Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > Can women really go without sex????      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 Confident247
Joined: 1/1/2009
Msg: 526
Can women really go without sex????Page 22 of 25    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25)
Women can go with out sex for years after they get married, lol.
 peeachy
Joined: 8/5/2007
Msg: 527
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/5/2009 5:52:33 PM
Sure we can, you can too...but why the hell would we want to
 sounds good to me
Joined: 3/2/2009
Msg: 528
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/10/2009 4:12:43 PM
to footballmom77, you need help, you should talk to someone, i hope nothing bad happen when you were young. i love sex, always feels good, a stress releaver, brings you much closer to your loved one, try to enjoy the moment, don't think, let your body talk, maybe your bi/gay i don't know i just hope it works out cause your missing out on the best part of life good luck
 mandakay
Joined: 3/4/2009
Msg: 529
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/10/2009 5:24:00 PM
I don't think her reconnecting with herself, and finding fulfillment in other things means she's bi/gay. I think it means she took time to really look at her life.
 NESunshine
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 530
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/10/2009 5:34:59 PM
We can. It's not because we want to.

I prefer sex with intimacy. Nothing can compare.

Sex without intimacy, I'd pass on knowing that I don't have feelings or the potential for a healthy relationship to develop. I'd rather go home and use Bob, Tom,****and Harry from my toybox instead.
 KurvvyKat
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 531
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/10/2009 7:36:21 PM
Sad to say but yes it is true. I went for 5 years without then joined the "born again virgins" club...lol
 coca2
Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 532
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/11/2009 2:38:33 PM
The older I'm getting the easier it is. And the desire becomes less. I'm actually glad that I feel this way now. I can focus and accomplish on more important things in my life.
 KylaKiKi
Joined: 1/26/2009
Msg: 533
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/11/2009 11:13:45 PM
yes women can go without sex.... its not that we want to but could be a personal choice... but sounds like ur girl isn't into sex that often so maybe u better rethink marrying her.... and something else... if ur not seeing each other that often then it does seem to be just about sex if thats all u want to do when u see her think about her and not urself
 angelbrighteyes
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 534
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/12/2009 1:21:25 AM
(she told me she was so very unhappy)...Quoted by the op.

When people have an unhappy streak in them when you meet, they need to be lifted, and this is what you have done. I think she is not into you, as much as maybe she should be, because she realizes she is now getting someone who cares and why should she give sex when it was not what she craved for in the first place. She has your caring side, and that is what she needed. I expect she has sex on her own, like most. You can love someone with out sex. I feel if she was more stable at the beginning you might not be writing this. It is wise to go into a relationship with people who are up together and not on a deep low. I personally feel she is finding that she may not fancy you in the sexual way as much as she should, this can happen when a person is low and unhappy at the beginning. But she seems as if she cares deeply for you and loves the way you care for her. Just my opinion
 wildman0067
Joined: 3/10/2008
Msg: 535
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/12/2009 7:45:19 AM
they made a cure for women and them wanting sex it was called a wedding cake ask just about any man who has been or is married it works . lol hell ya think that stuff was gold and they keep it locked up like ft knox
 rhodyep
Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 536
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/12/2009 11:56:20 AM
I was married for 30 years and hated having sex with my husband. He actually tried waitng me out once. He realized I could forever. I got divorced and met a guy and had the most wonderful sex, that was when I couldn't go without for a day. I would question this thing.
 cute_asme
Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 537
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/16/2009 4:51:29 PM
i can go without sex....if i'm not in love..they don't get it..period !!sex is wonderful when there is feeelings involved, that's the only way i go
 freesoulck
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 538
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/16/2009 7:56:58 PM
I see this as usual. She may be under stress or just not in a mood to do it. With the time goes by, people usually treat relationship as a spiritual thing instead of a physical one. She might be under some medical conditions too. I believe even man like me doesn't feel like doing it sometimes.
 1984,loveis
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 539
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/16/2009 8:43:51 PM
Somebody e-mailed me : " If you do not have sex you will go insane..."And you know it is true.
In my personal experience, it is right, no touch of any form nearly destroyed me.
I still am a woman, i want to live....
My ex did not want me anymore... 8 years i endured HELL... I cried myself to sleep in our queen size bed, while he slept on the couch. Yet i could not cheat. Because i loved HIM. Many a time I wished i was heartless... to go to the bar and find a one night stand.. but i could not do it, because i am not HEARTLESS.
Your girl is still in a relationship with her common law, you come as a second... FIND someone worthwhile of your LOVE... (not just physical)
How does the old adage goes? .... 2 is COMPANY , 3 is a CROWD.
 1984,loveis
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 540
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/16/2009 8:45:21 PM
Says who?
Hated every minute of it I am HURT, DISSAPOINTED DESILUTIONED it is not true
 forumologist
Joined: 2/23/2008
Msg: 541
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/16/2009 9:37:19 PM
Don't be rediculous.

