| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/2/2009 9:58:44 PM |
Could ya have a word with my wife then please? She doesn`t want sex! Or use the toys I bought her(to spice things up)! ;(
Umm.. you're married and your on a dating website? OK.. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/2/2009 9:59:41 PM | | Yes women can. I can't stand sex. Have never liked it. I'll fake it though just so the guy will leave me alone about it. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/2/2009 10:03:44 PM |
Sex has to "right" or it's not worth having if you ask me.
I agree to a point. Normally, no I wouldn't bother with crappy sex just to have it. BOB gets me off every time. But I'd rather have lousy sex with someone I love than not at all. The intimacy is well worth it.
Now, I just need to fall in love with someone I have great sex with! Problem solved! | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 8:06:52 AM | mz sombody....I belive you are an Extrodinary person,desireable,passionate...probaly the realist woman on this site.
Like you said sex isn't the "end all be all"... but it is part of it...I honestly may not have all the answers..but I share your grief when you show sombody true affection and they turn a blind eye on it or they scurry away...
Best of luck to you Mz sombody... | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 1:54:53 PM |
Yes women can. I can't stand sex. Have never liked it. I'll fake it though just so the guy will leave me alone about it.
WOW, didn't really beleive women like this existed until I read this post. I can go without it, but I love it. I would NEVER want to get with a guy who just faked it until I left him alone about it. Do you actually think a guy can't tell that you aren't into it? This whole statement just makes me sad for people.
Now, I just need to fall in love with someone I have great sex with! Problem solved!
Me too, LOL, problem solved :-) | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 2:22:31 PM | I think there are plenty of women who can do without sex. Prefer to, in fact. I also think this is true of many men. I just wish they'd be honest and up front about so they could find each other and live together in their lovely siblingness, and leave the rest of us out of it. Unluckily, that's not the case. They lie and suck you in, and when there's quite a lot at stake (like a marriage and/or kids) they let the cat out of the bag, and tell you that *you* are just going to have to do without because *they* are not all that interested.
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 2:30:15 PM | i plead the fifth... no not this woman! enough said. sex is very important in a relationship and in life... just my 2 cents!
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 2:32:28 PM |
Yes women can. I can't stand sex. Have never liked it. I'll fake it though just so the guy will leave me alone about it.
I think people who feel this way should be forced to put it on their profile, and perhaps carry it printed on business cards they can hand out to potential dates in real life.
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 2:43:08 PM | Can women really go without sex????? Why would they want to???? Sex is an expression, emotion, spiritual intensity and a release all in one......or two or three if you're multiple.......YUMMY!!!!! Hell you don't even need to have a relationship to enjoy hot, intense sex......You can be your own play toy if you know what pleasures you.....Too many women have been let down and decieved about the possibilities of their own orgasmatic abilities..... We find the greatest pleasures within ourselves and have failed to act upon the desires within. We can give to ourselves what few men take the time to give to us....insurmountable pleasure, multiple orgasims and a warm glowing hot sexy feeling all the way down to the toes. MMMhhhhhh.....Oh yeah we have the ability to love ourselves OVER and OVER and OVER again.......No fear of rejection, being cheated on, transmitted diseases or pregnancy.......Self love is erotic......You always get exactly what you want and need, everytime!!!! Not that I am against having a partner but until I find one worthy of my passions, desires and sexual intimacies.... I will handle it just fine on my own!!!!! Because Sex is one of our greatest primative needs and I do not need to go without it!!!!! Ok bring on the responses to that one!!!! LOL | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 2:56:00 PM |
Message: Can women really go without sex????? Why would they want to???? Sex is an expression, emotion, spiritual intensity and a release all in one......or two or three if you're multiple.......YUMMY!!!!! Hell you don't even need to have a relationship to enjoy hot, intense sex......You can be your own play toy if you know what pleasures you.....Too many women have been let down and decieved about the possibilities of their own orgasmatic abilities..... We find the greatest pleasures within ourselves and have failed to act upon the desires within. We can give to ourselves what few men take the time to give to us....insurmountable pleasure, multiple orgasims and a warm glowing hot sexy feeling all the way down to the toes. MMMhhhhhh.....Oh yeah we have the ability to love ourselves OVER and OVER and OVER again.......No fear of rejection, being cheated on, transmitted diseases or pregnancy.......Self love is erotic......You always get exactly what you want and need, everytime!!!! Not that I am against having a partner but until I find one worthy of my passions, desires and sexual intimacies.... I will handle it just fine on my own!!!!! Because Sex is one of our greatest primative needs and I do not need to go without it!!!!! Ok bring on the responses to that one!!!! LOL
Ummm, you maybe should get out more? 
Yeah, sure, Leaves of Grass and all that, but, are you, like, a purveyor of adult sex aids? | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 8:20:54 PM | Both sexes can go without and some want to go without..........Mind over matter...lots of cold showers and keep busy works for me....
