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| Joined: 2/17/2009 Msg: 551 | |
| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 4/11/2009 9:49:50 AM | | I think everyone should go with out sex at sometime or another. Just to get a reality check, to get back to looking for a meaning relationship, instead of just hot sex with someone that you eventually wake up next to, and you realize you have nothing in common. | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 4/11/2009 5:26:28 PM | | Are you kidding? Are you really asking this? And who on here said if you are ugly you can go with out? We are all sexual beings. Some of us have more testrostrone (sp) or haromones than others and might need intervention to be healthy again. Age can get our bodies out of sinc as having children but in "normal" circumstance we are all sexual beings and my believe are hard wierd for partners. Even those with serious injuries that cannot physically engage in the act have the urge. Sex friends and love starts in the "brain". But love is not the actual act of sex. It is a result of it. Maybe she was using it as an excuse and there were other factors, she might be ill or extereme stress can effect how you respond in the bedroom. It is the act of giving one's self and if you are preoccupied or ill.... it makes a difference. Communication is so important from the very beginning of any relationship. We are all just a little different. Talk to her not us. | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 4/12/2009 2:36:39 AM | | I see this thread was posted 4 years ago. The OP does still have an active profile here, but i wonder if he even remembers he posted this thread! lol So to the OP, if you are out there and reading this (lol), an update would be nice on your situation! lol Has she warmed up yet after 4 years or not or are you even still with her? | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 4/13/2009 2:41:56 AM | | Since I'm single...and as much as it sucks...yes, I can go without sex. When in a relationship???....nooooo way!!!...I go into over-drive then!..hehehe | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 4/13/2009 5:34:15 AM | | Could also be a case of mis-matched sex drives. Some women (and men!) do have lower drives than others. Some of us have higher drives. And some of us are celibate by choice waiting for the right relationship. | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 4/16/2009 6:54:30 AM | i am not fat or ugly either and have been without sex for over five years now and i wont just give it away i want a man to love me and want to be with me first i dont need it i just want it with a partner not some random person | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 4/16/2009 7:01:40 AM |
Can women really go without sex????
If that were the case, there wouldn't be a multi-billion dollar sex toy industry. | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 5/5/2009 1:47:10 PM | I can go without sex, when I am single just fine. I love myself splendidly...lol But while in a relationship, no. I want my pants to be thriving with action. | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 5/5/2009 1:52:51 PM | [/i am not fat or ugly either and have been without sex for over five years now and i wont just give it away i want a man to love me and want to be with me first i dont need it i just want it with a partner not some random person]
Give it away? Are you kidding me? What is the "it" that you are talking about? Is it a commodity or something? Its supposed to be for your pleasure too as much as his! 5 years is a long time! Are you sure your p*ssy isn't dried up and wrinkled by now? Use it or lose it babe...who knows what tomorrow brings!
BTW, I want a woman to love me too. Not just as a sex partner or someone who pays the bills and takes her places. Its a two way street! | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 5/5/2009 2:00:26 PM | | women can go without sex when it isn't very good... as soon as they get it really mind blowing then they would find going without to be an ordeal! | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 5/6/2009 4:08:27 AM | | ITS TRUE! Women can go a year or longer without sex. Its not hard for women to do. I've seen girls go yrs without it! | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 5/6/2009 4:53:06 AM | | em_monkee: I agree with you, they can go longer, but guess what my friend.....they end up very frustrated and bitter too. Many if not all take "business" into their own hands.fingers too much more than are willing to admit to you. They are not open about talking about their "horniness" as we men foolishly do, but believe me, it has an effect on them. I've worked with lots of women and have been privy to some of their"private" conversations when they think I wasn't listening. I hear of their frustration and yearning to find a meaningful partner. Also, if we are going to consider masturbation a "sexual act", so many women masturbate. I can't tell you how often I've heard the term BOB tossed around. | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 5/6/2009 1:06:26 PM | | Some can and some can't. She just didn't want to give up the other guy. She's into the drama of love. She gets to love him and you and keep you on the shelf and when she's having problems with boyfriend #1 she turns to you. Lots of women go years without sex. My Grandmother, My Mom, Aunt. They settle for being in a loveless marriage or being widowed(Mom) and just go day to day not thinking about it. Where as I can't stop thinking about it. | |
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| Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 5/6/2009 1:40:15 PM | I can, but why should I have to just because I don't want a relationship or marriage???
Maybe she wants to initiate it sometimes LOL
Make her ask for it  | |
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