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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 4:40:12 AM | | Just because a woman is not having sex with you does not mean she's doing without. But, as for your question, of course women can do without sex. I was celibate for 7 years once, by choice. Any woman who chooses to be single is doing without at some point, unless she is promiscuous and having anything that wears pants. People will say anything on these forums to make you think they are ultra sexy, but common sense should prevail. Since some women seem to prefer pleasuring themselves, maybe you should define what you mean by "sex", as in doing without. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 5:01:23 AM | | Yes, some women can go without sex I prefer no sex to meaningless sex. I personally need to have some emotions behind it. Women have alternatives other than men. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 7:29:43 AM | | Well, in my book some females or very strong and then can hold it down with out sex for some time but you also have some that got to have 24'7, | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 10:39:51 AM | You bet we can! I've gone 7 years without it and to tell you the truth, I wouldn't know what it looked like if I fell over it, providing it was long enough. lol They say it's like riding a bike, well, I can't do that either. Unless of course, it had 3 or 4 wheels. lol
Good luck honey, maybe she'll come around. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 11:04:08 AM | Yes women can go without sex. Women use sex as a loss leader to get men in the door of the relationship.
Ask any woman what her romantic ideal might be. To many woman, the prrrrfect romantic evening would be spent on a beach somewhere, holding hands on a moonlit night. Or candlelight, a soft sofa, and endless hours of romantic chemistry expressed through intimate conversation and closeness. Endless eye contact, holding hands, some kissing and talking and talking and talking and talking and talking and talking.
What would the same be for a guy? The perfect place, the perfect chemistry, the THE PERFECT BODY TYPE, less talk is the best talk and endless hours of delicious hot sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex and more sex.
Truly yours,
Howie in Sacramento | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 2:32:31 PM | Remember, sex and love, are two different things, they ccan be correlated, but they are still different. One can feel love for someone without having sex, and one can have sex without feeling love. Therefore, she may very well love you, and if she says she does, then trust her...that does not mean she has to have sex.
It is very possible to date someone and not have sex with them, to love someone and nothave intimate relations, love is a feeling, sex is an act, its important not to confuse the two.
so yes, its is really true, she can probably do that. make sure you can, and if you love her as you say, consider giving it a try, it may be a ton better in the end. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 7:29:40 PM | | She is not ugly! She is very pretty and I thought I was very good to her. I wanted to be with her anytime she wanted to see me. And she never had to want for anything! If I even thought she needed something I went out and got it! So I don't understand whats up!!!! | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 9:07:34 PM | Well, I'm not dead yet!  It's been awhile, but I'm getting pissy. 
My problem is that I'm not easy. I guess. Maybe that's hers too. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 9:55:22 PM | | Sex isn't everything. Sure we get horny but there are other ways of satisfying yourself. Every women is different mind you. Some women feel they would die if sex wasn't part of their life. Me personally i love it, but i won't die without it. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 9:56:19 PM | the reason i put up with it is 2 kids and the internet, nothing more ( for god sake she really believes a "normal" man has sex for 5 min and he is done, not hours)
She doens't masterbate (i had to explain what it is), clit cut off at birth (african but still not a reason her friends enjoy sex), and believes that i am addicted to sex because i want it more than once a year.. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 10:22:53 PM | | Is not that women can go without sex...the sex is different chemistry for individuals...you see man or women wanted sex all the time and get stress if not getting...the call sexual active, also we have ppl can wait sex or not thinking about till they found the perfect partner...we see rarely women or men don't like sex at all..I read one time women shes does not like at all and not filling sex at all .. she have once a month to pledge her husband..and keep the relationship health..we cant put same position for all women's...or all men's...how you think is how you feel how you feel is how you do.. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 11:06:01 PM | I think the real question here is why is she living with this other man, but your soul-mate. I am not one to criticize, and don't have answers, but that would be my main concern, if I were in your situation.
Women, or people, can "go without" sex. There is no medical reason to show different. My partner has been ill for many years and I have abstained through it. I think most people would agree they would enjoy sex in the right circumstances for them. But in this day and age, it is important to take things just a little slower. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 11:08:00 PM | I am going through a similar situation with a girl who was my childhood sweetheart, finally hooked up 31 months ago and I am 36 years of age. She broke up with me after 28 months and now she wants me back again, after i already found a new girl. Well the long and short of it, is that all women are different, some can go without it forever and some can go without it at all. So eventually a woman who wants to have sex with you will find you, you may have to encourage it just a lil bit, but when she offers take her up on it. the other one will come around when she wants it. If all she wants is the security of knowing someone loves her, well give her that, and get want you want, it just may be with someone else...presto change O everyone is happy..
