy to follow. Being an obedient child of God in this area requires you to see this sin the way God sees it. You cannot think of sex as just something exciting and fun to do. You must learn to treasure and respect your body as something that is beautiful and special, a work of art that is only to be shared with one person under God's conditions.
You must go to God in prayer and ask for the strength you need to not give in to the temptations of the flesh. You will need to make it a point to not put yourself in situations where you are likely to stumble. And with the help of the Holy Spirit, you will be able to resist the temptation to take part in pre-marital sex.
2 Peter 2:9 tells us, "The Lord knoweth how to deliver the godly out of temptation, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be punished."
So if you truly are a born-again follower of Christ, do as we read in Colossians 3:1-3,5: "If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God. Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth. For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God. Mortify (restrain) your members which are upon the earth: fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry."
God wants us to live for Him in the way that He told us we should. He wants us to turn our backs on the ways of this world. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/9/2008 10:31:27 AM | | I know I can, it's not something to be used or abused, it can become demoralizing. It's a gift to share with someone who makes me feel safe, secure, and loved unconditionally. Just because you are attracted to someone doesn't mean you should pursue them for sex. It's wrong, damaging, and can create lies and distrust. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/9/2008 11:10:35 AM | | Women would stay and use the vibrator or other "toys" and wait until "that one" would show up for them. Especially in N. America where the norm is watching porn and playing with yourself....in a "professional" manner....and "waiting" for the benefits to pour in putting pressure on the "system"..."just like that"....so wait for the grave...there will be perfect all the dreams would come true there. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/9/2008 11:12:36 AM | hell no i know i cant go with out lol
mabey she just feels its just not necessary...< yall crazy lol jk...she just probly not feelin who every shes with | |
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