I havent had sex in 4-5mths...because I don't want casual....thats not to say I don't like it ...infact im the opisite...anytime kinda girl ...god help my next fella ...think i'll have to be locked away for a month to make up fot it....... | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 8:57:48 PM | Ummm, you maybe should get out more?
Yeah, sure, Leaves of Grass and all that, but, are you, like, a purveyor of adult sex aids?
Hey now thats an idea a purveyor of adult sex aids!!!! I LIKE IT!!!  OMG what does this banana remind you of? Never mind I'm sorry what were you saying??? LOL | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 9:02:55 PM | | There are a few people that say they have gone several months without it. In my opinion, several months is different than over a year. When I went over a year without sex (a whole freaking year!?!? after having sex all the time with my ex,,,,) it was a real milestone. I learned a lot about myself during that time, I reunited with God, got a promotion and more. It was great and it IS possible. Then I ruined it all a few months ago when I decided to finally date. Duh. Sex still isn't important and I learned the hard way that you HAVE to be friends before lovers or you will just get hurt. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 9:04:08 PM |
Hey now thats an idea a purveyor of adult sex aids!!!! I LIKE IT!!! OMG what does this banana remind you of? Never mind I'm sorry what were you saying??? LOL
You're just oozing talent, imo. Lol. You pretty much sold me!  | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 9:32:52 PM |
t was a real milestone. I learned a lot about myself during that time, I reunited with God, got a promotion and more. It was great and it IS possible. Then I ruined it all a few months ago when I decided to finally date.
Hah! It's so Seinfeldian, You are George, my friend! | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/3/2009 10:13:29 PM | Yes women can go without sex but not longer than we can  and for any lady out there that thinks im BSing well guess again we men do not say OK im going to have sex with you (whoever the girl might be), its the ladies accepting to have sex with us not the other way around, so the normal thing is that we dont have it when we want it always so we are OK, but oh man tell a woman that offers herself to you that you dont want any, and you will truly understand the meaning of the phrase "Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman Scorned"  | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/4/2009 9:54:24 AM | I can ONLY speak for myself, but if I'm not in a relationship with a man, I sort of "turn off the switch" so to speak. I don't feel the "need" to have sex with a man for the sake of "getting off".
On the other hand, if I'm in a relationship with a man, he won't know what hit him as I've heard that once you start being intimate with someone, you want more and more and more....
Just my two cents...
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/4/2009 10:33:14 AM |
AND i would guesstimate since I have been on here? IMHO at least 95% of the men on here are looking for ASS and the at least 3% are SUCKER FISH like you!
I guess that leaves me in the 2% then. 
Yes women can go without sex but not longer than we can and for any lady out there that thinks im BSing well guess again we men do not say OK im going to have sex with you (whoever the girl might be), its the ladies accepting to have sex with us not the other way around, so the normal thing is that we dont have it when we want it always so we are OK, but oh man tell a woman that offers herself to you that you dont want any, and you will truly understand the meaning of the phrase "Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman Scorned"
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/4/2009 1:07:02 PM | Sex is everything unfortunately. When a female says something like all you want is sex, she is trying to neutralize you by making you feel guilty so you don't ask her for sex because she doesn't want it from you. It is the old jedi mind trick and it works on most men.
How can sex not be everything? The only reason I exist is because of sex. If I can't get sex, I'm gone. If I can't get sex when I want it, I'm gone. If I can't get sex regularly, I'm out. If I can't get good sex, I'm moving on. It is that simple. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/4/2009 1:19:02 PM | | You are asking the wrong questions partner... first of all.. if she is living with a fella and is unhappy, why is she still there, every person is in the relationship that they want.. when they dont want it anymore, they change it.. your getting played partner.. the girl is in love with the idea of you... not you... do yourself a favor and look for a girl that is serious about being with one person.... the sex issue is a totally different subject.. people engage in sex when it is comfortable with both parties and the time is right.. there is no set time limit.. but i will tell you if nothing has happened yet.. probably never will... dont be discouraged.. just hunt for proper game.. | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/5/2009 4:45:34 PM | A woman can do what she makes up her mind to do. If she chooses not to have sex for a long period of time, she can do it. It may be different for men (can't speak for them). But good women don't feel right when after a year or two of sleeping with one man, turn around and start sleeping with another (if it's even that long). Most women are private - mysterious and creatures of deep sensuality and, yes, lust. The right kind of man can make her feel that she does not - will not, want to go without an intimate connection. Sex and intimacy are beautiful and can fulfill her in many ways, but . . . gotta be with the right man. She's selective because she wants it to be right and believe me he'll know when he's the one and she will give it all she's got.  | |
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| Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/5/2009 4:50:50 PM | | In my experience that usually means her interest in you is either fading or lost altogether. I've been the same way with certain people, after which I would end the relationship. Some people are terrified with the breakup process and will not be that merciful. | |
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