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 Sgt What

Joined: 9/20/2008
Msg: 451
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 12/15/2008 4:53:55 PM

In a survey of 31,581 women across the U.S. ages 18 to 102, 44 percent reported having sexual problems, the most common being low desire for sex. The findings mirrored those of many other surveys — but what sets this one apart is that of those women reporting sexual problems, only 12 percent say they are are actually bothered by it.

That's based on a new study, published Friday in the journal Obstetrics and Gynecology.

The question then raised is, if such a large percentage aren't interested and don't care, is this then normal? After all, the stories one hears that lack of sexual interest is common must have some basis.


Here's a thought If you believe the CONSPIRACY THEORISTS, then you may look into what drugs all women are receiving at some point in their life from doctors. Because there was also a discussion on the up and coming overpopulation problem and ways to curb it. It was suggested that the DESIRE in humans be curbed via drug induced hormones.

I don't believe in that, but it was interesting that it was brought up by the Cabinet for Health Family Services and.
 paul12345

Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 452
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 12/15/2008 4:57:36 PM
well said girl does sound very bitter or not getting it
 catkin2007

Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 453
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Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 12/15/2008 5:23:19 PM
Wow, I guess anyone could, men or women. I hope that doesn't become my life, but hey, I'm not settling, so...
 Tra C

Joined: 11/11/2008
Msg: 454
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Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 12/15/2008 5:55:16 PM
i cant speak for everybody but i can and have gone a very long time without sex...its not like we need it to survive...but damnit...who really WANTS to go without? haha
 SANDBUG

Joined: 1/9/2007
Msg: 455
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Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 12/15/2008 6:03:06 PM
Not this girl... need i say more?



Sandbug
happy to all!
 Raye21

Joined: 11/20/2008
Msg: 456
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Posted: 12/15/2008 8:24:18 PM
Some women can go without sex. For me I have making love is very important to a relationship and my physcal well being. being touch by a man can give you a sense of security and comfort. Most of the time if the sex is off so is the relationship.
 chickenlicking

Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 457
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 12/16/2008 6:28:47 AM
Last new years I decided to give up casuel sex and Since then I have not being dating. So I have not had sex with any one since then and oh my god it has been hard. Cant wait till after christmas. I do think women can give up sex but you could not do the full year without masterbating. No way on earth........ And for those of you who say ya can. lair lair pants on fire.
 somewhatcute

Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 458
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Posted: 12/16/2008 7:34:22 AM
Simply no. they cant!!! Did you ever meet an agressive, ****y, sarcastic woman??
I the answer is yes, you fond one who is overdue.
 Tra C

Joined: 11/11/2008
Msg: 459
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Posted: 12/16/2008 9:21:19 AM

I do think women can give up sex but you could not do the full year without masterbating


lol...how else would i have endured no sex for the two years i went without...if it werent for masturbation...there'd be a lot of dead people around me...lol
 Cogie36

Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 460
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Posted: 12/16/2008 9:28:08 AM
I think we can go without sex if we dont have a partner and dont want to sleep with every man we see on the street......but....thats why toys were created

In keeping with what was written in the post tho.......why would someone want to go without sex if they had a steady partner......I dunno about you women out there.......but I sure wouldnt......havent found anything better yet..
 flcntrygirl80

Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 461
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Posted: 12/16/2008 2:19:58 PM
I went 4 years and it really didnt bother me. Sex is not important to me at all, unless i am in a relationship with someone with whom I can have that amazing mind blowing toe curling sex.
 debradky

Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 462
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Posted: 12/16/2008 7:37:29 PM
yes women can go without sex,but only the ones that truly believe that sex is to happen only with the man she loves.if shes not in a realationship,she will wait until she finds him...i sit and listen evey day about what women want from their men.diamonds,a nice home,their checkbook.it really makes me sick,the way people use people.is .i have learened over the years that all people care about is sex,drugs and money...Out of the mouth of a counrty girl...............
 LQQKing for

Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 463
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Posted: 12/16/2008 9:13:06 PM
Happy Holidays Everybody!!

Unfortunately, I have personal experience with this topic. I have been without sex for almost three years now, and that's including the time with my now ex-husband. He was more interested in his personal satisfaction.

I know some women who HAVE to have sex, no matter who it's with b/c of their immense sex drive. As for me, sex is only with the man I love and that I will NOT compromise. So Yes, women can really go without sex!!
 yewzd

Joined: 6/3/2007
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Posted: 12/17/2008 10:24:40 PM
sure.

no sex beats bad sex.

no sex beats an unaffectionate dork who's "uncomfortable" holding hands, kissing, or performing any other specifically non-sexual behaviors which generally lead the way to great nookie.