Many women settle for guys they aren't really attracted to and many men change how they treat women once they have married them. That's why women have a reputation for not wanting sex when they are married. Most don't even know they are doing it and claim to "love" their SO but they don't. They don't even know what passionate love is.

The truth is...

she's just not that into you

sorry.......but you know it's true.
 lucy_pher
Joined: 3/2/2009
Msg: 542
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/16/2009 10:37:45 PM
HELL NO!!!! I WOULD GO CRAZY!!! 9/10 if you ask me what I'm thinking about it's probably sex hands down. She's getting it from the other dude and is just stringing you along.
 sexysicliano
Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 543
view profile
History
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/28/2009 10:44:22 PM
HELL NO!!
Sex is one of the greatest pleasures in life.
It's what makes 2 people closer if done right.
If he's hot and he turns me on and he just does it for me he's mine baby!!
If I know he is not all about sex and he wants to play every chance
we can when we can.........I'd beat him to the bedroom.
If we were together everyday I'd still beat him to the bedroom...
 MandaKay
Joined: 3/14/2009
Msg: 544
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/28/2009 10:52:29 PM

If you do not have sex you will go insane...


What is a person is already insane? I don't miss sex. Stopped having it 6 months ago. Even stopped solo play time. Life has gotten so much better. I'm happier now than I've ever been.
 bella4u4ever
Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 545
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 4/1/2009 7:28:43 PM
You can't.... not if you're in love anyway. at the beginning you are always like rabbits.... she must be getting it from someone else.
 bigben1731
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 546
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 4/1/2009 8:43:32 PM
well i havent had sex for the last 13 years so those that raised the red im sure woman would love sex weekly it depends its there bodies
 moniquesea
Joined: 10/12/2007
Msg: 547
view profile
History
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 4/1/2009 9:43:22 PM
Just like for men, it depends on hormones, specifically, how much testosterone a woman has. You can be tested and get put on bio-identical testosterone from a compounding pharmacy. It doesn't work for everyone and might be bad for women with uterine fibroids. It's complicated! Men also have problems with low testosterone!
 Billabongdude06
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 548
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 4/2/2009 11:08:04 AM
Well I've never had sexual intercourse, I have only experienced oral sex, like she did it to me, and I did it to her, but it was easy for me because she initiated it, she initiated first contact with me. Overall, how are guys able to get a one night stand or hook up with a girl at a Bar or Club? how do guys initiate it? what do they say to the girl? what they do talk about? and what are you not supposed to ask or talk about?
 FloridaGal00
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 549
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 4/3/2009 9:41:07 AM
Sure Ive been celibate by choice for quite a while before...I told the guys however that it was by choice what I am not looking for at that time...Funny thing is they still came around quite a bit and tried even harder each thinking they were special enough to change my mind.......
 LadyBoBina
Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 550
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 4/3/2009 9:57:29 AM
I know I can. It's been 2 1/2 years for me. I just don't want "anybody". I would rather go without it rather than jump in the sack with just anyone.
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > Can women really go without sex????