Thats what i am doing until someone wants to fully commit, I am playing the freakin games just like them, condoms, vasectomies and the shot are wonderful items...not to mention Cell phones, email and most of all text messaging..LOL
get it wet and keep it that way.....but don't be surprised if they aren't doin the same thing.
Good luck brother.....One cannot control another human being, so why be controlled...play
F$&K the game don't let the game F$&K you  | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 11:08:53 PM | | Perhaps, and this is just a thought, she is enjoying having her cake and eating it too. Does she want to live with you, marry you? | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/12/2005 11:21:48 PM | they all like their damn cake and eat it to...thats why they call them women...I am a sensitive guy, and I wish everyone played by the rules....yes there are rules...just ask anyone who has been married over 25 years...thats what I wish I had...
But because the rules aren't followed we would have to be utter fools to believe that there is fairness and the rules will be followed.
Everyone has been played in one shape or form, but remember....Forever heart you break, your will eventually be broken....sometimes we are forced to change who we are as a person to avoid getting lost and trampled.
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 5:04:59 AM |
I have been seeing what I thought was my soul mate but I am starting to think different! She has been living with this guy for many years (NOT MARRIED) and she contacted me. We started talking and she told me she was so very unhappy. We started dating (5 months now) and we had made plans to get married one day. Then she started seeing me less and less (still telling me she LOVES me every day) She tells me that all I want is to have sex and she "isn't that way". That is not true, Its just that we don't see each other much so I guess it sort of looks that way! Sex is not everything but it is part of it! So I don't understand!! She said she could go a year without it! Come on girls ,Is this really true??? I don't see how someone can say they Love you and can't stand to be away from You and still go without sex! HELP!!!!!!
So she says.
I feel that she's covering something up. My guess is, when a woman comes up with a stupid lie like this, her feelings for you have changed but she doesn't want to hurt you. The truth may reveal itself in time, or it may not. I suggest that you move on, or she's going to keep stringing you along, playing headgames, and lying. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 5:10:19 AM | | What a bizarre situation, FlaNative. By all appearances, you're being played like a fiddle. She is married and lives with one man yet she says she loves you. That's sick. If there's no love then she shouldn't be in that relationship...what on earth is she doing there!? As far as I'm concerned, professing your love for one person while you're married to another is cheating...and here she is talking about her morals? I think that's sick. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 5:21:55 AM | | You know what I love about these forums. 18 and 19 year old kids talking like they actually know. You haven't even found out about what living is yet. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 5:29:38 AM | | I think you're asking the wrong question hon. The question would have to be...is she going without sex. Think about it; would you live with a woman for five years if you weren't getting any? She may have been unhappy and/or bored and you provided her with an escape from that. However, a good woman wouldn't have been making wedding plans with you while living and sleeping with another man. It may be time to take the blinders off, you think? Anyone COULD go a lifetime without sex, but that doesn't mean they are. And as a woman I can tell you that before she'll admit that she was in the wrong...she's gonna try to turn the table and make you feel like you were in the wrong. It's a built in defense mechanism that I'm sure all people have, but women are better at using it. As for saying I love you...it's just three words. It's the behavior that goes with them that makes it an emotion and I'm not hearing it in what you've told us. She used you...take some time to grieve for your heart and move on | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 5:46:39 AM | She doens't masterbate (i had to explain what it is), clit cut off at birth (african but still not a reason her friends enjoy sex), and believes that i am addicted to sex because i want it more than once a year..
What an evil practice clit circumcision is. How do you know her friends really enjoy sex even though they are mutilated? Maybe they are just putting on a brave face. Sounds like she has some actual physical problems to overcome. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/13/2005 6:00:40 AM | Some ppl don't care for sex,i personally never confuse intimacy and sex.Sex is hard rock slam down break a dead sweat and no not with myself but my partner.Intimacy,holding hands,cuddling.I don't want to go without either.Maybe some women got tired of the 5 minute slam bam from there man.
As for the comment they spread there legs like butter,,,,,,,,men are always ready with the bread to clean it up. | |
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