So, yeah. and after many months and too many conversations, withholding has not gotten his attention. I just don't care.

Affectionates just can't be with unaffectionates. Just too bad you can't always discern from the start whether they're unaffectionate or shy . ..
 Blondecharmthe3rd

Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 465
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Posted: 12/18/2008 4:38:41 AM
I could go without, but why on earth would I want to???? I did 14 months after I left my first husband and it was the right thing to do for me. My son needed my time and love to help with the transition and I needed the time to get to know myself.

But I would prefer not to go through it again.
 anchors

Joined: 12/4/2008
Msg: 466
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Posted: 12/18/2008 3:32:03 PM
Sure, I can. I've gone my whole life without sex. I'm still a virgin (due to religious reasons) and waiting till marriage. Yeah, you don't hear that everyday. I'm one of a kind. I sure as hell can't wait to get married though, so I can finally make some deep, passionate love. I'm wanting to burst out now, but it's all about control which I have plenty of.

Dude, you've gotta leave this lady. She's just using you. (If someone is wanting to see less of you, that means they're losing interest. Trust me, I've learned this from experience). Sure, it'll be hard to move on, but you need to find someone that'll be just into YOU (and not someone else).
 Huntington24

Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 467
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Posted: 12/18/2008 3:35:35 PM
Your that old and your asking a question about not getting enough sex, dump her ass and get a lady that likes to **** as much as you do
 Awesomeone08

Joined: 9/17/2008
Msg: 468
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Posted: 12/22/2008 8:28:31 PM
it certainly seems so.
 BlueFiddle

Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 469
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 12/22/2008 9:04:48 PM
I think that her being unhappy in her current situation is causing her lack of a sex drive. When I'm pissed off and stressed about a situation I'm in- sex is the last thing on my mind. Since you guys don't see eachother that often, I'm sure when you do get to see her you're ready for sex. Not that that's all you're thinking about but put yourself in her shoes- she's living with a guy she doesn't wanna be with- whether she's staying with him for the company, financial reason, etc...it doesn't matter. Maybe she's just so happy to be around someone whom she really genuinely cares for that sex isn't on her mind- she's just relieved to be cared for by someone. But that's just my opinion.
 LonestarStar

Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 470
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 12/22/2008 9:25:10 PM
If I'm not in a relationship, I can easily go without sex, but not without BOB!
If I have someone in my life, then there's no way in hell I could go without. Bad sex, or not.
 ClaireStewart

Joined: 7/21/2007
Msg: 471
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Posted: 12/23/2008 6:05:34 AM
All women are diffrent not all can keep there legs shut
 HoneyI`mHome

Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 472
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Posted: 12/23/2008 8:26:11 AM

She said she could go a year without it!




a year?????.. .. good lord i couldn`t go a year w/o sex!.. my cat would start looking to good then!.. ..
 sunnybunny60

Joined: 8/4/2006
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Posted: 12/23/2008 9:00:44 AM

All women are diffrent not all can keep there legs shut
Don't believe everything your mom tought you....she just had to tell you certain things

good lord i couldn`t go a year w/o sex!.. my cat would start looking to good then!


Women can live without sex as long as they have to...so do men....but why would they?

maybe because they hope to meet a prince Charming on the white horse? is sex on the horse supposed to be better

People, get life....sex is a must. If you are unable to fall in love - get what you can - great sex with someone who enjoys sex with you...and try to share yourself without that amazing love which might never happen

ps I am a woman..an old one...I believed in fairy tales at my time...which I regret
 miss gotti

Joined: 4/24/2008
Msg: 474
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Posted: 12/23/2008 9:18:34 AM
yes they can, i have done for a year now, all men want is sex and i just wont give in to them, and when they say they want to be friends with you, dont believe them, there rotten minded... ye can do without it girls.... i can anyway...
 WomanInProgress

Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 12/23/2008 9:24:43 AM
Well, if it's not good sex, then yeah, I can go without it forever.

Honestly, most men AND women can go without sex, but choose not to. It's not required to survive outside of propogation of the species, and Lord knows the w0rld's seen enough of that.

Having said that, sure I CAN go without even when single, but what would be the point? I'd rather have it than not - and I have too many options not to. *shrug*
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